This Sag girl broke my heart! But stil I love her so. What do i do?!
Question: we've been good friends for almost two years now.
I've been loving her. Finally, I had the courage to tell her I loved her, but she told me straight to my face that she just treated me as her brother all this while.
She just smiled at me and hugged me. she didn't know how much she broke my heart.
The more I know she doesn't want to hurt me, the more I'm in love with her. I can't be w/o her. Now, I'm worried she would avoid me and I don't want to lose her as a freind. what do i do?
I'm a scorpio guy
Answers: we've been good friends for almost two years now.
I've been loving her. Finally, I had the courage to tell her I loved her, but she told me straight to my face that she just treated me as her brother all this while.
She just smiled at me and hugged me. she didn't know how much she broke my heart.
The more I know she doesn't want to hurt me, the more I'm in love with her. I can't be w/o her. Now, I'm worried she would avoid me and I don't want to lose her as a freind. what do i do?
I'm a scorpio guy
Hey, Sag girl here.
Sorry she said that to you, She did mean it.
She didn't even care to lie and I'm sure she didn't want to hurt you.
You have to feel glad that at least she was honest with you and didn't keep your feelings hanging like a fool. At least you know how she feels about you so that you can move on with your life.
You need to forget about this sag girl. If you are worried about losing her as friend, you better forget about dating her. I believe you're losing her right now if you keep on pushing her to accept your love. It won't work.
I think it's either friendship or nothing.
Good luck
DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY.............................SORRY !!!!
GOOD LUCK!
You broke your own heart years ago. You were a broken heart waiting to happen. You bandaged up your already, previously broken heart with rubber bands, scotch tape and super glue and looked around for the best possible situation in which this bandaged-up heart attack could occur. Well, now you got your wish. I hope you're proud of yourself. Meanwhile, little Sag-Girl is on her way to bigger and better things in her future. You, on the other hand.........well, you're just a faded image in the rear view mirror of her car.
It's simple - love as an emotion is not the same as "making" love. If you love her, you love her. If you want to make love to her, then it is not your heart that is broken, something else is left unsatisfied. My advice would be: don't let your penis ruin a beautifull friendship. Love between a brother and a sister can be far greater then any other love, right? And she said herself that she loves you like a brother, right again? Peace!
First of all my thumps up to rhio9 for excellent answer.
Now answer to your question: She is very clever girl however, it took two long years for her to who understood you! You find some "GUM" to join your so called broken heart through some other girl.
My answer might be irritating you?
I want you to get irritated .....because a girl who behaved like your sister for two long years, ...you estimated her to be your lover???That is your fault, hence now you pay the penalty!
Sag and Scorpio....hmmm...always seems to be best of friends, maybe even lovers but never anything more. Either the Scorpio is too blinded by his own stubbornness to see the Sag is infatuated with him or the Sag is too busy living her life to realize the Scorpio is pouring his heart out.
I hate to say it but the best you can hope for is a really strong friendship that will last many years. Romance and love between Sag and Scorpio is very rare and usually too argumentative to go very far. Love-Hate.....Hate-Love...go figure!
If I were in your shoes, I would be happy that she is in your life and that she is honest with you, even if it is to the point of brutality. She will always be honest with you and let you know exactly where you stand with her. Sugar coating the subject is not her thing. Go with the flow, take her as she is. You're friendship should last a lifetime, maybe with some ups and downs, but you will enrich each others lives none the less.
Don't push for a romance that is not there. Enjoy life and your friendship with her...One of these days it just may turn into something more but be careful...like I said earlier...Sag and Scorpio usually don't get romantic.
Be Patient and good luck :)
wow, let her grow to you. and if it's meant to be it will be. meanwhile don't go wasting your energy on her.
whatever you do DON'T KILL HER, OR YOURSELF OVER THIS. TAKE THESE PEOPLE ADVICE ON HERE. No matter what ,i'm pretty sure she will always be there for you.