Scorpios, let me know if this is true about you or others that you know of......!
Question: A lot of times, out of frustration and anger, you often want to hurt the other person with an "I don't care" attitude and hide your true emotions/feelings, therefore you may say the meanest, cruelest things you can think of...........although those who are close to you, that you care for most and have feelings for, know that what you just said aren't true. Is that correct?
Answers: A lot of times, out of frustration and anger, you often want to hurt the other person with an "I don't care" attitude and hide your true emotions/feelings, therefore you may say the meanest, cruelest things you can think of...........although those who are close to you, that you care for most and have feelings for, know that what you just said aren't true. Is that correct?
Sorta true.
The snapping isn't really out of anger... Anger isn't important enough, and most Scorpios I know (myself included) act *very* quiet and reserved when we're angry. We act very cordial and polite, actually. So, snapping isn't a result of anger... it's a result of feeling hurt, betrayed, manipulated, or degraded (which certainly has some angry aspects, but that's not the main focus). Likewise, such things aren't said/done to hurt the other person... Sometimes it's to save face... a way to disguise being hurt (with bad consequences). Usually it's done to test the person... to essentially shake them up, rip away their own defenses, and get an honest answer/reaction out of them. On very rare occasion, it's done to hurt someone (usually without thinking)... but mostly just to even the score (yeah, not a good thing... but so what?).
That said... if we snap that much, then it's because we genuinely care about the person enough for them to hurt us... so it's a thinly veiled defense. Also... we never say the meanest thing we can think of... the *meanest* thing we can think of is usually completely unfathomable to every other person on the planet.
So... it's partially true, but your interpretation of the motive is a little simplistic.
Likewise, there are various "forms" of Scorpio... the lower (serpent, scorpion) and the higher (eagle, wolf). The lower is malicious and spiteful. The higher may use cunning and stealth, but with a more enlightened/altruistic/compassionate intent, and within reason.
Most Scorpios I know majorly snap occasionally, but are genuinely very sweet and loving.
no not at all
i'm a scorpio and i would never try and hurt anyone, even if they made me mad. i don't try and hide my feelings either, i just calmly confront the problem maturely.
horoscopes are almost never right, a person shouldn't be judged from the day they were born, but how they act.
~hope that helped.~
Well, it's partly true.. the frustration part and also the part about hiding true emotions at times... However, I do not agree about hurting others emotions/feelings.
oh i'm a scorpio-libra cusp, and i definitely do that! which is quite horrible.
This is not true for me (I'm Scorpio), I'm pretty much an open book when it comes to my emotions and I would never try to hide my true feelings from people who are close to me.
Saying that, though, my ex was also a Scorpio and he very much did do what you have said. I don't personally think it was related to star sign, I think it came down to personal background. I was brought up in a very loving, caring home where we were encouraged to talk and share our feelings, whereas his upbringing was somewhat difficult, with a broken home and raised by a stepmother who always put her own kids first. He grew up having to hide his true feelings, I didn't.
it just depends in a lot of cases. What your describing is almost true except the part of hurting the person. Physically no, but do I become arrogant and want to get my revenge for hurting me emotionally and mentally...yes.
I tend to provoke people without noticing I'm doing them & I end up snapping. But I do bottle emotions & probably why I aim to hide emotions from my partner.
Not ALL Scorpios are the same, my dear. This "I don't care" attitude can be true of all the Sun signs, you know? If you're going to use Astrology as a reference for people, please learn a lot more about it before you make some serious misjudgments about people.
YES 100% true!
I am sorrounded by scorpions in my life and i know them very well.
Just forgive them :) because they do love you.
yes, it's correct, I'm myself guilty of doing that
My best friends is A scorpio and he is 100% like what you said... scorpios will disagree becouse they overrate themselfes, but in hiding emotions thing they do but if you're close to them you can know what they feel by looking to thier eyes..
ok im a scorpio woman and im exactly like you describe this scorpio person, out of anger and insecurity we tend to be cruel and sarcastic and mean i do this alot with my partner because i dont like to show my true feelings and i dont like to be weak or vulnerable and i dont want the person to know ho much ilike them, iam a very explosive person and i know i say some really horrible mean things sometimes but really i mean no harm at all..... sometimes we need a reality check on this because i know that its not a good thing and i have lost loved ones like partners because of my stubborn aditude, but deep down inside we love deeply and passionatley
I'm a Scorpio, my husband is a cancer, and I have to be honest....
In the past, I have said some VERY hurtful things. But so has he. Usually if I did say something hurtful it was to COUNTERACT if I felt like I had been hurt or someone else had been mean to me first. So, I would say that, I would never say something hurtful to someone if I didn't feel like they deserved it; however, if they were mean to me or acted like they didn't care how I felt, then I would say very sharp mean things on purpose, because I felt like they "deserved" it.
Scorpios learn about the balancing things out from their evolution from Libra, so Scorpios can sort of see justice in a more instant tangeable way, and that is when the "vengefulness" comes out.
Now, I have also said mean things without meaning to at all, but in my case, this is because I have some Sag in m chart and I can be blunt without having any tact. But usually my intentions are very good, I just say it the wrong way.
My husband and I always forgive each other eventually, even after blow out verbal fights, because we know that we truly love each other, and he also knows that I have a huge heart and that I don't really want us to fight or hurt each other.
Hi Artutina: I would not have an "I don't care attitue". If there is just anger in his voice, I would worry. If there is more passion in his voice, the relationship is important to him, but things need to change. I would say give both yourselfs a little breather. Then talk to each other.
For me being a scorpio that attitude and mantality is always within me. Its this certain girl i talk to on the phone and I purposelly say mean, nasty disgusting things t her just hoping she will get mad and yell at me and hang up, but she really really really likes me (part of my scorpio charm of love, and passion) and im not sure if i like her so i purposselly make her cry but it doesnt work. All scorpios are naturally like this even if they don't recognize it as part of their nature. Alot of the time we dont mean what we say but when we do we punch the strongest and lowest blows that we can to make a person feel pain in to the depths of their soul. its a shame that we scorpios are blessed with such strange mantality, but there is nothing we can do about it but just learn how to control it.
Usually I hide my feelings and don't talk about it... grumple or something to send them off... no mean cruel thing I can say.
Only when the feelings are on the table will the true me come out and then what I think deep down comes out and I'm very critical of people but they don't know it and for me it isn't lies personally..it's how I truly feel at that moment in time.. but it comes out when it's really pushed..sometimes it's helped me, sometimes it hasn't....
Yes...its true.
To people I dislike I can be very rude, and blunt...almost to the point of cruelty.
Scorpions hate women. They are short tempered. They hurt others feelings and it hurts deep. But this is their nature, not otherwise. They are not bad at heart, they forget what they spoke and hurt. They are not carriers of vengence.