ATTENTION Scorpio MEN! I want an answer ONLY from YOU. Scorpios ONLY?!


Question: Please do NOT answer if you are NOT a Scorpio MALE
(no offense to other signs or even Scorpio girls, but don't even bother to answer, because you do NOT know the mind of male Scorpio)

I am highly curious. I love you guys to death as friends, but WHY do other people say you guys are cheaters, flirtatious, & etc.

REAL Scorpio girls are honest, loyal, & devoted to their lover.

I really LOVE you guys as friends, but why do I keep hearing more negative things on you( the men) compared to us (the girls) ?

PLEASE BE HONEST- Do you fit this category?

( once again, I love you guys to death, but I am just curious)


Answers: Please do NOT answer if you are NOT a Scorpio MALE
(no offense to other signs or even Scorpio girls, but don't even bother to answer, because you do NOT know the mind of male Scorpio)

I am highly curious. I love you guys to death as friends, but WHY do other people say you guys are cheaters, flirtatious, & etc.

REAL Scorpio girls are honest, loyal, & devoted to their lover.

I really LOVE you guys as friends, but why do I keep hearing more negative things on you( the men) compared to us (the girls) ?

PLEASE BE HONEST- Do you fit this category?

( once again, I love you guys to death, but I am just curious)

Scorpio men don't cheat. It's very rare. I've never cheated on anyone (and never would), and the other male Scorpios I know haven't either. Scorpios are actually the least likely of any astrological sign to cheat on a partner.

It's a myth created by people who don't understand Scorpios. I think the sign tends to be more intense/secretive/has a cold exterior for men, as opposed to women. I mean... Scorpio is a feminine sign (because of its emotional fluidity), but has some very masculine characteristics. Add those masculine characteristics to a man, and they intensify.

Scorpio men tend to be VERY secretive and act very cold, which obviously makes people suspect things. We're just as loyal, devoted, loving, compassionate, empathetic, etc... But Scorpios rarely show their "soft" side, and Scorpio males are generally even less prone to doing so... which makes people think we're up to something.

I've also heard Scorpio men are flirtatious, which doesn't make sense to me. For myself, and the other Scorpio men I know, we aren't. We're more prone to ignoring people than flirting with them. If someone approaches us, we'll generally act cordial and kind and sympathetic, but a little withdrawn... which I guess appears like flirting (and "mysterious"... *gag*) to most people. But I know in my mind, half the time I'm thinking "shut-up and go away!" even if I'm acting very warm and open. We don't like hurting peoples' feelings (contrary to popular belief) so will often over-compensate and play a part to humour people... but we're only doing it to be nice, not because we have the slightest interest in the person. That's how I am, anyway.

Same with social situations in general... we aren't flirts or particularly social. We're just cordial and withdrawn enough to distance ourselves from a clique... which makes us "seem" social. But on the occasion we find someone we like (or are with someone we care about), we'll cling to them and secretly wish everyone else would just go away.

So... I think since we appear cold and withdrawn, it makes people suspicious of us. And since we can easily pretend to like casual acquaintances (and even appear interested and passionate) even when we wish they'd just go away, that just gives suspicious people fodder. But honestly, I don't know any Scorpios who have ever cheated on anyone (at least not to my knowledge)... men and women. Myself included.

Not a Scorpio male (I am a Scorpio female though)... but I dated one.... he was just as you described. His friends even said he was... though the excuse they gave me was that he had a bad breakup and was 'getting back' at her or making himself feel better about himself by being an all around jerk to the women he dated.

Mauture scorpio men are loyal and devoted. Immature ones not so much.

Can I reply as a scorpio ascendant, or will only Sun Sign Scopios suffice?

I've heard that about us also, I've never cheated on a girlfriend myself so I can only guess, but here's what I'd tend to think.

Scorpio men are often very passionate individuals and that's something people notice, women start conversations with me right out if the blue. If I were inclined, it might not be difficult to find multiple partners. And, since we (Scorpios) can be guarded, stand-offish, and even a bit selfish at times, it's a trap that seems pretty possible if not aware of ones' feelings on the issue ahead of time.

There are many reasons a person is who they are, astrology is just one. Position within rank of siblings is probably just as important. Good luck.

now heres a fun one! I am a scorpio and a monkey so im all over the place! But as a 15 year old im less mature but hey.
Heres a promise i made to myself. i would rather die 1000 deaths than cheat on a chick.hope that clears it up for you.

I suppose it's because people can't really tell what's on your mind. I'm not very interested in explaining myself or what I feel like. I suppose it's that mysterious quality that just draws or repels people. I don't really mind or care for that matter. Being a Scorpio, I don't really think I fit this category of being flirtatious or whatever, I'm not looking to find a problem on my doorstep. I'm much more content finding someone that I really like having around me, someone who understands me, and someone who really appreciates me for who I am. I enjoy my privacy and wouldn't have it any other way.

Perhaps it has something to do with other characteristics of Scorpios that draws such negative feelings from others. We're ambitious and are looking to be appreciated, so its likely that some would assume that we'd do anything to get ahead and be recognized. It's a possibility, right? Showing that we're passionate about things tends to turn people off because they don't really understand the essence of what we do.

We're strange and people don't really understand, so they draw assumptions.

And, honestly, no... I do not fit this category of being a cheater, flirtatious or whatever... I have no interest in theatrics or shenanigans. I like the peace of mind that comes with being someone people can trust. If I were a cheater or promiscuous, I think I would be most lonely in the world.

I don't think I'm the only one who feels this way. I'm sure that there are others out there who understand. I hope that this eases some of your concerns.



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