Saggies, whayda ya think? WARNING: It's LOOONG! ;)?!


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Saggies, whayda ya think? WARNING: It's LOOONG! ;)?

I just started casually dating this guy. he works at tiffanys. we've already been physical and seen each other a couple of times. unfortunately, due to our hectic schedules, we just keep missing each other. i had already told him 3 times that was i was coming to visit him and go over when we could plan our next date and my plans have fell through. i was supposed to visit him today, as i had told him last week that i would and again my plans fell through. there have been times when he said he was going to call and got caught up in things and wasnt able to.

So, I saw the guy (Thursday). I actually had to wait for like 45 minutes because i didnt know exactly when he was coming in. so i asked him when we wanted to hang out etc. he said he apologized for not calling but he hasnt had his phone at all. he said he would call me tonight or tomorrow morning to see what i was doing friday morningmorning/afternoon. he also said hes free just about every Wednesday. and now tha

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3 months ago
and now that ive got a job, he would visit me occasionally. i gave him a karma sutra book in which i had marked my favorite positions and wrote in there that i wanted him to mark his favorites so that we could try them.
so, im really hoping that he calls. I'm a bit nervous though, but he was genuinely laughing and friendly and sweet. we couldnt do anything but talk since he was in the store. i had asked him like if he was still interested because he hadnt called and he said yes and that we both agreed that if neither of us was interested we would tell the other in person or on the phone.

and he said yes and that we both agreed that if neither of us was interested we would tell the other in person or on the phone. im 20 and hes 27. my usual dating age is 25-27. my problem with him is that hes inconsistent. i mentioned to him that i didnt mind visiting him but it made me feel a little insecure about his feelings because he would be so affectionate in person and then not return my

3 months ago
and then not return my calls or rarely answer.

i told him that i wasnt going to keep asking if he was interested. i was just going to assume interest unless proven otherwise. i have always made it clear that we're dating casually. he had the option of friends with benefits also and he chose the dating casually option. so we're both allowed to date other people. we've already slept together and we havent been on a date since last month. weve just been busy. so thats what the point of going in yesterday was. i just dont see why he wouldnt just tell me he wasnt interested because thats what his actions are saying. he said he wanted to see me today. he said he would call 8am-10:30am. its 2:40pm now. i called a left a message on his cell although he said he lost just seeing if we were on still for today. i think hes not interested and doesnt know how to tell me even though i said it could be via phone or in person. however, my female sag friend does the same behavior and when i asked

3 months ago
and when i asked her about it, she said shes just flightly and gets distracted easily. something i did see with him. so, im a bit confused. Lol. He's African american and caucasian (his mom is causcasian). He's a saggitarius born novermber 29,1980. Umm, he's has GOREGOUS green eyes. lol. And I'm biracial as well with hazel eyes. Don't know if that helps or not lol.

So I totally have had a 360 on my point of view of the situation. I've decided to take a more "saggitarius" point of view. my gut and everyone else lol agree that hes interested but for some reason or another hes holding back. so right now im just going to him some time to hopefully miss me and ill think about what action i would take then.i saw him at work today. things were going quite well, although it was a bit embarassing when he mentioned that one of his coworkers said i was hot lol. but umm, so i saw him at work and we were just having playful exchanges. i had to leave suddendly because someone came in that i

3 months ago
that i didnt want to talk to and so i panicked and just told him i would call him. i feel the only thing that i did wrong was not schedule an actual date with him, since he had said he wanted to see me on wednesday but we never went over a time.

so ive decided that i wont be calling/visiting him anytime before the month of june. when i do go into tiffanys in june. it will be for me to look or purchase something myself. not to see him. ill say hi and thats it. the only sad thing is that im going to be moving out soon and i had wanted him to spend a night or so. i thought that would be good for us, plus since his mom and uncle moved in with him, he probably never gets the house alone besides i really feel that if u guys want something, no matter how much time has elaspsed, ull call so if he wanted to/wants to. he has my #. simple as that. if he lost it, burned it whatever, if he wanted/wants me- he'll see me in the store. he can ask for it thenhe'll find a way if its really som

3 months ago
he has my #. simple as that. if he lost it, burned it whatever, if he wanted/wants me- he'll see me in the store. he can ask for it then
he'll find a way if its really something he wants
so am i disappointed? extremely. i really thought he had the guts. suprised? no. thats why i have a lot of notches lol.
SO if you've made it this far-CONGRATULATIONS! i just wanted other people's opinion to prove my friend wrong or right ;) thanks lol


Answers:

I think the sagg has a lot of pots burning on the stove all at the same time. I'd tend to believe him that he gets busy. But my advice would be to drop everything. Just quit the situation. Now, imagine this...from a guys perspective, you've more or less bum rushed him with that book and everything. Your constant popping into his life makes him feel like he has no work to do. If you quit the situation, he'll more than likely pick up the pursuit.


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