Are Aquarius female very hard to please or is it just me?!
Question: I have scorpio rising, taurus moon
Answers: I have scorpio rising, taurus moon
Aquarian females in general ?
yes and no.
You add more though.........you have fixed lots of fixed signs (stubborness, self preservation, etc ).
I am not willing to give you a "quick fix" answer. People who are serious about astrology refrain to do so and absolutely refuse to give standard answers unless they know you, your background, your childhood, your experiences, the whole natal chart..
It would be similar to ask a doctor online about "vague" symptoms and if a doctor is willing to give you a prescription without knowing you or even seeing you and ask questions : it is a quack. They will give you any medication..as long as you ask for one. And will leave it at that.
Highly suspicious.
Most Americans want a quick fix answer, a "feel good" factor. NOW. Hence all the copy-pastes which contribute to make that subject very risible to the general public.
Each time Linda Goodman is quoted as BA or some kind of " standard answer"..I cringe !!!!!!!...but that is what the public wants..compare it to the equivalent of tabloids. ( although she is not bad..but that is NOT serious astrology). That subject has to be studied in depth for years and still no one has the ultimate answer especially regarding individuals who all differ.
Serious astrology has the upper hand on just pure psychology because there are no terms really saying : this is good, this is bad; it is saying to the person : you are like that and you are entitled to be like that. You are not categorised. It does use psychology a lot.........but it is more "accepting" of the human nature.
Of course, some symptoms are best referred to....any seriuos astrologer would never dream to come up with quack answers when some serious mental treatments are needed. ( heck..am not talking about you by the way)
Approximately only one third of the "helping positions" get it right anyway. There has to be a connection between consultant and asker. We are all humans afterall.
Astrologers are like other people, They have their own weaknesses as well. They are not saints without faults and deal with the same problems and dilemnas as the rest of the humanity.
Serious astrologers have to sign papers like doctors in order to be remain "valid" and have to further their education for life. And reassessed etc..and when they feel they do not have some "chemistry" with a person, they usually refer to another qualified astrologer who might be be more of a help.
Serious astrology is fascinating and aimed to understand oneself and other people. But everybody has limitations and this subject should not be used to boost one's ego but to help others. Genuinely.
I will be the first one to say that I am rusty now and only relying on my past studies, observations and practice.
Nonetheless...I am human...it is very early here where I am and my intellectual capacities are not at their best.
I will try to give you a "broad" perspective which might or not apply to you. When I have time and if the question is still open.
ps: Leftie gave a standard answer again. Actually Aquarians are usually (thumb of rule again) to engage and ex[lore in all kind of sex. (non-conformanity here again) like kinky sex. Signs ruled by outer planets (Neptune, Pluto, Uranus) are more akin to this.
Yes they can be. Aquarius is a mental, aloof sign (air sign) which is forward looking and not too keen on social conventions. The total opposite of the "Stepford wives". The air element values communication and ideas above all else and Aquarians can be ahead of their times or at odds with their environment if they do not "conform".
However the whole chart, AGAIN, has to be considered.
Your moon ( the planet of how we instinctively react to other people, need for comfort, understanding, feeling close..etc) is in an earth sign. I suspect that it is in the 7th house - the one dealing most closely on a one to one basis -.It nurtures physically, is more down to earth, very loyal ( it is a fixed sign)..it does not need words. The moon in Taurus in this position can be overly pleasing sometimes but confusing to other people.
"I am feeling very close to you, am preparing you dinner, I want to cuddle and all that but at the same time I want to talk about world affairs".........confusing ??:-). I bet ! Maybe ? jumping from one "state" of comfort to another....
Those placements would indicate real opposite : I am intelligent, worldwise, but at the same time secretly crave a more emotional basic bond. But this is not portrayed through your ascendant.
Only a guess since you state that you ascendant is in Scorpio; therefore could be somewhat very cautious and not very open to the public at large. It is more of " I am watching you" but I like to keep myself in a secretive mode which might make other people somewhat intimidated/ or afraid to approach you.
You state 3 fixed signs. I would guess that it would be very difficult to know you, you have your guards up all the time..but once you let somebody in your "private garden" it matters an awful lot to you. Loyalty is an absolute must and betrayal would be very hard to take.
I am not too good at "trying to devine" people when I do not know the whole chart really...and even then I would have to take into account so many other factors : environment..etc..One has can just not apply the same rules to lets say an Inuit to a Japanese person and so on..
I just want to see "everything"...........people are so complex ! We are all unique that is why a chart is such a challenge ! Because it is unique as well as its owner !
Would wonder where you Venus is though...
I am an Aquarian woman and I am very easy pleased. I count my blessings everyday. The fact that I am healthy, have a job and freedom to do whatever I want....I am very satisfied with my life.
It's just you.
Female are very hard to please ! no matter what: sex delight, horoscope, natinality, religion......... You're just so hard to please.
It's not that we are hard to please, it's that we know what we want.
my sister aquarius is all over the place. she's happy all the time, though, so no one needs to cheer her up or please her. Usually everyone is doing what she wants them to anyway. that's a power I've never understood. If your aquarius doesn't have this mysterious power over people maybe that's why you're having difficulty pleasing them. maybe they're just crabby:))
you're looking down the wrong rabbit hole, try a water or earth sign......
well, im an aquarius and i have to agree with u. im hard to please, but keep trying..we will get satisfied eventually.. :D
It's not that Aqarians are hard to please. They can be perfectly happy with you. It is just that they can be just as happy with someone else!
Aquarius are very original people and freedom is what they value most. They are rebellious at times but that is because, they live in the future for the future. If you are old fashion in any way, don't even try to explain this to Aquarius people.
They are very humanitarian and do good in working in institutions, associations, organizations etc.... Even in relationship, if they break up, they will ask "Can we still be friends?"
Aquarians never take people at face value. they can examine you and probably counting how many hair on your eyelashes.
They store information in their mind for futures use and they will use it.
They want to know what is behind that face and may even ask embarassing questions.
When they are in love, they are very faithful but they also have the detachment and lack of emotions. She belongs to everyone, and yet no one.
The person she falls for, had better be true to himself. She's not a passion flower and physical love is okay as long as it is not overemphasized.
I am a Aquarius Female & I think to some I may appear to be very hard to please, because I am not easily impressed by anything and I don't follow any crowds, I choose my own paths in life. I don't think its just you, I believe a lot of Aquarius Females are misunderstood.
I have a Virgo Rising, Aries Moon.
Yeah they are that's y there men end up beating them up out of frustration then they start to respond.
it sounds cold but its the truth.
even tho I'm female
Im an Aquarian woman and I must say that Im not hard to please at all...we tend to be very understanding as well as down to earth. But we also tend to know what we want from life...exactly what we want.
I'm an aquarius and I am both easy to please and difficult to please. I know it's contradicting, stick with me here. I'm easy to please in the sense that I'm very accepting and understanding of other people. I don't expect a lot out of people and I'm the kind of gal that doesn't want to feel like the other person is trying to please me. As long as I'm having a great time with people then I'm as happy as a clam! I'm very content with my life! However, I am hard to please when it comes to doing group projects or competitions. I like to do everything my way and I know exactly what I want and how to get it. Other people will see that I'm hard to please when it comes to things like that. Best of luck!
I just don't think your up to pleasing them.