Cancerian froze me out?!


Question: Has anyone had the experience of being completely ignored by a cancerian that you were once close to? Did they speak to you again? and after how long?
It drove me nuts having him not speak to me so I spoke to him. He said he wasn't ignoring me on purpose, and when I asked him how long this was going to go on for all he said was "in time." I backed off and gave him his space, but its been nearly four months since I have heard a peep from him, yet I see him on msn everyday.
Has anyone had a similar experience like this?


Answers: Has anyone had the experience of being completely ignored by a cancerian that you were once close to? Did they speak to you again? and after how long?
It drove me nuts having him not speak to me so I spoke to him. He said he wasn't ignoring me on purpose, and when I asked him how long this was going to go on for all he said was "in time." I backed off and gave him his space, but its been nearly four months since I have heard a peep from him, yet I see him on msn everyday.
Has anyone had a similar experience like this?

Actually, I had an experience exactly like this. His name isn't Jerry is it? I think he even used the same "in time" bs with me. Cancer's are very sensitive, and Cancer men, unlike Cancer women who tend to get externally emotional, are more internal about it. He had told me something very personal and private that I admitted to knowing to another person he was involved with and all hell broke loose. In his eyes, I broke his trust and he simply needed to cool off. It took him 6 months to do it but at least it happened. I kept trying the entire time to talk to him. He'd give me a little bit here and there and then one day he showed up at my door. This was 4 years ago and we still talk to this day. Just let him know that you are sorry and you care about him, and, unlike him with you, you are having a hard time without him in your life.

I'm a Cancer, and when I did that, it was because I was pissed at my friends for doing something that hurt me. I wouldn't let them know what it was, which exacerbated the situation, but that's how I cope with things. Anyhow, ask him if he's alright and just try to show a general concern for how he is. Maybe you did something to hurt him without even knowing it. Us Cancers can get hurt over the silliest little things. Anyway, that's just my two cents. Best of luck to you!

oh that is the way we are if we get mad over something or else we are hiding in the bottom of the ocean under a coral reef in our shell it take s us a long time to trust again so wait or leave we are very moody. we are loners

This guy doesn't sound in love with you.
He prolly has a girlfriend and he prolly doesn't want you. Sorry but true.

When a cancer falls in love, he'll do nothing but give you all his heart and soul. No matter how bad you treat him, he'll stick with you. Cancer is forgiving at heart yet they never forget.

Move on.

~Dated three

I am actually one of the most emotional cancerians ive ever met, we find it hard to let go of things. Once someone does wrong by us we find it hard to retrieve the feelings we once had. You may not even know whats wrong, we dont like to hurt peoples feelings so instead we usually become ignorant. Or he could just be a rude prick!



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