Abusive relationship???!

Abusive relationship???

Im a scorpio girl in a relationship with an older gemini, and sometimes i feel that he's emotionally abusive torwards me. He manipulates me, and checks up on me ALL THE TIME because of his jealousy. He's beeen blamin all of our problems solely on me, his witty thinking always finds ways to makeme look like the villian in the end, when really, i dont know what i did wrong in the first place. Am I just being dramatical and emotional? Or do I need to get out of this relationship, before things get physically out of hand??

Your Gemini male is flip-flopping, a typical characteristic of the sign. They are symbolized by the twins. As a result, many of them will hold two entirely different belief systems, personalities, etc. They are at a constant odds with themselves mentally and stress alot about nothing.

You, being a Scorp female, are shrouded in mystery. This makes him jealous and thinking your up to something all the time.

I dont' think it's in Scorp's nature to be dramatic or emotional. Scorp's control emotions - they do not let emotions get out of control. If anyone's being emotional here - it's your Gemini male. Additionally, Gemini male's are excitement addicts. Could be that he creates drama out of a need for excitement.

They are also associated with an age range of 14-21 - the eternal bachlor mentality - prankish and punkish - just like men those ages. Except that Gemini's personality throughout life.

He's an air sign and your a fixed water sign. He's flighty about his emotions and they are flexible (moving all the time). You are more about controlling your emotions.

I have a suggestion. . . .buy the book Sextrology: The Astrology of Sex and The Sexes. Online, ebay, barnes & noble, etc.

I'll bet it'll do you and him both some good in developing a better understanding of one another.