Why do men always say our favourite man is GAY?!
Question: I've had this my whole life. I've found several famous men attractive over the years; (actors & music stars,) & my hubby & brother & most other males I know have the hots for Kylie, Beyonce, J-Lo, Cammie Diaz, Kate Winslett, Anji Jolie and so on. Yet virtually EVERY MAN I KNOW; hubby, brother, male workmates etc, ALL say that the men *I* find attractive are GAY.
'Leo is gay', 'Brad is gay' 'Robbie is gay' & so on..' 30 years ago, I liked John Travolta; & my male cousins & my dad said 'he's a puff' (sorry to gay men; I don't mean to offend; this is what THEY said;) & I liked Donny Osmond too ...Yes you guessed it; the men in my life (dad & uncles etc) all said he is a 'puff.' And now my hubby & brother & hubby's mates etc all say this same thing about my fave males stars.
WHY? I don't say Beyonce's a dyke, or Kylie a muffdiver or Angelina a lezzer or whatever. WHY do men say this? This 'he's GAY' retort is SO pathetic; Is this the ONLY thing they can find to say?!
Answers: I've had this my whole life. I've found several famous men attractive over the years; (actors & music stars,) & my hubby & brother & most other males I know have the hots for Kylie, Beyonce, J-Lo, Cammie Diaz, Kate Winslett, Anji Jolie and so on. Yet virtually EVERY MAN I KNOW; hubby, brother, male workmates etc, ALL say that the men *I* find attractive are GAY.
'Leo is gay', 'Brad is gay' 'Robbie is gay' & so on..' 30 years ago, I liked John Travolta; & my male cousins & my dad said 'he's a puff' (sorry to gay men; I don't mean to offend; this is what THEY said;) & I liked Donny Osmond too ...Yes you guessed it; the men in my life (dad & uncles etc) all said he is a 'puff.' And now my hubby & brother & hubby's mates etc all say this same thing about my fave males stars.
WHY? I don't say Beyonce's a dyke, or Kylie a muffdiver or Angelina a lezzer or whatever. WHY do men say this? This 'he's GAY' retort is SO pathetic; Is this the ONLY thing they can find to say?!
it is a macho thing. It could be they are doing that to deny they are at least bi them selves. who knows they could do it because it annoys you. It differently a Macho stud thing to put down other guys who may look hotter then them. Could be a little jealousy also.
Please...many of the male celebs/artists are gay dear or at least swing both ways...most hot female stars are just hotties...well a few are bi but that's okay with us guys...lol...now I see your point...lol...double std hu?? lol
Travolta is so gay though come on...and richard gere...please...I think brad pitt is 100% straight..with jen aniston and angelina how could he not be???
lol.. i was wondering and i also had did some of this thing to others, if u mention leo, yes he is, i mean from the way he act and his pic, cmon..
brad is fine and john travolta is realy gay, i watched him in pulp fiction, and i was like, wow he is so gay!! no offense!
i think it all relly to the macho and manly act or movies selection by actors.. its tough, i know!!
we will not say that, Bruce willis or Denzel washington gay?? why??
cos they had proove it to us that they are manly, you know..
about beyonce or kylie, well girls act diffrent, they are a hotty cos of their body, not of movie selection or pose.. like i said its tough!!
but like who ever u like, its free world after all! ;)
I agree with sassy lass. Men behave like this coz they are jealous of these gorgeous sexy men who lots of women fancy and they can't stand it that they don't have what they have. They are jealous of the fame, the looks, the money, the works. The spiteful remarks like 'oh Leo is 'obviously gay, just look at his photos,' are just ridiculous.
I find it hilarious that most men seem to want to believe that people like Leo DiCaprio and John Travolta and Orlando Bloom and suchlike are gay. JUST because they are not big muscle men, or hard-men who do tough action roles, they must be gay!!! How pathetic and narrow-minded.
The men who say this are so jealous and so insecure. No wonder their women look to other men for something. I couldn't stand that kind of man around me; jealous bitchy and catty. Now men making bitchy spiteful and mean remarks about other men... well THAT sounds a bit gay to me! LOL!
And of course, all the gorgeous sexy women like Beyonce, Kylie, Angelina etc couldn't possibly be lesbians could they?! Oh no, that's not possible! But all the men we fancy are gay! LOL! You men don't know how stupid you sound when you say this! (as well as patheically insecure...!)