What about Libras?!
Question: I just found out that I'm a Libra.
But I don't know what it means to be a Libra!
Help me, please?
Answers: I just found out that I'm a Libra.
But I don't know what it means to be a Libra!
Help me, please?
Hello, fellow Libra lady!!! We're a great bunch, us Libras! We're the Cardinal Air Signs of the Zodiac. This means we are leaders and we lead with intellect and logic. But Libra is also ruled by the feminine planet of Venus. The planet of love and beauty. This makes us gentle, caring, sweet, and nice to look at. But our Air Sign intelligence gives us a supreme, masculine mind. When you combine our charm with our intelligence, we become the master manipulators of the zodiac. But we want everything fair and balanced, so it's usually to everyone's advantage. We're diplomats and can see every side to every situation. We're notoriously indecisive. Mainly because there are so many sides and ideas to consider! How can we fairly choose one?! But when we do make a decision, we're strong in it and won't budge. We're social and flirtatious. We love meeting new people and getting new ideas. And we don't even realize we're flirting, that's how natural it comes to us. Some call us lazy, self-indulgent, and self-absorbed, but those traits come and go. And yes, you do have a natural beauty and the notorious Libra smile that can light up a room! Use it to your advantage! And as always, I'm pleased to see another lovely Libra lady here!
it means your intelligent, indecisive, a natural beauty, and all about partnerships, love and CAN NEVER make up your mind
A Libra is usually very closed up until they get to know you,then are very open.Usually very tidy.A Libra is very loyal,but also very jealous .You are also family oriented with a big heart.
Not too decisive.
All Librans are born between September 24 and October 23
Libra always sounds like such an enticing sign. They are enchanting people. But some complain that Librans cannot make decisions. They can. Only it takes them longer. Before taking any plunge whatsoever, a Libran must consider all sides.
Librans are reputedly artistic, loving and calm. And on the outside, they are all of that. It is, however, stressful to be a Libra. From childhood to grave, Libra struggles to keep the peace, settle disputes and maintain an atmosphere of tranquility at all costs. This preoccupation with equanimity requires diligent, hard work. My Libra mother used to brush her jet black Irish hair back from her forehead, breathe a deep sigh and say, "Ah, but there is no rest for the weary." Libra is often weary - exhausted even - from endeavoring to keep his or her ship on an even keel.
So Librans deserve their reputation for harmony, diplomacy and balance. But don't think that said harmony comes easy to this species. Librans spend tons of mental energy ironing out conflicts and fending off dissension. This balancing act, a talent for which they are most famous, causes Librans much turmoil . The earnest desire to calm troubled waters is not merely a desire. It is a crying need.
Librans are born as "unbalanced" as the next guy (maybe more so) and yet they work constantly to maintain composure. In order to exist in a tranquil environment, this character often makes huge personal sacrifices, giving up cherished projects, abandoning dreams, telling white (and charcoal gray) lies and giving in to the wishes of others. Relationships that work and cook along in a spirit of goodwill and general loveliness are the Libra's primary goal in life. To fulfill this objective, the Libra must never let down his/her guard.
Librans live for beauty and crave the esthetic. Whether it's fine art, interior decorating, building a house or balancing the books, they attempt to create symmetry in every sphere. We grow in the company of Librans. They show us why we are mistaken when we take the wrong path or get a fixed idea into our heads and can't shake it out. Yet Libra never enters the fray, always tamps down the fire, tiptoes around the issues and helps us to move from one step to the next without force or brutality.
Paradoxically, Libra can be downright quarrelsome. If you say the sky is deep blue, they counter with "Not really. It's more of a mauve pink today." You tell them you are buying a silver gray SUV and they come back with, "Not many trendy people drive silver gray anymore. Silver gray is considered tacky." Your deep blue sky is too determinedly blue. Your silver gray SUV makes too much of a statement. So Libra counters with a penetratingly catty point, throws his two and a half cents in sideways and fully expects that you will argue back so that he or she can go into the balancing act. My advice? Do not go there. Sidewind right back, skirt the issue, forget about sharing that deep blue sky with Libra and buy whatever color SUV turns you on anyway.
To a contrary-minded Libra, ten o'clock is ten-o -three and summer is not all that summery this year and steak au poivre is not made with crushed black pepper but rather with gray peppercorns rolled in a linen napkin and pounded with a hammer. Librans have an answer for everything and you (their captive audience) must wait until their polarized thoughts have all been exposed before you can move ahead. Their goal? Balance.
You say black, they say white. You cry wolf, they cry rabbit. You "brush" your teeth. Librans "wash" theirs. It can be annoying as a mosquito bite to be subjected to this constant balancing. Black is black for pity's sake. But not when Libra is at work interjecting opposing ideas to yours so that you won't be tempted to express some even heavier notion of your own which might tip the scales too violently and upset the equilibrium of the moment.
Getting along with Libra is a real challenge. It requires much discussion and premeditated pussyfooting. Keeping the peace is their goal, but should you push too hard and threaten to upset that hard won tranquility with some sudden movement or untoward remark - watch out! Libra has an unexpected volcanic side which, when it rears its contentious head, requires others to back down, flee the premises or throw ice water on the Libra to settle them down. If you have ever watched a Libra scream at a spouse over where to place the vase of flowers that the unsuspecting spouse has just arranged, you know what I am getting at. Libra rages are rare - but they come out of desperation over something they perceive as upsetting to their inner balance.
