Religion Vs Sex this is that full version?!
Question: But this guy deeply cleans himself after every sex we have, it's crazy how he can't let go sometime and relax in bed a little.
Now when we have sex on Thursdays, he would go and get clean but not shower, now he takes shower saying it because Friday he have to go to the Mosque and have to be clean. Well it's thursday not friday yet.
I am not a religious person but i am a spritual person, I let him know that, he said if he will have to marry me I will have to pray. Well I grew up with a Muslim parent, I thought well i can try to pray if we end up getting married, but I won't pray to the extreme.
I let him know how i feel, he said we might not get alone on the cleaning part because he is religious. he is very religious and he is very traditional but he is trying not to be traditional because i am not that tradition about anything really. I rather not go by the book all the time&relax and enjoy life like it's.
He even smells his hand one day&thought i didn't see what he did.
Answers: But this guy deeply cleans himself after every sex we have, it's crazy how he can't let go sometime and relax in bed a little.
Now when we have sex on Thursdays, he would go and get clean but not shower, now he takes shower saying it because Friday he have to go to the Mosque and have to be clean. Well it's thursday not friday yet.
I am not a religious person but i am a spritual person, I let him know that, he said if he will have to marry me I will have to pray. Well I grew up with a Muslim parent, I thought well i can try to pray if we end up getting married, but I won't pray to the extreme.
I let him know how i feel, he said we might not get alone on the cleaning part because he is religious. he is very religious and he is very traditional but he is trying not to be traditional because i am not that tradition about anything really. I rather not go by the book all the time&relax and enjoy life like it's.
He even smells his hand one day&thought i didn't see what he did.
What the FU%$#@!&^%???
Girl get away from him as soon as possible, run as much as you can....these fanatic freaks will only make your life misserable. You're supposed to enjoy sex, (just think about this, when will u enjoy sex, ***, and all those yummy moments??, when you are 80, stuck to a bed without moving)
NOOOOOO.....now is the time to enjoy it to your fullest, sex is good, *** is good, penetration is nice, all those things are nice, normal, healthy, fanttasies are healthy, sex is good.....
I am so tired of all thsese freaking religious people putting all these taboos into sex.
Grow up, leave that freak and enjoy your sex life......
Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you mean white stuff coming out of you? that's just discharge and totally normal. he obviously doesn't have much experience with the female body to freak out about it. it doesn't make you unlcean. there's nothing wrong with you. i wouldn't marry him if were you, he'll drive you crazy.
i am muslim and i religious but i have my limits.. u pray for yourself not for others.. so u pray if u want.. it is a great like i dont pray 5 times a day but i try to pray when i come out of the shower.. nothing wrong with being clean but he shouldnt throw it in your face... u need to find a balance... tell him religion is not just about praying.. in fact islam does require the worship of god.. but u have a greater duty. to be a good human being in this world and help others... if u are doing that already then u are religious.
if he doesn't like your ***... damn.. go and get another sex partner. he should be happy you are cumming..
if he is so religious then why is he having sex with you? he needs to look at himself.. and see that its easy to criticize others but put yourself in somebody else's shoes.. u could say the same thing to counteract his argument.. we all make decisions in life... and islam is very liberal.. yes there are recommendations but certain stuff is between u and god.. the book is very simple.. its the culture and the hadiths that have made everything complicated..
As a religious Aquarius, he most likely won't get over the cleaning business. I know you want him to relax, and see his immediate cleaning as "washing you off", but if you want this relationship to work you have to relax as well. If you're accepting of his habbits, he might begin to relax a bit too.
Ewww! Gross! What the hell!?
Hello All,...Push on,Get a new man,...His cleaning routine has noting to do with religion,...He has got his own hang-ups,You are not a phychiatrist,...Wish him well,and ask him to appreciate a womans body the next time he is with a woman,the penny may drop in the future for him!!,...regards,Jemmy.
I deleted this answer from your first question, and replace it here:
Sorry, but this is not something to resolve astrologically. And you can check my questions, I'm all about answering astrological questions. But not when it comes to abuse.
First of all, I hope you are not somehow legally betrothed to this weirdo. English is obviously not your first language, and I have no idea from where you are writing nor of what culture you are a part. In spite of my ignorance, please understand:
You need to end this relationship and move on to a new phase in your life that does not include him.
You need to learn about the biology of your body. You seem to have internet access--I realize some people only have access through public terminals, so it limits the amount of browsing you can do, but you clearly do not have enough understanding of the biological processes going on in your body.
If you are in some situation in which you can not escape this jerk, at least learn about your body. If he has ever had sex at all before *and* if cares about you _at all_, he would never have treated you like that.
It's one thing to be ignorant of biology, and another to be mean and abusive.
You've done nothing wrong.
If you can go to a doctor, s/he would be best qualified to help you with these questions. Start there, if possible.
Go to a doctor, get the answers.
Tell your stupid jerk of a boyfriend you need someone who loves and respects you and if he's incapable of doing that to get away from you and NEVER come back.
Learn about your body's biological processes.
Find a partner who loves and respects you.
That's a lot of work, but that's what you need to do. Verbal abuse, especially involving such biological processes, is absolutely unforgivable in 2007.
Lose the loser.