What's up with my Cancer/Capricorn husband? HELP!?!


Question: My husband born 7/7/67. He's Cancer with Capricorn moon. I am Leo /Scorpio moon.

He has been so domineering and stubborn since labor day when he got fired and he started arguing over everything. (He got a new job 3 wks later that he likes better. ) We are not talking anymore and sleep in separate rooms. He said that it is a sin to swear or make a vow or oath & it's in the bible. To me that means our wedding vows. We have only been married for 2 yrs. I feel like he never loved me & married me for his own selfish ambitions.

I've tried to work things out with him several times. He refused counseling and has not made any attemps to make amends. He is just being so obstinate. He is a Christian Fundamentalist & bible literalist. I'm not.

I have pretty much given up on him & am ready to file for an anulment. Is this some astrological trend or is he just showing his real self?


Answers: My husband born 7/7/67. He's Cancer with Capricorn moon. I am Leo /Scorpio moon.

He has been so domineering and stubborn since labor day when he got fired and he started arguing over everything. (He got a new job 3 wks later that he likes better. ) We are not talking anymore and sleep in separate rooms. He said that it is a sin to swear or make a vow or oath & it's in the bible. To me that means our wedding vows. We have only been married for 2 yrs. I feel like he never loved me & married me for his own selfish ambitions.

I've tried to work things out with him several times. He refused counseling and has not made any attemps to make amends. He is just being so obstinate. He is a Christian Fundamentalist & bible literalist. I'm not.

I have pretty much given up on him & am ready to file for an anulment. Is this some astrological trend or is he just showing his real self?

No, it's not a trend. That is the way your husband is: Cancer (protective and defensive) with his moon in Capricorn (ambition, career) in opposition to his sun (himself). So sometimes there is a conflict in his ambitions. But you are also important and your view of life is more liberal than his (fundamentalist). You have to ask yourself why you got married in the first place and whether you want to stay with this man. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? What about your career? I think you answered your own question when you said I feel like he never loved me and married me for his own selfish ambitions. If that is the way you feel, then you have to make a decision. Hope this helps.

I think you might find that next week everything comes to a head! Perhaps for the best, but really I shouldn`t say that when knowing so little about your complete Horoscopes, and even then, it`s up to both of you to come to your own conclusions. None the less, from what you say, you sound to me like a rather awkwardly-matched couple. Cancers and Capricorns are in for some tremendous changes in the future that they may have been hankering after for a while. The new year might indicate in what direction these changes might take. Next week, with the New Moon, there could be an emotional show-down. Watch out!

this is the reason people shouldnt marry if they dont believe in the same thing it causes conflicts and yes cancers and capricorns are strange these days i am in the same boat only not married, just we are not arguing just not on same page at moment, i think we are both needing space . new things will come just hold off or get out, marriage is supposed to be for life the good and the bad it may be a test to see how much you love each other and if it is unconditional and if it is not its not worth being with one another,

Don't use astrology to justify anything, believe me this is such high order spirituality that you should not even attempt to understand, you never will. Look at your hubby for who he is. He is stubborn, he doesn't accept your views about life and the bible, he refuses to accept that there is a problem in the marriage and to take positive steps to resolve them. He is purely stubborn and selfish, I have to accept that.
Perhaps his ego was injured when he lost his job but still will he continue putting you through this everytime things do not work his way?
I would say, give it time and postpone any plans to have kids if any and see if what you get you can live with. From experience though, men with this kind of personality only get worse especially once kids arrive becaouse they believe they have you where they want you....see with kids you will not be flexible anymore with the decisions you have.
Pray some more, talk some more before you give up.



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