Mars square mars in synastry, is it good or bad?!
Question: Mine - mars in gemini,
boyfriend - mars in virgo.
Mine - venus in leo
boyfriend - venus in leo.
help?.....pls
Answers: Mine - mars in gemini,
boyfriend - mars in virgo.
Mine - venus in leo
boyfriend - venus in leo.
help?.....pls
Mars in Gemini can mean procrastination due to flighty thoughts and impulsive actions...sort of a "say one thing, but do another" type of activity. While Mars in Virgo is the consistent hard-working planner who is determined to reach their goals. That has it's good points and bad points in a relationship. On the good side, Mars in Virgo becomes a stabilizing force...sort of taming and redirecting the impulsiveness of Mars in Gemini.
These people will either complement each other and meld as one by accepting the other or become frustrated with the other because they expect them to change to their ways. This is NOT an unworkable situation. If there is enough love and respect in a relationship, sometimes a little friction can actually make the relationship stronger.
What can make it unworkable is that both have Venus in Leo which tend to have a flirtatious, egotistical nature. So if the Mars in Gemini feels too restricted by the more demure, stable Mars in Virgo; they might just start looking elsewhere. The same is true with the Mars in Virgo...if they feel that the Mars in Gemini is too distracting to their subtle, dominate nature, then they might look elsewhere as well.
This is truly a test of love.
Mars square mars can mean that there will be friction in your goals for the relationship, and how motivated you are both to acheive those goals.
Astrologically speaking, squares signify difficult energies, as both are at 90 degrees to each others, thus causing resistance, blockages, conflict and the energies woin't be smooth flowing between the two.
Mars symbolizes the way we initiate, how we go after the things we want and our aggression levels in general. When 2 Mars square each other, the energies portrayed will be at oddas with each other. Both of you initiate in vastly different ways and this may be a source of temporary irritant between the both of you. However, if other aspects in your charts are more cordial and harmonious, Mars square Mars aspect is not exactly the most difficult to overcome.
Mars square Mars:
What does it mean to your relationship when your Mars is square your partner’s Mars? You and your romantic both think and express your assertiveness and sexuality in different ways. You can argue over it, exaggerating which one of you is right which will neither convert not satisfy either of you, or you can recognize that there are more than one ways to achieve your goals.