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Question: Do you believe that we truly are the most sensitive in the zodiac? What has been your biggest challenge emotionally? For me, it's been finding ways to deal with my jealousy and trying hard not to second guess myself.
Answers: Do you believe that we truly are the most sensitive in the zodiac? What has been your biggest challenge emotionally? For me, it's been finding ways to deal with my jealousy and trying hard not to second guess myself.
i used to think that we are the most sensitive ones in the zodiac, but after reading more on other water signs- pisces and scorpio, i guess not. we all have different type of sensitivities towards different matters. adding to that we also have different ways of dealing with it. so hard to point out whos the most and whos the least. it depends, really.
as for my biggest emotional challenge- lately, is not to give in too much into my emotions and make excuses due to it. im learning to take more responsibility for my emotions and how they could affect my decisions.
another emotional challenge of me is that im learning to deal with less emotional peeps. sometimes i think they are too unemotional, that sometimes i think i have to teach them how to feeeellll. how to dreaaammm. but then again, even if i start teaching them, they will only disappoint me as i guess, they are just not emotionally well endowed as we are. esp those caps (in my case my cap friends)! even aries can be surprisingly be understanding when speaking of feelings. *phewww* lol.
yes, I find myself really emotional also. I get really jealous very easily and it's not that I am insecure it is just something in me. I am very cautious with a lot of things I do which isn't really a good thing, because I end up missing out. I have a tendency to stick with something because of convenience and not because it's something I really want, especially men.
Yup. For example, I find it very hard to break off relationships even when I need to because I don't want to hurt anyone.
i'm trying not to second guess my self
Cancerians are emotional people generally.
Overcoming the upset of mind controlled emotions.
I am very emotional when I get angry. Sometimes life is very frustrating (and my work is stressful) so I get all pent up. I am working on controlling my anger through stress relief courses.
Very emotional. I have a hard time dealing with stress. I tend to be very jealous as well and sometime a little self concious.
Yes. The biggest problem I face is not saying what I really want to say because I don't want to hurt the other persons feelings.
As fellow Cancerian, I find myself getting in trouble helping people out. Apart from my fulltime job, these are the activities, I am involved in and the last item is from my heart. I also consider myself a very lazy person.
1. Visit Seniors ( Infirm) homes and help the individuals out with walks,meals or fixing their clocks or replacing batteries. sometime even help with shaving.
2. Collect used and old wheelchairs, Walkers, Commode and other such equipment. fix and oil them and than give them, for free, to anybody who cannot afford them. Most of the times I have to pickup and deliver them.
3. Pickup old Soccer balls and find tourist who are going to the third-world, to send these footballs to kids over there for free.
last item) I find myself in trouble with helping people with money to people I know. They come to me crying and destitute and when I need the money some of them have no shame and are abusive. I know it is my fault, but I cannot see anyone in pain if it is within my power to eliminate the suffering. I guess, I am soft. Guess what, I am okay but emotionally hurt when friends break the Trust.
I am highly sensitive but not in an obvious way, when I was a teenager I was a wreak, I've learned how to control it better.
My biggest challenge is being a perfectionist and not letting go off the past.
Sensitivity is a double-edged sword. At our best we have empathy for other people; at our worst we can't let go of past hurts & disappointments. The best advice I can give is to live in the present and stop playing back the old tapes from the past.
I'm very sensitive and I can be a little jealous it's only because what is mine should stay mine. I do second guess myself from time to time.
My biggest challenge emotionally is getting out of my shell and letting down my guard. I'm so over protective with my feelings that I'm a little scared to show my true self to certain people.