Can my brother marry that girl? help astrologer....?!


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Can my brother marry that girl? help astrologer....?

My brother loves one beutiful girl. She is having DIABETES TYPE -1 (Insulin Dependent). My brother is well educated, settled and having profession degree but she is just 10th pass.
My parents are not ready to accept her due to her diabetes problem and education. Eevn some astrologer told that they should not marry. They said to that girl that my brother is not suitable for her. She will face problem in future from my brothers family side and she won't become happy with him.

Brother Details
DOB: 23-JUNE-1978, PLACE: KESHOD,JUNAGADH, GUJARAT, TOB: 09:45 AM
Girl Details
DOB: 12-SEP-1985, PLACE: KALYAN, MUMBAI, MAHARASHTRA, TOB: 01:30 PM

Kindly give guidance. THANKS A LOT IN ADVANCE.

REENA
One caring sister


Answers:

He can marry whoever he wants. He shouldn't let health concerns and education get in the way of love...

Granted, diabetes is pretty bad, and if they have children, they'll have a 50-50 chance at developing diabetes as well (But that means they also have a 50-50 chance of NOT developing diabetes too). But it is controllable, so it's not terrible enough to give up the love of his life for...

As for education; while it's nice for both spouses to have similar education levels and it might help them have more in common, it's by far not NECESSARY or anything. My boyfriend only has his high school diploma, and within the next couple of years, I will have my Masters degree, but that doesn't make us any less compatible and certainly not any less in love.

By the way, don't listen to astrologers. They just make theories based on where the stars happen to be. There's no PROOF that it can mean anything. Don't base a marriage decision off of it.

Tell him that if he loves her and wants to spend his life with her, than he should love her for who she is and not worry about what's "wrong" with her. And you're parents shouldn't either. They should like her for the kind of person she is (nice, caring, hardworking, pretty, funny, etc), and not just dislike her for the 'bad" things. However, if his/your family is really going to give her that hard of a time with the marriage, I can guarantee one of two things is going to happen:
1) She will just leave him which could leave him heartbroken and he will blame his family for her leaving
2) He will give up on you guys as his family because you don't respect his decisions, and you guys will barely see him because he won't want to associate with people that hate his wife.

I've seen both happen pretty often.

Either way, she is kind of young... How long have they been together? Are they really really 100% sure they want to get married? That's a BIIIIG decision to make. While it's mostly about love, there are other important factors that they HAVE to consider before getting married (financial security, living arrangements, expenses, children, insurance, and more).

If they are in love, then diabetes and high school shouldn't be stopping them from being together. Just as long as they're ready...


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