Does Taurus guy want me to chase him?!
Question: I have been dating a Taurus guy for about 2 months. I'm Aquarius. He is hot and cold. He will call and be all lovey for a few days, or show up at my house unexpectedly, then I won't hear from him for a few days. Then when I call him, he's like "you haven't called in days, what's up?" I don't want to come across as too aggressive, but maybe he wants me to chase him? Then sometimes when I call he never calls back, or takes a few hours or days. I thought Taurus were supposed to be straight forward and uncomplicated! He seems moody too, is that a Taurus trait? Maybe a Taurus guy can give some perspective.
Answers: I have been dating a Taurus guy for about 2 months. I'm Aquarius. He is hot and cold. He will call and be all lovey for a few days, or show up at my house unexpectedly, then I won't hear from him for a few days. Then when I call him, he's like "you haven't called in days, what's up?" I don't want to come across as too aggressive, but maybe he wants me to chase him? Then sometimes when I call he never calls back, or takes a few hours or days. I thought Taurus were supposed to be straight forward and uncomplicated! He seems moody too, is that a Taurus trait? Maybe a Taurus guy can give some perspective.
Oh you poor thing. Let me give you a little advice. Im a taurus. So you should find this helpful. Ignore him a little. Pull away not a lot, but enough for him to notice. This will drive him crazy and make him wonder "what the heck"? He is use to you being there and tolerating his behavior. When he starts with that "you havent called in days" routine, just be as short and quick as you can. You can probably answer him by saying something like "dont exaggerate". Trust me once you start acting like you dont care, he'll be all over you!
Wow! That sounds a lot like my Taurus guy. I am a gemini and I wish I had an answer for you.
Just a man. Feed him or fool around with him or leave him alone. Don't read too much into it. He is probably thinking about his car.
My husband is a Taurus
That is the way they are. When we got together he told me if I hadn't called him we wouldn't have gotten together. He said he wouldn't have called me because he was afraid of rejection. They need reassurance that they are wanted. They are not uncomplicated. They want and need to be admired.
n my opinion tarus people play games just to make sure that they r getting the real deal. I am not a tarus male (i am a female) but I liked to be chased...I will tell u I'm not interested when I am & even give alot of attention to some1 I'm not intereseted n just to c if the other person gets jealous- I will purposely not take your call & wait forever to call u back as if I were busy doing something else....but I will get SO aggrivated when u act like your not in2 me...Like the woman who said her husband is a tarus we really hate rejection that's why we play games cause we need to be sure u r 4 real
I am dating a Taurus. I actually was the one who asked him out, so he knew right off the bat what I felt and what I wanted. After that point, he was very persistent. We have been dating for over a year and a half, and there has not been one day that we haven't talked (more often than not, his initiation, especially in the beginning). My Taurus guy can be moody, especially when he doesn't have enough sleep, and he is definitely stubborn.
Has your Taurus been extra busy lately with work, or the sort? Sometimes a persons life can be so on-the-go they forget to remember the ones they care about. If I were you, I would have a straight forward conversation with him about what your feeling. Tauruses appreciate truth and honest. It tis better to know what's going on, rather than play the guessing game continously in your head.
Good luck.
ALL men want women to chase them.
Saint is right.... I have a thing for this Taurus man and I was always calling and coming by to see him and then poof I stopped because I know he was getting used to me doing all the work. After two and half weeks went by he called and checked up on me and was asking questions.
Give them some time to miss you and they're be calling wondering where you are and what you're doing.