I REALLY screwed up, should i?!


Question:

I REALLY screwed up, should i?

send my hubby flowers at work? he saw an email i wrote to my ex that i recently started talking to again and it said some things about the way i felt for him(when we were together) and now my hubby is really sad because he thinks i want to be with him again. I didn't mean it like that though, and i'm sure the ex isn't going to take it that way, but my sweetie did and i feel so bad. please don't anyone tell me i'm an a sshole because i know already ok. so should i send him flowers or will that just be a bad reminder of what he thinks??

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17 hours ago
to all you that said put this in the marriage secton, i don't have to. it qualifies as an opinion question, therefore has the right to be in P&S. and all my friends are here and i get better answers so you go to another section and annoy someone else.


Answers:

arraya,
your not an -ss! the past is the past and thats all you were talking about.
you two just need to talk it out and put it all on the line. tell him the past is the past and you only want to be with him now, that you're married to him and thats what you want . just reassure him that he has nothing to worry about . build his confidence up in ya'lls relationship. it may take a few days or even weeks to get back to "normal" for him after reading the email, and you just have to constantly reassure him of your love and your mairrage bonds together.
but as for today, send the flowers and write an amazing note on them, make his favorite meal, put the baby to bed early, talk it out, and make up. sometimes when things like this happen it actually makes the relationship stronger because it makes you both realize how lucky you are to have each other .
i hope everything goes back to "normal" for you really soon, and im so sorry for what you are going through right now. but please dont beat yourself up about it. it happened and now its over, you did not write the email in bad intentions, if you did then it would be wrong, but you didnt, so first forgive yourself, and then you can make it up to your hubby. sometimes we have to vent to a person about our past or previous fellings about them, and that doesnt make us wrong, were women and emotional. so tonight just vent to your husband about your present and future feelings for him and only him. it will get better just give it some time. omg i'm sorry this is so long i shouldve just emailed it. ttyl, and i hope you can get this to the back of your mind until your hubby gets home so that you can have a great day.


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