A female with sign cancer and a male aquarius? Do they match?!
Question: Can they be happy in their relationship, considering that aquarius is so cold person and cancer is different.
Answers: Can they be happy in their relationship, considering that aquarius is so cold person and cancer is different.
Cancer/Aquarius
You and Aquarius are of a different breed. You will have to work extra hard to overcome the basic problems you'll encounter within this relationship.
Aquarius live life like research scientists, gathering data and making rational conclusions. Cancers, on the other hand, know from experience that their hearts always steer them in the right direction. Cancers know that everyday facts can be deceptive depending on how they are presented, so they've come to rely on their gut reactions. As a water sign, Cancers have a more highly developed intuition than Aquarius, and this instinct will work especially well for you.
The Aquarius aloofness will trouble you. It may initially attract you to this mysterious and alluring loner, but in time he or she could break your heart. You are warm, engaging, compassionate and tender. When your Aquarius doesn't call or respond wholeheartedly, you will compare his or her behavior to your own under the same circumstances. This may not make you feel any better. The trouble is, Aquarius has a blind eye when it comes to passion and has trouble feeling like part of a twosome. Aquarius will love your capacity for deep emotions, but he or she simply doesn't feel things as deeply. This puts you forever in the role of the giver.
You want family, closeness, and commitment more than anything else in life. Aquarius want freedom, independence, and a chance to explore and understand their own identity. Aquarius resist marriage for this same reason, feeling it will impinge on their needs. In time, you may be able to reassure yours enough to get him or her to commit, but your Aquarius will never give you the warmth you crave. Aquarius find you too moody and easily slighted, whereas you find them somewhat cool and crusty at times.
But Aquarius have the most beautiful eyes and tend to be light in color. Their gaze can convince you to agree to practically anything. In bed, they will dazzle you with their electric lovemaking. Aquarius can send you to another world, but it's all fun and games, because in all the other areas that matter to them, they'll know you two don't click. And so will you.
Cancer is traditional in outlook; Aquarius cares nothing about the past, is only interested in the future, and loves to break rules. They march to a different drummer because their role in the Universe is to question all preconceptions. As a Cancer, you may find this hard to deal with over the years. In time you may ask yourself if you can sacrifice so much of yourself to their personality. You are more flexible than fixed sign Aquarius, so you are the one who will have to make adjustments. Sooner or later you could find yourself worn out.
You may be nodding, seeing the writing on the wall. If you love your Aquarius, possibly you have the moon or other planets in a highly compatible relationship to their Sun. We are only studying the Sun sign here, so have your custom chart drawn up and decide what to do about your relationship later. You need time together before you make any serious decisions.
Forget that astrology malarkey, if the chemistry is right, it will work out.
Romantic Compatibility
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Aquarius & Cancer
When Cancer and Aquarius make a love match, it can be a case of opposites attracting. Cancer takes an emotional approach to life, Aquarius, an offbeat, unconventional approach. While Cancer often retreats into its shell, Aquarius takes every opportunity to be the extrovert, the organizer and party animal. They love to find themselves amongst friends; social settings are simply their thing! If a Cancer and an Aquarius can find a way to combine these qualities in a positive way, they can go anywhere together.
Both Cancer and Aquarius can be ambitious and determined. They want to get their way, and neither likes to conflict. Cancer can be old-fashioned, attached to tradition and routine, their morals more conservative than progressive. Aquarius, on the other hand, is very modern and likely numbed by routine, yawning at the dull and the boring in which Cancer sometimes finds comfort. Cancer may be intrigued by their Aquarius lover's sense of excitement, but this traditional Crab could get frustrated trying to keep up with this revolutionary's mind. Though Aquarius won't appreciate the possessiveness of a pinching Crab, they could find great comfort in the solid base Cancer provides. Just try to get them to admit it!
The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and Saturn (Karma) and Uranus (Rebellion) rules Aquarius. The Moon is a radiant, feminine energy and Saturn is a cool, contained masculine energy. Uranus is about all things abnormal and novel. The Moon is emotional and concerned with growth and domesticity, both of which become central themes in many Cancer's lives. Saturn deals with hard work and the discipline required for achievement, while Uranus symbolizes forward thought. This combination makes sense for an Aquarian, as they are futurists unafraid of getting their hands dirtied by labor. Cancer mates can teach social, intellectual Aquarius lovers the value of emotional impulses, and their feminine influence will bring beauty and comfort into the home. While Cancer teaches the valuable lesson of an open heart, Aquarius can come right back with the usefulness of a detached heart. Aquarians are blessed to be able to extricate themselves from uncontrollable situations and to reevaluate goals if they get off-course. Not necessarily cold, Aquarius could still benefit from Cancer's warm, feminine Moon-based influence.
Cancer is a Water Sign, and Aquarius is an Air Sign. Aquarius sees life as an intellectual exercise, a constant exploration and expansion of the mind. Cancer's more pragmatic. Cancer stops to ask, 'how does this feel?' while Aquarians keep asking 'what else is there?' It may be tough for one to get where the other is coming from, and conflicts can arise if Aquarius gets a little too cool or Cancer too emotionally demanding. They may end up working at cross-purposes: Cancer asks for more and more, Aquarius may pull further and further away. By accepting that their worldviews are dissimilar, Cancer and Aquarius can move on and celebrate their diversity, learn to say 'vive la difference' rather than feeling threatened by it.
