Why do scorpio men always have to put on a tough and macho image?!

Why do scorpio men always have to put on a tough and macho image?

ok! i tried tallking to him and he couldn't understand why i was so upset with him even after i clearly explained myself. i told him i didn't feel so great after he did such-and-such. he said he didn't mean to hurt me on purpose and that i was mad for nothing. he thought i liked creating drama. how can he say these things when i let him know that my feelings were hurt? doesn't he care? why is he trying to turn the tables on me? i told him that i didn't know why he had such a hard time expressing himself and how he feels. i also told him that he always thinks about himself and not about how others feel. i even added that i've always been there for him and did whatever i could for him, but he just doesn't seem to care. he said that if he's so hard to be with, then why do i stay? what kind of question is that? he also said he was nothing, why was i with him?

Whoa, a lot of Scorpio/Man bashing going on here. >.>; We're not all insensitive and selfish. I'm a Scorpio too and I can understand some of what's going on between you and your boyfriend. It sounds to be me like he's just being selfish. It has nothing to do with his sign or his gender. My ex, A Libra lady, used to do this to me all the time. Try and explain your feelings are hurt only to get attacked for it.

It's selfishness. While we do have a hard time expressing ourselves, it's no excuse to take it out on you. Now, Usually we have trouble in this area because we have very deep emotions and it's hard for us to even express or understand them. But, this guy just sounds like a bit of a jerk. He obviously can't admit when he's wrong and tries to place the blame on you. He has self-esteem issues and cares only for himself it would seem. He can't take being criticized or told he did something wrong so he turns it on you.

And it sounds to me like he might want to break things off. Asking "Why stay?" and "Why are you with me then?" All I know is, my ex started to ask these things when she wanted to break things off but she didn't have the courage to come out and say it, hoping I would do it for her. It sounds like that might be what's going on here.

You need to make a choice. This guy has a lot of problems and there's nothing you can do to change that. Only he can change that. You can either try to work things out, and if you're lucky, salvage the relationship. OR. Break it off before it gets worse and you get hurt. The latter seems to be the direction it's headed. Anyway, Sorry if I was rambling too much, Best of luck to you.