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Answers: He won't open up but i know he likes me how can I get him to relax and get him to express himeslf more?

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Many virgos have trust issues, so it takes them a long time to learn to trust someone. They are naturally suspicious of people's motives. This is partly due to insecurity. Virgos often have low self esteem. They don't realize how worthy they are of your love and so they may be suspicious of that love. They make look strong and calm on the outside but, emotionally, the typical virgo is extremely sensitive and is afraid of getting hurt. They are also very afraid of making the wrong decision. They need to feel 150% sure that you are the right one for them, since the typical virgo always thinks in terms of a long term relationship. There is also no way you can speed up the process of their decision-making. The typical virgo will never do something when they don't feel ready. In fact, pushing them could backfire on you, since it is likely to make them suspicious of your motives and so undermine your hope of gaining their trust.

I have known many virgos, including virgo men, and this is my best advice-

Be honest
The only way you can convince a virgo that you are trustworthy is by being honest. Never pretend to be anything you are not and never be caught lying to them, since this will definitely destroy your chances of gaining their trust.

Be careful what you say
You need to know that, if your virgo man is contemplating your relationship potential, he is watching your every move. He is listening, remembering and analyzing every little thing you say. You are under constant examination. This is how virgos ascertain whether you are right for them and whether you can really be trusted, by putting you through a testing phase. This phase may last for months because the virgo needs time to learn as much as possible about you before making their decision. As such, you must never say anything that puts you in a bad light. This is especially true when referring to any past relationships you have had, because the virgo will judge how you will treat him according to how you have treated others in your life.

Be morally upright
Virgos look for people with high moral standards. Moral looseness is a turn off for them and they will never trust a person who displays this trait.

Stimulate his mind
The door to a virgo's heart is through his mind. The typical virgo finds intelligence and knowledge sexy and attractive and they always include these traits in their concept of their ideal mate.

Look for subtle clues
The typical virgo is not obvious in the way they express the fact that they like you. They are not dramatic by nature. They will show they care in little but significant ways, such as always being there to help you with practical problems or by altering their beloved routines in order to accommodate you. If they make an effort to be with you and to make you happy, then they care. If you notice and show your appreciation of all the little things they do for you, the virgo will be impressed.

Be patient
It always takes time and effort to win a virgo's heart, but if you do, you will always feel truly cared for.

Hope this helps. Good luck :)

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...And your sign is?
How? Hmm... he'll do if you give him enough time, telling him something really intimate may force him to do so, you can make a fuzz about how sad you feel that he doesn't trust you (use guilt)... get him drunk

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virgos don't like to be pushed.
Trust has to be built over time and the proof is in the puddin'

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he has been hurt so give him lots of space anyway give him a back massage,

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Aw.. Virgo males are hard nuts to crack!! They are cursed with the fear of love. Many times, they even push prospective love mates away unwillingly cuz they are afraid of what the real love match might mean.
They are so reserved and they never fight for their feelings!! yeah.. and They are too perfectionist, critical and over analytical. They are not the slave to their own passion and they certainly won't allow it. Exposed and vulnerable are Virgo's biggest hurdle. They are true romantic at heart but they don't want you to know that they are real softie, they can't shake the feelings that they need to protect themselves, simply cuz they can't bear the thought of being considered a fool. They don't open themselves easily and you can do nothing about it cuz they only want to show you what they want you to see.

MY advice is that Don't be a pushover. They are only likely to fall in love with the persons who can see past of their barriers and self-imposed walls. though it's their dreams to be uncovered, they will never admit it. Make sure they can depend on you, they need to trust you. to fall in love with you and be open up more. you have to stimulate their senses as well as their brains.

~Dated two

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Virgo is a passive mutable earth sign, which means that Virgo men are naturally introverted, flexible, earthy, sensual and practical by nature. They are ruled by the planet Mercury and love analysing details either verbally or through their minds. That probably explains why it may seem difficult to get them to relax as their minds are constantly churning, trying to assess pieces of information they have gathered.

Many Virgo men or men influenced by the Virgo energies are workaholics in the extreme sense and it may take arduous effort to get them to relax. But trust is always a big factor with the loyal and pragmatic earth signs, so winning his trust by sticking with him through the good and bad times, understanding his workaholic tendencies, is a top priority.

One good way of helping him relax is to give this sensual earth sign a slow massage. He will just dig that. Unlike some of the other more fiery temperaments, he will not reveal his deepest secrets or express himself much unless he feels safes, comfortable and trusts you.

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they never do...theyre too irritating...what sign are you?

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You've gotta be willing to wait for his timetable. He has to mull over & analyze every damn thing. It took us 10 years of dating to get hitched. I'm a leo and I make snap decisions and it confuses the hell out of him. Good luck!

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Open up to him, listen to him and his needs, show that you trust him. It takes time for a Virgo to open up because they tend to have trust issues. Show him that you are the one and not just another crazy girl.

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I will let you know when I find out. Im still working on mine. What I did was I left him alone I did not answer his calls I was cold and a little rude if I did speak to him. Finally I decided to answer cause he had told me he had been in the hospital. I was still rather distant to him and cold. He did not like that and told me he missed me and loved me. Which totally floored me. So there is hope.

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Virgo Virgo Virgo!


God, I love this sign.


Technically, a Virgo man makes one of the best worry warts. But, heres some practices you could try.


Virgos are known for their criticism. They are skeptical of all their partners, no matter what. Even after you have kids,get married, and have the best relationship ever, he will still never ever ever trust you 100%.


Besides, If your an Aries, Gemini, Sagittarius, or Libra, I would seriously give up on the relationship now! Those four signs are known to not be 100% faithful. Not only that, but the personality that are blessed with those for signs, don't exactly have strong enough evidence to prove anything to Virgo.

Plus, being one of those four signs, you don't like to be analyzed, or chained down either, which may cause some problems later, when he decides to leave you, because he is over dramatic, and will take something like a mistaken bump in as "you being a **** who just likes to seduce men, then dump them in the trash".


And, if this whole trust problem doesn't clear up in a month, I would recommend just leaving, without any help from astrology, because a relationship should be based on trust from both parties, not one trying to prove their r

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stop asking him and let him come to u. its the best way

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