How do Librans behave in love? Librans worship their loved ones with an utterly loyal devotion. They work so feverishly at relationship management that the beloved sometimes wants to scream, "Will you please get angry at me? Just this once. Fight with me. Please throw something across the room or punch your fist through the door." When openly challenged or attacked, Libra's emergency balancing light goes on. He or she remains as cool as marble, sits quietly down and waits until you have finished your tantrum. Then, your darling Libra will try to talk it through rationally and (again at all costs) restore peace and harmony. Whatever his point was, no matter how crucial the issue might be to his or her own reality, Libra prefers to take a back seat and wait. So if you are in love with one of these forever see-sawing people, learn how to bring up problems stealthily. Make no waves that you cannot ride all the way to the beach without a ripple.
As for Libra and career, Librans are largely gifted for artistic professions. Painting , sculpting, designing, choreography, music, writing poetry or prose, theater, cinema and all the rest of the "softer" vocations are suited to the Libran esthete. Of course Librans make excellent diplomats (they are always on two sides at once), landscape architects, behind-the-scenes entrepreneurs and, quite naturally, teachers and lawyers
Libra is the sign of balance and balanced judgment, beauty, art, charm, and the social graces. Aries acts. Libra reacts. This is why it needs a partner, someone to get things started. Any planet placed in Libra will demonstrate that sense of balance, swinging from one side to another.
The Sun in Libra: Never tell one of these folks that they aren’t being fair. They tend to get angry with that one. And never argue with a Libra Sun-Sign head on. They will counter your every argument. Just look thoughtful, as if you are listening to their every word. You don’t actually HAVE to listen. Just look that way. With Libra Sun-Signs, it’s the outer form that counts. After they have finished, say "I see you’re point. But ON THE OTHER HAND" (and you must say "on the other hand") "isn’t there another side?" In many cases, they will think for a second or two, and reply, "You’re right, there’s another side" and they will proceed to argue for it and demolish their own point of view. A very fair sign. Balance is the key to understanding Libra. They can be aggressive one day and passive the next, hard at work one month and take it easy the next. And always, that charm, even when they are being shocking, like Lenny Bruce.
The Moon in Libra: needs charming surroundings at home. Not anything gaudy or showy. That would be more Leo. Just charming and in good taste. The women in the life tend to be charming and artistic, but not emotional or nurturing. Remember that little elegant touches appeal to Libra and that the Moon rules emotions. If you are dating someone with a Libra Moon, small touches will activate their emotions. Something like a tasteful card or small gift to show appreciation. They may seem above emotion, but they will feel really hurt if you forget their birthday.
Mercury in Libra: gives an active mind that sees both sides of everything. Libra is the sign of the balance. People with this one can take a long time to reach a decision, and then change it quickly when one new bit of information becomes available. Mercury in Libra people think better with a partner around.
Venus in Libra: is in its own sign. Venus shows what makes us happy, and here in Libra, that means beauty, tasteful surroundings, pleasant intellectual conversation. The negative side is a tendency to be superficial in relationships, ignoring the true character of people as long as they act on the surface with good taste.
Mars in Libra: has the maddening trait of fighting on both sides at once. Mars is supposed to be weak in Libra? Don’t believe it. It just keeps switching sides out of "fairness". A friend of mine has this one. During the Vietnam war, it was a toss-up who he was rooting for at any given time. One day he wanted to bomb Hanoi, the next day, he wanted to bomb the Pentagon (metaphorically of course; he was a peaceful sort). The one thing that gets these people moving in one, and only one direction is an obvious and clear injustice.
Jupiter in Libra: Jupiter shows how we can put all those little facts together, how we get the big picture. Aires will do this fast. Libra tends to take time. It has to balance all the factors. Unless something else interferes, Jupiter in Libra feels secure and safe in partnership situations.
Saturn in Libra: needs a partner in order to feel safe and secure. But it doesn’t have to be a marriage partner, nor does it have to be permanent. They simply need someone around to help them knock around ideas. Since Saturn is also the planet of fear, this placement of Saturn can also give fears with respect to partners. Perhaps, for example, a fear of loosing them or of making a mistake and driving them away.
Uranus in Libra: The planet of "I’ve got to be free" in the sign of partnership produces a generation of folks who tend to need their own space in marriage.
Neptune in Libra: This last happened from 1943 to 1956. That was the time of the "Man in the Gray Flannel Suit", the conformist, the company man. After the Great Depression and World War II, everyone wanted to get back to "normalcy". The illusion of that age was to think that if you don’t rock the boat, everything will be allright. For people born with this placement, there is a love of fairness and justice. Ironically, this generation did rock the boat during the riots and demonstrations of the 1960’s. Most of them were also born with Pluto in Leo, which added fuel to the fire.
Pluto in Libra Pluto in Libra: gave us a generation (1972 to 1984) that will be obsessed with art. When they grow older and move into positions of power, look for an increase in the art market. They will also be obsessed with fairness, justice, and partnership. Look for the institution of marriage to make a brief comeback, and for a push to reform the legal codes.
It is great to be a Libra. You are kind, peaceful, and indecisive.
Libras are lovers of beauty. Most are very creative and we love to keep things in harmony(balance hence the scales are the signs of a Libra) Most Libras are very outgoing and we are in love with the thought of being in love. We are very indecisive people. If you will look yahoo has horoscopes too and it will tell you lots about the Libra. Stay Cool and Good Luck!!!!
Their very unbalanced people (always seeking balance but can never find it) and worst of all their liars!!! But when they care they love deep.