What should I do? Problems with my friend.Need Advice.?!
Question: What should I do!? Problems with my friend!.Need Advice!.!?
My guy-friend is the person who got me into anime and to love the show Naruto!.He was always a HUGE fan, but recently he said that he hasn't been able to watch the show because he was too busy,and i guess im ok with that!.But then today this one guy at our table saw this girl with a Naruto shirt on and said "What a loser!" and said Naruto is a stupid show!.And he asked MY friend if he still likes Naruto and he said "No!." and that guy said "Good!."
I think my friend is giving into this guy because my friend is starting to make fun of people when he never did before,and I'm 100% sure this guy is making him be mean to people because they are like best friends!.
What should I do with this problem!?
Or should I not do anything!?
Please Help! =]Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think my friend is giving into this guy because my friend is starting to make fun of people when he never did before,and I'm 100% sure this guy is making him be mean to people because they are like best friends!.
What should I do with this problem!?
Or should I not do anything!?
Please Help! =]Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
i'll speak in terms of naruto so that u might understand it better of what i'm speaking!. naruto has more good things to offer!. there's loads of moral in it!. one goes like this:
"i'll never give up, its my way of ninja" - if u say he's such a HUGE fan, he wud never give the word he gave u, wen is frnd said it was stupid show, to the other guy it might be stupid!. well i think ur frnd might b very unstable that he'll give away things for mere peer pressure!. i'm sry i'm commenting directly!. but, thats the way i'm!. i wud talked bout this, n let go if nothing good gonna come of it!. u just need to accept the fact he's like that n move on!. der r loads of other fans u can talk to!. i'll help with one such person, me :)
it might b a small issue as denying being fan, i c it as an issue of having unstable mind which i don't count on!. one don't have to like what other likes but he has no right to hurt the self esteem of the other by saying, "what a loser" - its so childishWww@Enter-QA@Com
"i'll never give up, its my way of ninja" - if u say he's such a HUGE fan, he wud never give the word he gave u, wen is frnd said it was stupid show, to the other guy it might be stupid!. well i think ur frnd might b very unstable that he'll give away things for mere peer pressure!. i'm sry i'm commenting directly!. but, thats the way i'm!. i wud talked bout this, n let go if nothing good gonna come of it!. u just need to accept the fact he's like that n move on!. der r loads of other fans u can talk to!. i'll help with one such person, me :)
it might b a small issue as denying being fan, i c it as an issue of having unstable mind which i don't count on!. one don't have to like what other likes but he has no right to hurt the self esteem of the other by saying, "what a loser" - its so childishWww@Enter-QA@Com
He's a guy so naturally he's going to want to be a crowd pleaser!. Just talk to him and tell him he doesn't have to like and dislike what ever everyone does!. I have a friend who doesn't like anime either, I just ignore that fact!. If your friend still acts that way just let things run their course and maybe he'll get over thaat stage!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
you should definately talk to him about it!. You will only know whats wrong if you ask and if he wont tlak just keep saying well youwere never like this ect hope this helpsWww@Enter-QA@Com
You need to tell him how you feel about this whole situation and ask him what is going on!. Get to the bottom of this before you find yourself at the top of his joke list!
Anyway, if he honestly doesn't like NAruto anymore don't push it!. BUT you shouldn't let him make fun of your friends because he doesn't like the show anymore or because he wants to please some guy!. Anime isn't the only hing friendship is based off of!. Trust me!. I ahev many non-Otaku friends who love me for who I am!.
And if he is truly your friend he will understand what you're saying and accept who you are!. Otherwise, to the Ion Cannon with him! Lol!. Jk!.
Best of luck!^-^Www@Enter-QA@Com
Anyway, if he honestly doesn't like NAruto anymore don't push it!. BUT you shouldn't let him make fun of your friends because he doesn't like the show anymore or because he wants to please some guy!. Anime isn't the only hing friendship is based off of!. Trust me!. I ahev many non-Otaku friends who love me for who I am!.
And if he is truly your friend he will understand what you're saying and accept who you are!. Otherwise, to the Ion Cannon with him! Lol!. Jk!.
Best of luck!^-^Www@Enter-QA@Com
alot of people think anime and naruto fans are losers but i dont really care people could be so mean just to make themself feel better and if they dont like it why are they wasting their time talking about it!. thier not wasting my time becuase they i dont really care what they think i choose to be a anime/manga/narutio freak and i dont care if the world knows it actually i want the world to know what i like and what i do!.(thats why i walk around with a naruto head band around my neck hehe)especially in my school not alot of people are anime fans they dont even bother making a anime club(im trying to start a anime club) people are people they could hate ,love ,and choose without being afriad of thoughts :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
You should just advise him to not give in to peer pressure!. If he does not listen!.!.!.!.!.!. then him starting to not like anime or naruto anymore is his choice and you should leave it at that!. If anime is the only thing that is keeping the friendship then forget about him, but if you can be friends without that then !.!.!.!.!.!.!. you get the point!. A healthy relationship ( with a friend) is not just based on something like anime!.!.!. I hope you understand where i am coming from!. It is hard to explain!.
Battousai rocks-I'm a Kenshin otaku!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Battousai rocks-I'm a Kenshin otaku!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Some people can be so childish!. I fond nothing wrong with linking something that others may not!. What you can do is embrace the show, you can show how much you like it and don't care what others think!. Maybe your friend will get the idea and not conform to what every one else wants!. Of that guys starts being mean to you just tell him to f*** off!.
I went through that same thing in middle school when I like Pokemon and no one else did, I am sad to say I didn't have enough courage to say I liked it and stopped watching just to please people but when I got to high school I was like, I hate you all, and I started watching anime again!. I hope your friend can see the error of his ways!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I went through that same thing in middle school when I like Pokemon and no one else did, I am sad to say I didn't have enough courage to say I liked it and stopped watching just to please people but when I got to high school I was like, I hate you all, and I started watching anime again!. I hope your friend can see the error of his ways!.Www@Enter-QA@Com