I am in love with an Aquarius. He has become aloof again. We were engaged I gave!
Question: I am in love with an Aquarius male, female sag here. We were together two years ago. We broke up and got back together and were engaged. I did not talk to him for two months so I gave him the ring back. I will not hold on to something under false pretense for security's sake. I love him very much and I feel that he is the one I want to spend my life with. I have read everything I can on Aquarius. Am I supposed to let him come back to me. Date other people to get his attention, or wait patiently on the waste side.
Answers: I am in love with an Aquarius male, female sag here. We were together two years ago. We broke up and got back together and were engaged. I did not talk to him for two months so I gave him the ring back. I will not hold on to something under false pretense for security's sake. I love him very much and I feel that he is the one I want to spend my life with. I have read everything I can on Aquarius. Am I supposed to let him come back to me. Date other people to get his attention, or wait patiently on the waste side.
Well, it seems that u still care alot and loves him, just give him some time ba...
If u like a aquarian, then be prepare and accept the possiblity of us suddenly appear aloof and distant. We dun do it on purpose but jus by nature and that dosent mean we dun care. Just like we seldom want to show our emotions. So basically if u wanna try to date another guy to evoke his jealousy, i am afriad u MIGHT work... BUT we wont show it directly for sure...indirectly u know? if u didnt manage to catch it how?we can be quite irritated and leding to anger...feeling hurt: what have i done wrong? thinking:i cant trust u etc...
if u love him, i am sure u wont want to hurt him and ultimatley affecting your whole relationship right?
Give him some time, remember:
True Love Can Wait~
~All the best~
I would say move on, but that's hard to do when you're in love.
What are your moon signs or your exact date of birth with the yr. You need to do a whole chart to find out.
If you just want a general idea then I would say Aquarius are airy. They are interested in many things and people and chage their minds a lot. I would say move on and go out with others not to make him jealous but to find a new guy. I know that's not what you want to hear but if you totally ignore him he may come back. That means no phone calls no notes don't go where he goes & don't ask anyone about him. Good luck.
well... as an aquarius (but a female), i can say jealous factor's not going to work to get him back. even if he is jealous, he's not going to show it, because... i believe we generally see jealousy or other emotions as petty and useless. he's probably going to think he lost you and move on (even if it's very difficult). if you gave him the ring back, maybe it's already over. he's probably not going to pursue you passionately like some signs; he's probably going to be brooding at home, thinking about anything but the ring (or vice versa). unless he has big fire element in his "chart" (which it doesn't sound like he does), he's not going to pursue this relationship......
unless you can prove to him somehow that you're someone he needs. if you've been together for two years, chances are, he probably thinks he's got you fully analyzed in his brain of his (i do that to my friends... unknowingly, i swear!). if you can show him that you're still a puzzle that he has yet to finish (for lack of better terms), he's going to come crawling back. you need to perk his interest again, but in a way to stimulate his mind more than anything. waiting patiently might work, but while waiting, you might just get sick of it.
if you're just tired of this push-and-pull game we air people play, then i suggest that you pack your heart and give it to someone more worth it. honestly, i have to say that aquarian people really suck at the love/romance department, and we'd be better off being monks or something non-romantic. he could just be overwhelmed with the idea of marriage, after all.
sorry i can't help you more... i've never been attracted to an aquarian man, so i've never really took time to study their behaviors. although, i hope this helps a bit. ^^
If I were you I would let him know exactly what your feelings are so that he is well aware, and then move on without him if you have to. I had an Aquarius guy jerk me around for YEARS! On again, off again, he loved me but didn't want a serious commitment, back and forth back and forth back and forth back and forth! It was absolutely maddening, especially to a sensitive Cancer. If you want to move on and date other people, go ahead and do so, but do it for YOU and not with the hope that it will make him jealous to the point of racing back into your arms. I say this because the typical Aquarius male will NOT get jealous normally no matter how much you mean to him. This is a man that has to do things his own way in his own time, but if you're waiting for him to have an epiphany you may be disapointed if it never comes and you should never waste your life waiting for someone. All of this advice is rather practical, but I do understand that emotionally it's got you a wreck and I feel for you. If you love someone let him go, if he comes back he's yours forever and if not then he was never yours to begin with. Don't wait around for him though girl---just say what you need to say so YOU have no regrets about it and then do your best to get along without him. The fact that two commitment shy signs became engaged at all is a miracle, but it sounds like he has other plans. These guys do have a tendency to believe the grass may be greener somewhere else and that by getting tied down now he could be missing out on something better. I have been there and I know how hard it is. Keep your head up---it's not you, it's the water bearer!