My heart is broken - but should it be?!

My heart is broken - but should it be?

Well, here it is, I was hanging out with this guy - VIRGO we hang out day and night, talked 3-4 times a day. Of course he would never admit he liked me. We have had two fights where he didn't speak to me for 2 one month segments, we work, and attend the same church, when he didn't speak to me for that time, when he would see me he just stares at me all day. Lately he has been trying to make up with me. calling and stopping by, and staring more and more. I am in love him , howvever we had a fight on Sunday, I found out he likes another girl, they have been friends for 1 year and 4 months, prior to me he had no interest in her, I believe on our hiatus they began to get close. For a moment I felt this man was going to be my husband because of the connection we had.
He admits, he likes her, but their not dating. He is pleading with me to remain his friend, I can't though, now I have to watch them fall in love Sunday after Sunday. What if he marries her? I am a Taurus, by the way.

Taurus, being a fixed sign doesn't like to give up. But comes a time to cut loose the dead weight. He's involved with another girl and he wants to be your 'friend'? Plus you've had several fights where you did not speak for a month at a time?
This is not good.

Rather than being an astrological problem, I sense it may be more a situation where two soul mates have met again. Now, we each have had many soul mates, in many other lives. So it is not uncommon to run into one again. Sometimes it just isn't meant to be. This could account for the staring, because there is a strong attraction between you.

However, Dr. Phil says it best: If you want to see your future together, look at your past.

Being a Virgo, he's trying to keep you on the back burner so he'll have options if the current love falls thru. Don't do it!
You deserve better.

Put on your happy face and meet the world. Living well is the best countermeasure you can employ.