What does he want? scorpio males please help...?!


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What does he want? scorpio males please help...?

i've been casual with a scorpio male for over 4 1/2 years. we both had just gotten out of committed relationships when we met so we agreed to keep things casual, but after a short time i began to fall for him causing him to back off. he later came back and we continued where we left off but then i began to back off and see other people while he ended up having a child with another woman that he now shares custody with. that caused my feelings for him to decrease even more, but not enough to end it until i finally realized that i dont need him even though i still want him. so i stopped all communication with him hoping he'd get a clue but he still continues to contact me until i finally give in and see him. when we're together its passionate, fun, and intense but i dont know what he wants because it seems like he's either giving signals that he wants more from me or that he's afraid of losing me but i can definitely tell that he cares more than he used to. what do you think is going on?

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2 months ago
our relationship has always been predictable but now he does stuff like cuddling more, longer conversations, lighting candles and playing music, letting me stay over and sleep in late w/o some lame excuse for "kicking me out" and even letting me come over JUST to sleep. it's kind of freaking me out because this is what i've always wanted but im afraid he'll reject me again. plus i dont want to lose what we already have. im willing to let go and move on but not if he really wants me to stay. i know scorpios can be very sensitve and secretive so i dont know what to do. thanks in advance!


Answers:

Listen sweetie, I can tell you exactly why this man keeps coming back - when a Scorpio is onto a 'good thing' and he knows that if he keeps contacting you and you give in - then he is is happy because he is in control. He's getting what he wants, so he's having his cake and eating it too. If you truly don't want to continue this relationship then you have to be strong enough to stop giving in - he's not giving you mixed messages, he just knows he's able to get his own way and he's not about to let such an easy catch go. You've basically said it yourself, you'll do what he wants and he knows it. Of course he's being lovely right now, you are giving him what he likes, however once you start showing your independent side again, or start trying to push the relationship in the direction you want - you'll see exactly how he is yet again.

Its entirely up to you but I feel he's shown you enough of his true self with his previous actions for you to understand who he truly is - believe it.


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