Scorpio's..........why do this..........?!
Question:
Scorpio's..........why do this..........?
okay guys, i have a scorpio friend (11/10) that i am not in a relationship with but have been seeing for over a yr now. he has trust issues from being hurt repeatedly by family and friends, so im not fully in his circle yet. he told me he has feelings (deep) for me and he know's that i love him. he can be so distant and i now understand why but.................
how long is it gonna take for him to see that i am not deceiving him? he stares at me when im not looking and when i do look at him we have a stare off. he know's my heart is all in it.
i tried to let him go plenty of times and sent him a message stating did he want me out of his life because of the way he was treating me emotionally (only dealing with me when he want to) and he said no, he dosen't want me out of his life......
whats up? if he does not want a relationship with anybody, why does he still want me in his life? is his feelings for me really LOVE and he dosen't want to admit it?
(ima pisces 3/16)
Answers:
Honey, I feel your pain! Been there, done that............mine had a different turnout, but I know where you're coming from.............All I can say is, hang in there!!!! Don't give up on him. He's been hurt and it's going to take as much time as necessary for him to see your worth, to sort out his true feelings for you, what he honestly wants and if he can completely trust you. From the start, mine began to confide in me about all kinds of personal stuff and got even more personal and private as time went on, but no matter what he told me, big or small...........I never betrayed him. It became my secret as well. That's what he needs. Even out of frustration, anger or irritation, never repeat anything that he has told you. No matter what mood he gets into, stand by him, give him his space and wait. Do go on with your life, but don't go too far that you can't be there for him when he needs you. Always look him deep in the eyes and let him know how much you care (with your eyes), during times when he requires silence and space. Just to feel that you are supportive and caring will ease him somewhat.........I can't stress PATIENCE and UNDERSTANDING enough in a relationship with a Scorpio man through a rough past. Don't give up. He's worth it. A Scorpio will take as much time as he pleases to leave no doubt in his mind and heart!