Will a female scorpio and a male gemini last in a relationship?!


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Will a female scorpio and a male gemini last in a relationship?


Well, Me (scorpio) and my boyfriend (gemini) has been dating for six months now, it's going smooth except for the jealousy and control. He doesn't like no dudes speaking to me and don't like certain cloths that I wear because, they are too revealing "he says" but they're really not. He says the only skin I should show is my face and hands but he was making it as a joke but I think he was serious. I told him he should be dating a nun if he feels that way. But I just want you guys oppinion on this.


Answers: Hi Missy:
From my own personal experience - the mom of my 2 lovely kids is a scorpio and I'm a gemini - it didn't work out, although now, after being divorced for the past 4 years, we are in fact better friends than the previoud 21 years of marriage. Its not to say it won't work in your case, but (as in all marriages!!!) its going to take some hard work to keep it going. Scorpios in general are the jealous ones, not the geminis. And beware of their sting if you "wrong" them - even unwittingly! It can be a painful experience! geminis on the other hand are hapy-go-lucky-fickle-minded folk who drift along in life's currents like swallows on the wind - here today, there tomorrow! They don't like to be earthbound for too long and - as their sign's patron: Mercury the messenger - depicts, they have winged feet for a reason! Allow him his freedom (be clever and you can limit it to just in his mind!!!) and he'll stick around. He probably has either scorpio or aries as a rising star, which explains his "un-gemini-like" jealousy, or he is simply reflecting your own inherent jealous streak - which you might inadvertently portray whithout you being aware of it . . . Perhaps that is why you show a bit of exhibitionism, because you know that will bring out his jealousy . . . as a smoke screen to distract from your own!? Ironically, geminis are the greatest of teasers (and flirts too!) you'll find in the cosmic spectrum, so it shouldn't be too difficult to convince him that you're only teasing him by wanting to show off a bit. Tell him you do it to brag about him winning your heart - and showing the other chaps what they're missing! Egotistical (to a certain extent - though not as much as leos!) geminis could relate to such a point of view. DO - however make it up in the ONE way geminis and scorpios are TOTALLY COMPATIBLE: PASSION!!!! Yip - both of you are know for being PASSIONATE LOVERS!!! Exploit THAT! . . . and you'll keep you man smiling!!!! (and at home)!
Good luck - ;+)

DO take serious cogniscense of what Irish say: She makes some very valid points.
Don't abuse the start signs to determine the future; its not meant for that, but it does give some general pointers as to characteristics, which are valuable! Truthfully, you shouldn't rely on what other people say to tell you that your relationship will last. If you are confident about it going well, then it is going well regardless of signs. Scorpio and Gemini

When Gemini and Scorpio come together in a love affair, they'll need to learn to understand and accept one another's differences -- and if they can, they will be a nearly unbreakable couple. Where Gemini is adaptable, intellectual, outgoing and chatty, Scorpio tends to be secretive, focused, intense and determined. Gemini tends to take things lightly, including their lover; Scorpio, on the other hand, has a very deep need for emotional connection and intimacy. Scorpio is generally very loyal to their lover and very connected to the relationship.

This relationship tends to be highly passionate and can often be characterized by arguments; Gemini loves a good debate, considering it the epitome of mental stimulation, and that characteristic Gemini flirtatiousness tends to grate on Scorpio's jealous, possessive nerves. Despite these differences, however, this is no dull relationship. Both Signs love to take chances and spice it up! They have lots of adventures together, but if things get too tense and arguments start to turn negative, they must make the effort to reconcile if they value the relationship and want it to last.

Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury (Communication) and Scorpio is dually ruled by the Planets Mars (Passion) and Pluto (Power). Scorpio is generally quite concerned with sexual and emotional intimacy; they need much reassurance that their lover values the relationship as much as they do. Thank goodness, then, for Gemini's excellent communicative abilities; the Twins should have no trouble communicating their dedication to the Scorpion -- if it's dedication they feel. Gemini can't and won't fake a commitment they don't feel, so intense Scorpio must learn to back off a bit. Gemini will certainly make a commitment to a love relationship, but only if they're free to do so on their own, not coerced into it. None of that Sh** is true. Who cares what month you where born in, its the person and the attitude that matter.
D< ooook stop ! i am a "gemini" and i don't think it is a reason for your boyfriend to be acting the way he does. So my friend it is never the sign they are born under but the way they were brought up and you should remember that. Forget all that stuff about stars and look at the person in front of you. Just date or dump the boy!lol...Don't rely on some stars or whatever to tell you if he is good or not. You could be astrologically compatible but he could be the worst guy you'd ever meet in your life. Live life according to your common sense and what's tangible and obvious to you not by some charts.
I would keep my eye on his coments about other guys talking to you and your wardrobe. Once you let a man control smaller things like that, he will only get worse and could possibly turn abusive and the stars don't tell you how to handle that. ok well im guessing you are a believer in the zodiac.. i dont mean to burst your bubble (and i know every one hs different beliefs) but zodiac signs don't have anything to do with your relationship.. most of the signs give charecteristics that are seen in every one.. for ex: im a cancer and cancers are supposed to be sensitive and motherly and nurturing.. every one has some amount of those characteristics found in them.. all te readings are based on things that happe to every one on a normal basis.. so i wouldn't be worried about that.. but i would be really worried about the jealousy and all.. jealousy can really lead to more dangerous and hurtful things so tell him that you can't stand his jealousy and try to sort things out... if it doesnt work end it.. also tell him that you coudl wear whatever you want to wear and that if he doesn't like it it shouldn't detract on his feelings for you.. If we all had a formula, would we stick to it?
Hell, no.
We all have traits, and that IS what makes life interesting.
Reveal yourself rather than hide behind the veil he is creating.
He sounds like a terrorist to me.
Or a fanatic.
Dump him before he gets on a plane ffs.
You live in a western world, I guess, and have adjusted well.
Accept who you are, don't be frightened of expressing your views.
Women are equal to men. Possibly better.
Except in a certain religion.
I respect your question, but leave you to find the answer. Ok, yes it is true that astrology does not mean that your doomed by any means BUT!! you can use astrology to help you find out where you will have problems and where it will be smooth sailing. Do a compatibility chart and see where your other planets are. This will give you a much better complete picture than just sun sign alone. For example, where is your/his venus, moon, mercury? Read it and take it for what its worth. I do believe in astrology and find it to be a very good tool. But it is just that a tool, not the definite future of any two people.
A good site is adze.com and do the venus files for couples.
Sign mates by ashman is also a great book to read. you can go to half.com and get books for little of nothing.
good luck and remember astrology is best used as a tool to help people realize and deal with the personality aspects of one another. its a gift My sister is a scorpio and her bf is a gemini and i really understand by what you mean your bf doesnt want you to do this or that.And yes jealousy and controling do comes in this relationship because my sister and her bf do have fights.But otherwise i think this is a good relationship.But yeah ya'll do have to compromise sometimes which is required in every relatipnship.So wish ya'll best of luck and hope everything goes fine.God Bless!!! Well Gemini's and Scorpios aren't suppose to work to begin with. There will be an intent attraction at times, but it'll only last for a little while. And once that while is up, it just falls apart...

Scorpios like to be in control, they don't like to be controlled. Gemini's are known for just messing around and not being serious, 'cause they don't know their own emotions and feelings, and it's scares them if they start to like someone and feel for them. Scorpios need a commitment. This isn't just fun games, when comes to dating.

As for what he's doing to you, yes he does seem a bit unfair. I mean does he want you to wear long sleeves in the Summer and Spring? Does he want you to wear sweat paints and a sweater all year long, all the time?? Does he want you to be blocked off from human contact? Blocked off form the outside world? Blocked off from your farther even?? (That's assuming, naturally.)

However, if the cloths you wear are a bit...well trashy. Then remember that this is your body, not the rest of the world's. But because it's your body 'n no one elses, that also means it's not your boyfriend's... So tell him that. Talk to him and tell him how you feel about all of this and keep in mind that you don't need to put up with a control freak.

You are independent and perfectly capable of living without him. If he doesn't learn to treat you right and as an equal, then he won't have much in the years to come... Because no one will put up with that.

If things don't improve soon, I would honestly suggest braking up with him. If you want a astrology point of view on this, then you can follow this link 'cause I don't want to type it all up.

Luck. I just ended a 2 year relationship w/ a Gemini man (I'm a Virgo). I found him to be possessive, emotionally/mentally abusive. He also lied and was generally uncaring. At his best though, he was a good listener and fun spirited. But we had a LOT of drama. I didn't notice the possessive side of him until we were deep in the relationship, but it definitely came out. Good luck! The Scorpio woman wants to plummet into the depths of the Gemini man’s amusing, ambiguous personality. The Gemini man needs constant variety and is fascinated by the Scorpio woman’s secret side.

However, the Gemini man avoids emotional intensity, whereas the Scorpio woman prefers exclusive closeness.

The Scorpio woman - Gemini man relationship can be great for mental games but difficult for long-term rapport. This isn't a mix that is supposed to work magically, but strangely enough it does, in a myriad of ways! Your Gemini lover will bring you news clippings from far and wide regarding all kinds of goings-on, and will finally draw you out of your self-imposed isolation. Scorpio is perhaps the most taciturn sign of the zodiac, so you and your chatterbox Gemini will have to humor one another regarding communication styles. Your lover will have to give you quiet time alone each day to read, meditate, or just hear yourself think. Your lover will soon learn that this is not a rejection but time for you to regroup and recharge yourself.

Your Gemini lover's Sun lights up your natural 8th house. This house is ruled by Scorpio, which may be why this air sign lover pairs so well with your water sign. At the very least, you two should be a very effervescent mix! The 8th house governs sex and other people's money, so you and Gemini are likely to have many of the same ideas about investments and how to spend and save.

In terms of sex, Gemini like variety, but Scorpios like the tried and true, so you may have to think up a few tricks to keep your lover lively and interested. You are a master of sexual technique, Scorpio, so I don't think you have much to worry about here. Your lover will bring a much needed dose of humor to lighten up your view of the world and bring you a greater sense of fun. Gemini will try to get you out of your rut (few signs adore routine as much as Scorpio) and make you laugh. Catch your magical, sparkling twin in flight if you can, for he or she can make you truly happy.

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