I'm obsessed with Hilary Duff and I cant stop idolizing everything she does.!
Question: I'm obsessed with Hilary Duff and I cant stop idolizing everything she does!.!?
I am 18, Hilary has been my role model since I was 12, and it only grows more with each passing year!. The thing is, I dont even know what I like anymore because mainly make myself like things she likes, like how I got the exact same cellphone and pink ipod nano as her JUST because she has them when I wanted a different cellphone/ipod!. I mainly act exactly like her, I study ever interview and have every magazine with her in it, and I use quotes she says or I say things she says in my every day life so I can talk just like her!. I dress like her and constantly buy things very similar to what she wears, from jewellery, to shoes, clothes, bags etc!. I have all the movies where she is the main character, a million posters and over 8,000 pics of her on my personal computer from oh-hilary!.com!. I only hang out with a small group of close friends just like Hilary does, and we would NEVER drink/smoke/party etc, I wouldnt because she doesnt!. I dress like her, act like her, like what she likes and I am constantly obsessing!. I volunteer at a number of different charity events and animal shelters like she does and am interested in a career where I can help people!. I ALWAYS do my hair and make-up like her, and I never tell people off because I know she wouldnt so I have to force myself to be really nice to nerdy guys I hate hitting on me just cause I know she would!. Me and Hilary are both extremely shy and when I want to stand up for myself to my boss and fool around at work I dont because I know she wouldnt do that!. I feel good if I know people see me as a sweet and inncoent girl just like her, and I only feel really happy about myself when I feel like I look like her or act like her!. Im not sure if im missing out on fun by being exactly like her!. Is this unhealthy for me or is it okay!? Should I give this up and just be myself or should I keep being like her to be happy!? I cant decide if I should drop it and just be me or keep living up to her!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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I say good for you =] seriously think that Hilary is the ONLY Disney star that didnt do anything dumb or annoying, like MIley etc, i dont think theres a problem with idolizing a good girl =]Www@Enter-QA@Com
At least you picked a good role model!. I think it is strange that you are so obsessed with the girl!. Can't you just be you!? At 18 I liked a couple of male rock stars but I didn't have to be like them!. I wouldn't let everyone in on your crush!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
This sounds seriously unhealthy!. I think you should see a therapist to find out why you can't create an identity of your own!. There probably are some deeper issues behind your behavior/ obsession!. Maybe you even have a form of OCD!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
although idolizing someones isnt quite healthy, at least shes a good role model
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wow!.
okay, hillary duff is NOT pretty, smart, etc, so she is not a good role model!.
answer mine!? http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/index!?!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
okay, hillary duff is NOT pretty, smart, etc, so she is not a good role model!.
answer mine!? http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/index!?!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have heard that she likes doing lots of obnoxious smelly theatre emptying farts and that she bottles them up and sells them on ebay!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Im sorry to say, but I think its better to be yourself!.
Life is too short to live it like another person!
Just be yourself and you will have soo much more fun!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Life is too short to live it like another person!
Just be yourself and you will have soo much more fun!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Honestly!? I think you should've overgrown this obsession years before you hit 18!. This is unhealthy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
shes so "yesterday"Www@Enter-QA@Com
BE YOURSELF!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
don't obsess!. thats not goood!.
just be yourself!.
drop it, just stop its not healthy!Www@Enter-QA@Com
just be yourself!.
drop it, just stop its not healthy!Www@Enter-QA@Com
that wasn't a question, you shouldn't of put a question mark at the end of it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Is this a joke!? For your sake I hope so!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
You need to come up with your own personality!. I bet you'd like it a lot more than being someone else!.
Bona Fortuna! Www@Enter-QA@Com
Bona Fortuna! Www@Enter-QA@Com
i think this is really sad!.!.!.!.
