Pls help me........?!
Question:
Pls help me........?
my DOB is 2/sep/1983 .POB is Nagercoil. TOB is 11:32-11:35pm. when will i get married? will it be arranged or love marriage? will i have higher studies? what about my job career? i am forced to do higher studies but i am not interested. i am in much confusion. pls ans my questions and help me
Answers:
You can't let other people tell you what you are going to do. You can't look to the stars or the zodiac, or the year you were born to tell you what you can expect out of life either.
YOU make your own life. What are you interested in? Are you mechanically minded? You don't get anywhere getting your head filled with fluffy thoughts, unless you are willing to put the effort out to make those fluffy things come true. In this day and age that often means study.
As for marriage, you have to meet a girl or guy, depending on what gender you are, and have to make it work, whether it's arranged or of "love", you have to make it work in the end. The feeling of "love" fades over time, you have to revive it now and then. Arranged marriages often last longer, as both parties are more apt to have no preconcieved fancies on how the marriage will go. Marriage is marriage, till death do us part, whether you "love" your partner or not!
If studying isn't your thing, and if you are a woman, then work on your home making skills. Cooking, cleaning, etc... If you want to be married, then make yourself a partner your spouse would want to have!
The bottom line, YOU have to put out the effort. YOU, not the stars, make your life worth living! There may be things in this life that may make you stumble, but it is our place in life to overcome them! Don't look for crystal ball readers, fortune tellers, palm readers, et al! Make your life worth living yourself! Do you really want to know if you'll die single or be married and have a thousand heirs? What spice is there in life if you knew who it was you were going to marry, or if you are going to marry at all? If someone says your marriage will end in divorce, will you let it or make it happen?
Ultimately, it is you in control of the threads that guide your life. God can give you the opportunities, but you have to take them!