Why does soical life matter so much?!
Question: sure i'm in the "in" crowd. but why does i matter so much... you'll see all these girls huddled around my talking tome like i'm there best friend. there just trying to get "in".
why does i matter so much? i'm in school just to learn.
not to make out behind the gym or to talk about the fight that happened last week.
so i need someone to explain...why is it so important? it was never important to me.
i was blessed to be pretty...so they all thought "whos ever heard of a pretty nerd?" so ppl started to talk...and i was in. i never much liked it. have every one talk about you. it's not nice.
so. explain. why is it important to them?
Answers: sure i'm in the "in" crowd. but why does i matter so much... you'll see all these girls huddled around my talking tome like i'm there best friend. there just trying to get "in".
why does i matter so much? i'm in school just to learn.
not to make out behind the gym or to talk about the fight that happened last week.
so i need someone to explain...why is it so important? it was never important to me.
i was blessed to be pretty...so they all thought "whos ever heard of a pretty nerd?" so ppl started to talk...and i was in. i never much liked it. have every one talk about you. it's not nice.
so. explain. why is it important to them?
Actually socialization IS important. When you have problems you can always pull your social connections. When you want to do something big, you can use your popularity to get support for it.
However, it's not the only important thing in the world. If all you have as a person is connections, and you have no essence, pretty soon you'll be swallowed by the flow, you'll be just one of the faces in the herd, you won't have anything in you that would make you stand out.
So -- take advantage of popularity but find something special in you.
I don't know but I don't have any friends.
Actually, it doesn't,
people just make it seem like that.
just be different.
So what people think.
Im also in the "in" crowd, and I wonder the same thing.
Those people are in search of recognition which I think not really necessary. I'm always good with my real friends around me. If you are blessed with beauty then please add me lol. j/k