Cancer is a Cardinal Sign, and Aquarius is a Fixed Sign. Both persevere when working toward goals. If they have a set path, they'll follow it to the end. With this sort of shared perseverance -- and if they both place a high value on their relationship -- this couple will never be dissuaded from that knowledge and will constantly think of one another. If they run into snags, Aquarius will discover that Cancers, though they may seem shy and retire into their shells, can actually be very tenacious and dogmatic, not above using emotional manipulation on their loved ones. Also, Aquarius could be bothered by Cancer's over-emotionality. If they agree to work toward a common goal, these two can get along.
What's the best thing about the Cancer-Aquarius love match? When they decide to come together, they are an indomitable force! When they decide to combine their disparate energies, Cancer and Aquarius can find their own natural balance and have fun with their differences rather than letting them frighten them away from a chance to love.
In astrology, that is a good match. In person, hows it working out for ya?
ya know my ex is a capricorn and i'm a saggirarius and the stars and horoscopes said we'd make the best couple, HENCE THE EX!!!! he's a ***!!! so horoscopes are sooooo wrong!!!!
Yes, they do. Provided they love each other.
i know one such match that has lasted 56 yrs...cuz the cancer man is so romantic and she is his whole world.
Cancer and Aquarius? You are so different that only with a great effort (especially from you, dear Cancer!) you'll make the relationship work. Aquarius is an Air sign, and you are a Water sign: two elements that don't stay together too much and they never mix.
Aquarius is a sort of "science man" of the zodiac: (s)he is inclined towards research and technology, and (s)he is guided by reason in everything (s)he does: love itself is rational to an Aquarius. And as you are guided first of all by intuition and feelings, your reactions can be very different in similar situations. As a Water sign, you have a certain instinct in relating to people, an instinct that Aquarius doesn't have and doesn't understand. It's not something that can be felt, seen, smelled, analyzed.
Aquarius can seem (and often is) a little distant, cold and... (s)he doesn't seem to get involved as much as you do or as you would like him/her to. You were probably very attracted to his/her mysterious look, but you will soon discover that it isn't just a way to seduce: this is how Aquarius is, mysterious. And no matter how hard you try to understand what happens in his/her soul, you'll always have the impression that there is an invisible barrier, beyond which you cannot pass.
This Air native loves adventure too much to stay at home: Aquarius hears the song of sea maids more often and (s)he follows it. And "home" is the place you enjoy the most. Aquarius is very independent, and this will hurt you, because it will increase your feeling of insecurity (that is characteristic of many Crabs) and your jealousy.
Besides that, Aquarius has a terrible, fantastic, but rather irritating style to tell it as it is. To an Aquarius, there is no diplomacy, gentleness or other things like these. Truth is one and, whether it hurts or not, it must be told.
Not to mention that sentimental effusions are a catastrophe to Aquarius, while you would simply not be a Cancer if you didn't have such effusions from time to time... That doesn't mean Aquarius doesn't need love or can't share feelings, but (s)he does it in a much colder, more detached and "universal" way than you do: Aquarius loves the world, you need to love ONE person.
Aquarius is more social and more sociable than Cancer, meaning that (s)he loves being around friends, socializing, and (s)he is much better at communicating with more people. You like going out, too, but Aquarius prefers the activities outside home much more than you do and many times you just don't have the power to follow him/her wherever his/her born curiosity takes him/her to.
Aquarius is the innovator of the zodiac: that means (s)he is very liberal in thinking, in morality, a true reformer. On the other hand, you are the conservative (and the keeper) of the zodiac. Your tastes are probably so different that I wonder where you found each other.
Aquarius' eccentricity and the moods of the Moon that governs Cancer will collide quite often and it wouldn't surprise me if you were the one saying: "that's it, I can't take it anymore!" Aquarius simply can't understand your mysterious soul, full of emotions and guided by intuition: (s)he can't see anything that is beautiful about you, because his/her eyes can't see the mysteries of the Water.
Sexually, you will probably get along just fine, at the beginning at least. It's hard not to feel excellent with this imaginative Aquarius. But, even so, after a while you'll feel that (s)he's not there with you, although (s)he is near you. It's like (s)he is in some place else at the same time: Aquarius doesn't get involved enough.
Think twice before starting this relationship, dear Cancer: the physical attraction is important but for a long-term relationship you need many other things in common. You'll surely tell yourself that you can change and adapt, that Aquarius is worth all this, because (s)he has such a refined spirit that charmed you, such a mysterious look, etc. But remember that the only relationship in which it is worth staying more than a week is the one allowing you to be yourself every day. Otherwise, it simply isn't worth the effort.
Normally, Cancers are usually attracted to other Water signs (Scorpio and Pisces) and Earth signs, but since Aquarius is "The Water Bearer", Aquarius' universal and joyful attitude makes the Cancer feel right at home. Like most Water signs, Cancers love humor and humor is indeed a big part in their life. Aquarius is good for this because they often show a child-like attitude. Sometimes though, Cancers must be aware of becoming too possessive and the Aquarian must be aware of lacking emotion and sympathy for the Cancer. Both should do fine if stabled enough throughout their relationship.