Why are all relationships suffering?!
Question: is there something wrong with the stars? wherever i go i hear about breakups. even last week, my virgo guy fought with me for no reason at all. n he was telling me that we should leave each other now. wats happening?
Answers: is there something wrong with the stars? wherever i go i hear about breakups. even last week, my virgo guy fought with me for no reason at all. n he was telling me that we should leave each other now. wats happening?
Many relationships do involve suffering, however, if you are in an abusive relationship, you need to get out. All relationships end eventually, if not through a break-up or divorce, through death. Nothing is permanent in this life and there are no guarantees. What you should do is look for patterns in your relationships. Are the same things happening over and over again? If so, you need to examine that. Perhaps a counsellor could help you. Sometimes we re-enact scenarios similar to what we experienced with our parents or caregivers. If your relationships with them were painful, then your current relationships are probably an attempt to "get it right this time." I highly recommend the books by Harville Hendrix. He explains how relationships are meant to heal our childhood wounds. His knowledge is profound. If you have not started reading relationship books, get started. You can really learn a lot and begin to see that each relationship provides you with the opportunity to learn important lessons. Embrace the suffering. It is trying to tell you something.
People fight sometimes.
And people will break up with others until they find the right one.
The "signs" had nothing to do with it. There's nothing wrong with the stars.
it may well be the stars, but no one knows for sure. i think it's probably most likely around your circle of friends that this is happening. but people break up often, it's normal.
I think we're just in a universe that's focused on "Me" and no one else. Nobody wants to be kind to each other because they're afraid that they're being made a fool of. Nobody wants to give up the upper hand. Especially now that women are making money and are no longer dependent on men for their well-being, we can leave men more easily without having to worry about many consequences. Also, divorce is being increasingly easy.
what JustSome Girl said