I am about to cry! someone plz help!?!


Question:

I am about to cry! someone plz help!?

ok there is this girl i talk to on the computer
all threwought the school year shes helped me feel better because these two girls used to makefun of me behinde my back
last night she was acting really weird and talkin to all my other friends but not me
and i just read her profile and it said sleeping over --- and ---- the two girls who made fun of me behinde my back
she was there for me before andi dont know what i did! someone help me!


Answers:

Honey, please listen to this. Girls and women are very very cruel creatures! I should know I am a women! But what you must keep in mind first and foremost is that you are someone special!! Obviously if she is treating you badly, she must have been listening and believing all of the things that the other girls are spewing about you. Girls can be very judgmental and very harsh. But you need to keep in mind that you are special!! You are a good person and you can rise above all of this petty nonsense! You need to become self reliant and take care of yourself! If you are lonely, please read! Books are wonderful adventures and especially self help books could really help to improve your outlook! Do not play into their games. Highschool is a very difficult and awkward period in a young girls life. I found that you are either popular or you are not! Try to find friends that are more like you! Other girls may pick on you because they simply do not know you! Girls tend to judge and be jealous of other girls they do not know. Do not ever take anything personally because it is not personal! It is not about you!! It is about their own insecurities and their own short comings! Take pride in yourself!! Stand up straight, shoulders back, head up and walk through a crowd like you own it!! When it comes to school, study hard!! Learn as much as you can and do as well as you can so that you can get into a good college! Plus it helps you to not pay attention to all of the petty girl stuff and benefits you! As far as your friend is concerned, you have to confront her. You must have the courage to go up to her and ask her why she is treating you like this. Ask her if you have done something to offend her. If she does not offer you an answer, she was never really your friend in the first place. Though it hurts, and trust me I know it hurts! You will be better off finding true friends and not phony ones like her! It simply means that she was never really your friend in the first place!! No one needs friends like that in their lives!! So chin up sweetie, take a deep breathe and handle this problem head on. Cry if you must, it may make you feel better to release all of that pent up emotion, but be strong and move on to better friends!! Good Luck and God Bless!


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