be yourself!Www@Enter-QA@Com
be yourself!Www@Enter-QA@Com
this is WAY to much to say
get over it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
get over it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
wow!. thats!. messed!. you are an adult pretty much! cut it out and live your life NORMALLY! Hilary Duff isnt that great thankyouverymuch!. geez!. cant believe you are that caught up with her!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Your doing this because your in love with her character and things like that,, come on face reality , shes just a person, you can still be a fan but you don't have to change who you are for another person !.!.!. imagine what kind of life you would have if you wouldn't act like her!.!. stop being something your notWww@Enter-QA@Com
it is
good: you just love her too much
peeps mite see you and thing that you are HILARY and u would probably be a movie star and singer and that
bad: maybe it is coz u love her too much you being like her and if you want to STOP then just get someone to help you out and that
I HOPE I HELPED
tcWww@Enter-QA@Com
good: you just love her too much
peeps mite see you and thing that you are HILARY and u would probably be a movie star and singer and that
bad: maybe it is coz u love her too much you being like her and if you want to STOP then just get someone to help you out and that
I HOPE I HELPED
tcWww@Enter-QA@Com
If your a teenager, its normal to be fascinated with celebrities!. However you have to be yourself! Sounds like your putting on an act to be happy!. This isn't good! It is positive that you aren't doing anything that's bad for you & you are helping people!. That alone should make you feel good! Try to be yourself, but make sure your happy! If your still concerned with this, try talking to a counselor!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
OF COURSE YOU SHOULD DROP IT AND JUST BE YOU!
You say she's really nice, but how would you know!? Just because the media happens to like her doesn't mean she's likeable in real life!. You say she doesn't drink or smoke, but you don't know that!.
You can't look up to a celebrity, they're too distant and change all the time!. One minute they're portrayed like this amazing person, the next you are seeing pictures of them throwing up on the sidewalk outside a club in Hollywood!. And then what are you supposed to think!? It's not fair to you or to the celebrity in question because they never wanted to be an idol, they just wanted to be an actress/singer/whatever!.
You want an idol!? Get a religion!. Hillary Duff is just a human being and prone to change, but God will always be someone to look up to!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You say she's really nice, but how would you know!? Just because the media happens to like her doesn't mean she's likeable in real life!. You say she doesn't drink or smoke, but you don't know that!.
You can't look up to a celebrity, they're too distant and change all the time!. One minute they're portrayed like this amazing person, the next you are seeing pictures of them throwing up on the sidewalk outside a club in Hollywood!. And then what are you supposed to think!? It's not fair to you or to the celebrity in question because they never wanted to be an idol, they just wanted to be an actress/singer/whatever!.
You want an idol!? Get a religion!. Hillary Duff is just a human being and prone to change, but God will always be someone to look up to!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sounds obsessive and stalkerish, I would stop copying her and start being yourself!. Being you is a lot more fun than trying to be a celebrity!.
Although I do think she is a good role model!. Of all the disney girls, she turned out to have the least amount of scandals are blow outs!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Although I do think she is a good role model!. Of all the disney girls, she turned out to have the least amount of scandals are blow outs!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
it's fine to look up to her as a role model, she's obviously had a good influence on you with the no smoking and partying thing, and the being nice to nerds and stuff
There's nothin wrong with that, just don't lose yourself in the process
Maybe your hair and clothes woud look better when you style it yourself, and not just how Hilary does it!? Don't copy everything she does if you don't like it too, find a common ground between your style/ personality and Hilary's
Btw, I love Hilary too, she's such a sweet girl and an amazing role model!. I used to want to be just like her when I watched Lizzie McGuire Www@Enter-QA@Com
There's nothin wrong with that, just don't lose yourself in the process
Maybe your hair and clothes woud look better when you style it yourself, and not just how Hilary does it!? Don't copy everything she does if you don't like it too, find a common ground between your style/ personality and Hilary's
Btw, I love Hilary too, she's such a sweet girl and an amazing role model!. I used to want to be just like her when I watched Lizzie McGuire Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm a pretty big fan of Hilary Duff too (btw, I can't w8 for her up and coming movies)!. She's so down-to-earth and a very good role model!.
I wouldn't say act like her, but she's a good person to look up to!.
Just be yourself, but be kind, don't gain an ego!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I wouldn't say act like her, but she's a good person to look up to!.
Just be yourself, but be kind, don't gain an ego!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
it's not bad to have a rolemodel, but you cant be her forever, you have to make your own identity!. figure out who YOU are as a person, not hilary duffs shadow!. (I used to love her too!.!.!.!.got passed it)!. It's not healthy to follow so close in someones steps, that usually occurs with insecurity!. Be yourself, find out who you are, and have fun in life!. You cant be her forever!. Good luck = ]!. sorry if my message was offensive (didn't mean it like that)Www@Enter-QA@Com
maybe you can take your mind off of her and start idolizing someone you actually know!.!. like a sibling, cousin, parent, etc!. if you really want to stop the obsession throw away the magazines you have of her!.!. just be yourself!.!.!. i used to be obsessed with mia hamm because i thought she was the best soccer player on earth!! i got over that obsession just be yourself and life will be betterWww@Enter-QA@Com