Why does it seem like VIRGOS are the least favorite in the love department?!


Question: SERIOUSLY, I do NOT want to offend any virgos, but from my experience and even this site, it seems as though virgos are very boring and are unlucky with love.
You guys can find love- but NEVER cherish it.

(once again I don't mean to offend anyone, but I feel like this for some reason)

Does anybody agree & has better explanation?


Answers: SERIOUSLY, I do NOT want to offend any virgos, but from my experience and even this site, it seems as though virgos are very boring and are unlucky with love.
You guys can find love- but NEVER cherish it.

(once again I don't mean to offend anyone, but I feel like this for some reason)

Does anybody agree & has better explanation?

Hi, I 'm a Sag and I have dated two Virgo males in my life. I personally don't fall in love easily. However, I'm so attracted to Virgo males. Weird but true. I can totally relate to your questions once I read it. Ok, lemme straighten this out a lil' bit..

Virgo can seem to be unemotional, cold and a bit uptight when in love. However, they hide a sensible, warm and sensual personality inside. They are very romantic at heart. The Virgo males I've dated are very charming, calm, sensual, intellectual and sophisticated. They are very witty.

The Virgo male is not good at talking sweet and doing something romantic to you. You’ll never him say "Hun, you look soo pretty tonight! You shine like the stars in the sky...". One word "GREAT" from a Virgo's mouth can mean so much. Also, he's NOT the guy who will be playing a guitar singing a song for you down the balcony of your house. He'll never do such a silly thing (which he believes). He's not flirty and is hard to fall in love. However, once a Virgo falls for you, his feelings are stable and true. His ONE touch can be deadly! LOL. His ONE cuddle means a millions things! He's not very good at expressing his feelings and emotions but he'll be there for you to help you out whenever you're in need. He’ll give you lots of great advice if you face problem in life. He can be critical and judgmental but he usually means good cuz he cares about you and you should believe him cuz he usually has great taste.

However, the down side is that Virgo males are tough nuts to crack!! They are cursed with the fear of love. Many times, they even push prospective love mates away unwillingly cuz they are afraid of what the real love match might mean.
The MORE they find themselves in love with you, the more they feel like they need you deep inside, the more they find themselves clinging over to you, the more they are scared and terrified. They will, however, pull off a little bit, leave some space cuz they simply do NOT want to lose over themselves (which they believe). They can be very insecure. The MORE they are afraid to lose you, the more they are terrified so to avoid getting hurt, they wouldn't give ALL of their hearts.

They are too perfectionist and over analytical. They are not the slave to their own passion and they certainly won't allow it. Exposed and vulnerable are Virgo's biggest hurdle. They are warm at heart but they don't want you to know that they are real softie, they can't shake the feelings that they need to protect themselves, simply cuz they can't bear the thought of being considered a fool. They don't open themselves easily and you can do nothing about it cuz they only want to show you what they want you to see.
They seem to be strong but deep down, they are dying inside to be smitten ten times over, but they won't show it.

Virgo males are charming! They can definitely find love. They easily attract girls. However, they easily piss 'em off too!
My relationship with the Virgos were great at the beginning, But eventually, we fell apart cuz of his jealousy and my super outgoing personality which he couldn't take it. I need someone who is more open up to me. I admire someone who knows exactly what he wants and will do anything to fight for it. I gave up on 'em cuz I didn't want to waste more time putting up with 'em. I was tired. Even I know, they maybe be hurt but still they wouldn't fight for it.

"When she was walking out the door, I didn't say a word and just watched her go, even deep down, I was broken and I so wanted her to stay but I became so numb and I didn't know what to do. Maybe she'd be happy without me. I know I'd be missing her and crying in my sleep but I deserve it afterall." ~a Virgo male (My ex)

I Think Some Virgo's Are A little to judgemental/critical of others, That may be some Virgo's problem when it comes to Love or just dealing with everyday ppl. And also the ones that I've met are too much of the serious-type for most ppl.

I CAN NOT SAY ALL VIRGO'S ARE LIKE THAT BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW ALL VIRGO'S.

If you ask a virgo about love, being honest they tell you. Love is saying kind and nice words to the people you love, i need sex cause its healthy, i love her cause she's not ugly and has enough money....... i'm not just inventing this, once i ask one of my virgo friends, he said that, and i was amazed, then i told him that for me that wasn't love :S. He has a girfriend now and he says he loves her a lot and he would marry her, but who knows.

virgos are boring

I disagree. I've loved and cherished people *very* deeply. But no, I'm not someone who dates around or flirts a lot. It takes a long time for me to fall in love and when I do I'm in it for the long haul. Outsiders may look at my track record and think that I've been "unlucky" because I've only had a handful of loves in my life, but the thing is that I don't do casual relationships. I never have, not even when I was in my teens.

I think that what it boils down to is that Virgos are funny about emotions. We don't like opening up, and we hate getting emotional. Emotions are unpredictable and they complicate things, so love feels very risky to practical Virgos. Many will second guess every step of the way when they're falling in love. As a consequence, they may miss out sometimes because they have a hard time taking leaps of faith and that's what falling in love is all about. But when they've fallen, that's it. They are devoted. However, their devotion is often shown through doing practical things for the one they love, I've known very few "mushy" Virgos. To very romantic people that may seem boring (not to mention that whole critical Virgo nature turns people off sometimes), but to others it can be a very good fit. A Virgo in love will study everything about his/her partner and figure out all of the things that make him/her happiest. And that is a trait that is appreciated by many.

Well, i do agree with ya, but Virgos not only do they generally (not always) tend to not cherish love, but they also like to play "hard to get".

and yes, i totally agree, they are so damn BOOOOORING! i know from experience too! ZzzzzzzzzZZzz

its quite a surprise i dont click with them, considering Capricorns are supposed to be their oh so best match.

I totally agree with Cherry above. Although I am a leo, I have a lot of virgo characteristics. I was born on a cusp. Either way. I don't think that virgos are unlucky in love either. We just don't go around dating like the rest. Trust me, I've had many guys asking me out but that doesnt mean I have to go out with them just because they are interested in me. I'm 20 years old and I can count on one hand how many guys I have dated and I don't even consider them 'relationships'. We are just very picky and we want what we want.

We have the capability to love deeply but we are afraid to get hurt. That's why it takes so long for us to open up because we are are afraid of being vulnerable. It's even harder for us to open up if we have gotten our hearts broken before.

Virgo's are not boring, just misunderstood. I've heard somewhere that we are the most misunderstood sign in the zodiac. Some of us are very conservative and private. People may perceive us as being too serious or two critical. But that doenst mean that we don't know how to relax and have fun.

The point is, if you want to be with a virgo, you have to be very very very patient with him or her because they are very methodical and systematic in the way that they approach love. They are looking for the 'one' and not something casual. This could be another reason why we don't date around or why their 'relationships' don't last. They are looking for perfection or something close to it.

If you are very a very impatient person I'd stay clear from them or you will most likely get your heart broken by one.



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