A question about the Scorpios?!

A question about the Scorpios?

Actually sometimes we are really close friends and we have fun talking, but sometimes I do have feeling we are really distant and we misunderstand.

Some years ago in High School I was a friend with one girl, a Scorpio, she was a backstabber and she hurt me many times, I tolerated her 4 years and one day I told her I do not want to be friends with her anymore because she really crossed the limits.

What I am worried is if that model will repeat again because in this case with these friends I have, two Scorpio girls (the one I know since an year and the other since several years) I really do care for them and I will suffer if we end our friendship. I am worried if this time they tell me get out of our friendship because I did so with the girl I said above. I know these people are different, they never backstab and they are very loyal and trust worth but sometimes I feel weird, I get easily hurt and I think by then none cares for me. I am a Taurus and is it a good friendship match?

I get easily hurt too as a Taurus. What I have learned to do when dealing with Scorpios is to put the hurt aside and answer them matter of factly. Scorps use brains and emotions to deal with people this is how they are most powerful. Scorps are very logical people unless they are dealing with themselves.
If a Scorpio is lashing out and backstabbing they are an immature Scorpio, they have not evolved to their next level.
When you meet a Scorpion that has evolved to the next level, they do not backstab until YOU provoke them.
What happens is, a Scorpio will grow and eventually discard people that are not helping them at the moment. (tho they say they don't need help cuz they hide it).
Since Taurus is the polar opposite, Taurus knows the Scorp does this thing and remains the loyal friend behind it. It gets repaid. You eventually find your peace in knowing that you were there and the Scorp will look back and realize you were the friend all along.
My one bf is a Scorp, Shes judgemental and harsh at times. She has a horrible love life. Mine is stable. She yells at me all the time to leave him because "She's unhappy" Why? Cuz she's projecting onto me what she's feeling. If she's unhappy the rest of the world should be also. As a Taurus, I realize this and just laugh. IT's really kind of funny.
It won't repeat if you have learned the lesson the first time, It will repeat until you get the lesson from the first person. It sounds like she was growing and blaming everyone for her problems, instead of doing her own soul searching.
Do not blame others for what she did.
Blessings.