I am a scorpio and a virgo girl is making me mad. plz help or i am commiting sui!
Question: i mean i never open myself to anybody and this girls whenever i talk to her i just keep on telling her secrets and she never even asks. i mean keep it mum but i just told her the biggest secret of my life. it is nothing like love or something but she never tell me her secrets. she is a virgin thats for sure i know. she call me mr.flirt. i am scorpio for the love of god how can flirt. i misses her so much when ever she disappear i just wana talk to her. she has been friend with me for 1 week and i open myself. when is she going to open. what is love or something. tell me
Answers: i mean i never open myself to anybody and this girls whenever i talk to her i just keep on telling her secrets and she never even asks. i mean keep it mum but i just told her the biggest secret of my life. it is nothing like love or something but she never tell me her secrets. she is a virgin thats for sure i know. she call me mr.flirt. i am scorpio for the love of god how can flirt. i misses her so much when ever she disappear i just wana talk to her. she has been friend with me for 1 week and i open myself. when is she going to open. what is love or something. tell me
My poor friend. I feel for you as a scorpio, because I am one. It is your attraction to her that you can not hide. I am in the same situation and I have also been here before. Your honesty is bugging the crap out of you and you want to stop it. You are feeling insulted that she is calling you Mr. Flirt but you are being sincere. Well guess what you have attraction to her that cannot stop.
Riddle for you:
What happens when an unstoppable force meets and unstoppable object?
Answer: The two cannot exsist in the same universe or plane of exsistance.
So how does that relate to you? You are the force and she is the object. You have more than a sexual attraction but something more intense and that is an emotional one.
Now if you want to win her over becuase she is a virgo then the game is not one you have played before it is called Patience. Everything you can teach her will be showing her on a sly level of subtle. You giving her honesty is something you are not used to but she does crave it. Now go out an get it.
Sorry im a libra phew
You should find someone new to talk to, she doesn't care about you.
yea.......find som1 new.....
just give it time. relationships can be made in a week but it takes much longer to build it up to a level that is important to both people.
if you are considering suicide, you need to get professional help. if you brought those bad feelings into a relationship it can only do harm to it.
just take it slow with her until you are healed...mentally and then pursue it.
just dont expect her to be like you... give her time to open up, you've only known her for 1 week, for pete's sake! and she's a virgo, this sign is the perfectionist of all signs! she's probably taking things one step at a time..so be cool...
hahahahaha. i dated a scorpio & i'm a virgo.
scorpios ARE actually quite fliratious and erotic. [i've read that so many times in astrology books.]
virgos are very very private. we're said to be dull and boring...and yada yada yada. [i dont know about that. i dont think so.] however, the thing with relationships is that we're always striving for something perfect because we're perfectionists. since you are a scorpio, you tend to want to know things about her [which you've just said.] but, just keep trying and be very patient...one of these days she'll open up to you!
Im a Scorpio my best freind since 12 is a Virgo yes i lean on her loyal but can be less giving and vunerable step up you game on this crush just be and blunt, withiout being too cold.
I think you can talk to her because she has yet to experience many things that you have.
I think (being a scorpio) you may be boasting to her you life experiences because you fee proud you have been through them. Since she has really no opinion of what you have been thru (because she has never had the opportunity to know) then you don't feel you will be under attach from her.
Scorps don't like confrontation nor do they like opinions that differ from ours unless the advice is really good.
so you have a virgo who is pretty intelligent in our eyes that actually has no experience, I think you got a pretty good deal in her,
do you love her? you'll find out when she give you an opinion you dint' like
Just grow up!!! No it is not love!!! You are not going to commit suicide, so quit acting like a fool.
she is ur best friend types with whom u can share everything
ur secrets too. she cares but cant show u, she must hve told secrets , may b she dont hve any she must b a open book
it is u who has to decide what u think of her but b sure she is not hiding anything........
Either give two of you time or find someone new. By all means, you look like you miss her to seconds. I guess she might be too shy. If this continues on, I suggest you find someone else. She doesn't seem to be caring that much about you.
no suicide! anyway, virgos are so welcoming and it doesn't suprise me you told her so much even though you are normally a private sort (I am scorp too). you will find a lot of comfort in virgo they are warm and sensual and welcoming and nurturing. she won't open up to you until she is 110% sure you won't break her heart. be patient and she will come around, you just have to prove yourself to her.
Virgos are easy to talk to and make good listeners. It doesn't neccessarily mean they care or can offer advice. Virgos are also very businesslike and practical which means they don't "open up" easily. If you feel comfortable talking to her then use that as a way to vent or get things off your chest. Don't use it as a means to fond out her secrets and don't let it get you mad. You shouldn't expect anything in return for the use of her ear.
Really Sony relax, its not the end of the world. You all stressed out over ONE girl. If she hasn't opened up to you by now.....It might be, because she doesn't feel as comfortable about being so open the way you are with her. You are likely scaring the crap out of her, by opening up to her a lot in the single week you've known her. Tone your advances toward her down. If she still doesn't open up, move on. There are plenty girls out there.
Friend
You need to open up yourself first. Take time and re think.. is she for you.. are you for her ?
If the answer is Yes ... than no use sitting and wasting time and opportunity. Go and get her for you for ever.
Yes, she like you.. but want to hear it from you. She want to know how much you think of her and how much you can miss her. Forget all the ego and shyness.. go and get her.. for her and your happiness, love forever.
Love is never so easy to find.. but if you have.. be it with you forever.
With my best wishes for a never ending happy love filled life.
Viineet Jain
sony, u know my drama from talking with me. the girl ur explaining is with holding info just like the guy i love cause she's not fully comfortable with telling u her deepest thoughts yet. everybody keeps some things to theirselves at its not bad all the time unless it affects the other person in a negative way. give her some time, u haven't know her that long and i find it unusual that u told her that only knowing her for such a short period of time. have u told her ur interested in being more than friends? maybe thats why she isn't opening up. i dont tell my friends alot but i tell my lover everything. sonny take the advice u gave me....goodluck :-)
virgos r like dat..they'll never share their feelings to others...so u hv to compromise with them...if u really interested in her...
but in my experience scropions n virgo..hv a short but sweet relationship...always..
I'm a virgo and it takes well over a week for us to feel comfortable enough to share personal things about ourselves,,we have to know we can trust that person completely.......our close relationships are centered around trust.
Yes,,we're capable of opening up and being emotional,,but,,we would rather spend our time being happy than to dwell,,in bad memories or talking about them constantly,,
Just be patient,,impatient, demanding people scare us off,,
And, when a virgo gal calls you Mr. flirt it means she doesn't trust you,,she feels like you'd open up to just any one,,she probably doesn't feel like she's anything special,,If I were you,,i'd just let her know,,that you never open up to people that way,,,virgo's do have compassion and I'm sure if she knows her opening up a little will,,make you feel better,,she'll do it,,but not toooo much,,that's just our nature,,,take it or leave it,,,