Help me get this Virgo!!!?!
Question: I'm a 28yr old Taurus Fem that is absolutely ga-ga over a 32 yr old Virgo man. After being married to a Gemini for 6 yrs, I know what I want/don't want in a mate. Gemini and I are getting a divorce.
Enter Mr. Virgo, who I have known since childhood and have had a crush on since! we lost touch for about 20 yrs, and recently reconnected via facebook.
Complication = He and his Fiance (a sagitarious) have been on a 8 month long break. She called the shot, and said she needed time away from him. He said that they can't work out certain differences, and is growing weary of waiting for her to make up her mind. He has given her an ultimatum, and the ball is now in her court.
He has been a great friend to me through my divorce. We laugh and fantasize about how we'd be able to enjoy a vacation together, etc etc... all this only through IMessages
But he says that he is not allowing himself to feel anything for me because of his "in-limbo-ness" with his "fiance".
does he like me or not?!
Answers: I'm a 28yr old Taurus Fem that is absolutely ga-ga over a 32 yr old Virgo man. After being married to a Gemini for 6 yrs, I know what I want/don't want in a mate. Gemini and I are getting a divorce.
Enter Mr. Virgo, who I have known since childhood and have had a crush on since! we lost touch for about 20 yrs, and recently reconnected via facebook.
Complication = He and his Fiance (a sagitarious) have been on a 8 month long break. She called the shot, and said she needed time away from him. He said that they can't work out certain differences, and is growing weary of waiting for her to make up her mind. He has given her an ultimatum, and the ball is now in her court.
He has been a great friend to me through my divorce. We laugh and fantasize about how we'd be able to enjoy a vacation together, etc etc... all this only through IMessages
But he says that he is not allowing himself to feel anything for me because of his "in-limbo-ness" with his "fiance".
does he like me or not?!
Honey, I can understand your feelings. You sound really in love with this guy. But too bad that he keeps you hanging and I know this feelings really suck.
Virgo males are tough nuts to crack!! They are cursed with the fear of love. Many times, they even push prospective love mates away unwillingly cuz they are afraid of what the real love match might mean.
They are so reserved and they never fight for their feelings!! Yeah... never. They would rather be alone and lose you than to ever be tough on himself and his feelings. If he's confused, insecure and scared, they wouldn't like it and and they would try their best to avoid that feelings. They are too perfectionist, critical and over analytical. They are not the slave to their own passion and they certainly won't allow it. Exposed and vulnerable are Virgo's biggest hurdle. They are true romantic at heart but they don't want you to know that they are real softie, they can't shake the feelings that they need to protect themselves, simply cuz they can't bear the thought of being considered a fool. They don't open themselves easily and you can do nothing about it cuz they only want to show you what they want you to see.
This guy sounds really confused at the moment. He may be still in love with his sag and wants her back, but he''' never fight for his feelings to win her back. He’ll just wait, wait and wait till she's gone for real. I think he does have feelings for you, but do you think he'll fight for it? No, he won't. All he knows is to wait and see what happens.
It's not easy to win a Virgo male's heart. It may take you a very long time!
MY advice is that don’t be a pushover. Make sure they can depend on you, they need to trust you. To fall in love with you and be open up more. You have to stimulate their senses as well as their brains. Be patient and give him time. I know it's hard but there is nothing much you can do if you really want him. He can't be pushed and can't be shaken. At the mean time, you really have to learn not to expect too much from him. He may disappoint you and you'll only be left broken-hearted. Protect yourself and don't settle for anything less, don't be a second choice but first!
I'm a Sagittarius and I've dated two Virgos and met several in my life. We are so attracted to each other at beginning. But eventually, we fall apart. I need someone who is more open up to me. I admire someone who knows exactly what he wants and will do anything to fight for it. I gave up on 'em cuz I didn't want to waste more time putting up with 'em. I was tired. Even I know, they maybe be hurt but still they wouldn't fight for it.
Good Luck
Well, I'm feeling two sides. So I'll give you both.
1. He likes you, and he's a good guy and doesn't want to end up with Ms. Sagitarious and leave you hanging. And wants to wait till things are offically over with Ms. Sagitarious.
2. This option is more likely if anything romatic has happened between you too. (cuddling, kissing, sleeping together, etc.) He's just using you till Ms Sag comes back
he likes you , but at the same time if he could save his previous relationship, then he will. It saddens me, but its true. He really need to take charge and let her go.
a sagit wont want him anyway believe me.. He will let you know but in the meantime dont wait around...cuz that sucks
I am tempted to make a reading for you and your friend, but I am rather busy now. You may "sign in" into any astrology websites (like Astrology.com, Tickle, etc.) that give free compatibility readings. Search in the net.
If you are trying to "win" or "seduce" (sorry, for the term) this man, focus on his Venus (love) and Mars (sexual) signs. Like, FOR EXAMPLE, if his Mars is in Scorpio and black is the color of Scorpio, that means he is seduced by the color black.... well, this tells you that you should wear black when you go out with him.
Virgos are attracted to Sagittarius.
The virgo man is like a slave to his woman! he is persistent and will hang in there with his mate. he is totally domestic.
the sag woman is probebly independent and full of like, fire sign.
who knows if the sag woman drops him, then he's all yours...but the virgo man will wait until that happens. Sag women are very bossy and know exactly what they want.
sounds like he likes you but since u r needy/want love (charecter of a taurus) you need to back off or you will lose him...wait...
Honey... Virgo's NEVER rush their decisions...and they take soo long to choose. Most bachealors r Virgo's!! They r soo picky! Save yourself heartache...remember Fleetwood Mac...
"If u don't luv me now, u will never luv me again..." I bet u...in 6months he will still be in the same ocean...sail away. Virgo's choose you.