I want to start dating, I'm not sure where to start? Any suggestions.?!


Question:

I want to start dating, I'm not sure where to start? Any suggestions.?

I've never really dated before. I'm in my early twenties. How do I get started.
P.S. I don't trust guys(i.e. intentions), I'm a little shy and sef concious. I have no problems stricking up conversation with the opposite sex until I sense that they are starting to like me. At this point, I feel uncomfortable and avoid the guy.

Additional Details

2 months ago
Sun, Mercury, Venus in Taurus
Moon in Sagittarius
Mars in Scorpio
Rising in Virgo


Answers:

Many people born in the mid 1980's and who are now in their twenties have Saturn in Scorpio in their birth charts. Check to see if this is so in your chart.

If it is, then this means that your Venus in Taurus and Mars in Scorpio are probably in close aspect to Saturn in your chart (your Venus would be opposite Saturn and your Mars in conjunction to Saturn).

Saturn is the planet of hard times, delays and restrictions. When it is in aspect to Venus (planet of love and relationships) in the birth chart, it causes problems in the area of relationships when the person is young. When it is in aspect to Mars (the planet which rules men), then it also causes anxiety and discomfort in relation to men during the early years.

The major causes of the problems are varied. Normally, the person with these placements just doesn't feel ready to get into a serious relationship when they are still young. They take relationships very, very seriously, viewing them as a huge responsibility that they would prefer to avoid for as long as they can.

The fact that you have Virgo rising and a Sagittarius Moon also indicate that you are a very independent and freedom loving person. Virgo rising people like to do things their own way and in their own time and they may fear that a relationship would interfere with that. They also have very high standards when it comes to choosing who they allow into their world, especially when it comes to love relationships. They would rather be alone than in a less than perfect relationship.

The good news is that relationships will get easier and easier as you get older. When you are dealing with Saturn, the older you are, the more successful you become in whatever area of life Saturn affects.

As for what might work for you in the meantime, as a Sun in Taurus/Virgo rising person, I suspect that you place a very high value on friendship, including in love relationships. Perhaps the main reason you feel uncomfortable when a guy shows interest is that you feel it's just too soon and that you don't really know the person.

My best advice is: insist on being friends first. What's the rush? Get to know the guy, no matter how long it takes. It's also a great way of weeding out the unworthy ones. Once you truly know the person, you will feel far more comfortable, and that will make a huge difference to how you view a more serious relationship with them.

Good luck :)


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