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Question: erm...i hope anyone could help me figure this out...
I am not sure if this guy likes me or wat.
-he seems to be interested in my life and
- offers to be a listening ear if i got trouble.
-he is always asking me to join his outing.
-he treat me to movie once and he say maybe we shd come out for more.
-he seems to be able to see through myself
-he will always try send me home
-all his frens tease him when we meet eachother
-he was the 1st to notice my birthday falls on the Chinese New Year eve before anyone does.
-he seems to already prepared some presents for me
**BUT**
we are just very normal friends and only know not more than 1 month...
We are just colleague at 1st...
i can see that he also tell other gals to take care...
he got lots of female frens like to cling to him...
he say he miss me,yet there's no reason to it.
So is he just a flirt or wat? did he appear nice and friendly to me just to flirt, like he does to every other gals out there?
Answers: erm...i hope anyone could help me figure this out...
I am not sure if this guy likes me or wat.
-he seems to be interested in my life and
- offers to be a listening ear if i got trouble.
-he is always asking me to join his outing.
-he treat me to movie once and he say maybe we shd come out for more.
-he seems to be able to see through myself
-he will always try send me home
-all his frens tease him when we meet eachother
-he was the 1st to notice my birthday falls on the Chinese New Year eve before anyone does.
-he seems to already prepared some presents for me
**BUT**
we are just very normal friends and only know not more than 1 month...
We are just colleague at 1st...
i can see that he also tell other gals to take care...
he got lots of female frens like to cling to him...
he say he miss me,yet there's no reason to it.
So is he just a flirt or wat? did he appear nice and friendly to me just to flirt, like he does to every other gals out there?
Scorpios are usually very protective/jealous. He seems rather stand-offish so it doesn't make much sense. I am sorry to say, it likely means that he isn't really into you. His behavior would probably be radically different if he was really interested. He is just being very nice and considerate and I would imagine it is entirely innocent. I wouldn't even call it flirting; at least not from his perspective.
He obviously cares about you and seems like a good friend. You should be appreciative of that. Besides that, his feelings are definitely positive towards you and that is more than what some people have in relationships. Though it doesn't seem like he is pursuing you, you at least found a guy with something a little more wholesome on his mind.
Besides, what matters most are your feelings. There is no way to absolutely know if he is interested in you or if there is another girl unless you ask and find out. And what if he is just not interested in anyone? That doesn't mean you can't change his mind. At the very least, he likes you as a friend. He clearly thinks about you now and again; he is considerate of you. You are off to a great start relationship-wise.
If you are interested in him, at least somewhat, then get to know him better. Spend time with him, have fun. I can promise you that is what he wants most from you at the moment, just your company. Serious relationships can and sometimes do grow out of normal friendships. It is also one of the best ways to get yourself a Scorpio. In many relationships, people have the mindset of "you vs me" but that will not work with this guy. You need to think "you and me". That is how he sees it and how he acts. Do the same and just be honest with him and yourself. Let grow what will grow. If you concentrate on your feelings and act on them, it will work out one way or another.
Lastly, I want to give a warning. It is a mistake people make all too often. Don't try to read too much into his actions. He thinks differently than you do; in fact, most guys do. What seems blatantly obvious to you could mean absolutely nothing to him. My guess is that he is somewhat aware of how his actions can be taken but figured that you were cool with it and didn't care what anyone else thought. In his mind, he figures he really likes you as a friend and thus behaves the way he does. He notices how other people react to it but ignores them as it has nothing to do with them. He sees that you don't turn him down; you probably have fun with him as well; and you don't respond negatively or overreact. So, he figures you reciprocate and there is nothing special going on, end of thought process. In this case, he made the mistake I am warning against. He assumed something based on actions but he didn't understand your concern because I wasn't thinking like you do.
Fortunately, people don't need to think alike to get along; in fact, it kind of makes life fun. So, when it comes to questions like these, it is good to be thinking about him. However, it is also good to just ask him or to talk to him; get to know him better. That is what friendship is about and it is an excellent foundation for something more (should you choose it).
Personally, I think he seems very kind and treats you really well. It is hard to find people that considerate. You are obviously thinking about him as well. It is good start for a relationship and you should definitely take advantage of it. Remember, this is yours and his world and as such, only you two matter in it. Any outside advise should not be taken too seriously as nobody else can really know. I wish I could be more specific about him but I don't know the guy and these broad generalizations and reaching guesses are all I can offer. I wish you luck.
kind of confusing, but I think he wants to at least get to know you better. maybe he wants to know someone else better too.
I'll go out on a leap and say he likes you but is a friend'y guy to others.
Scorpios will always be a mind Fark accept it He ain't ever gonna change so get used to it or divert from the relationship
As a scorpio myself I think it could just be an ego trip on his behalf. He probably enjoys the pleasure he gets from helping others. However, if he was seriously interested in you he would let you know in no uncertain terms. Be patient he may decide you are the one and he will definitely let you know.
I am a scorpio woman and while I do know a lot about scorpios in general, his actions are not those of a typical scorpio. Scorpios are usually very jealous, possessive and passionate people. He seems to be spreading himself all over town. Are you sure he is a scorpio? He sounds more like a Leo to me. Scorpios tend to prefer fewer more intimate relationships rather than a lot of casual acquaintances. He really does not sound like a typical scorpio. I think you will have to try something other than astrology on this one. I would try to keep it just friends until he shows exclusive interest in you and only you. Besides, do you really want to be dating someone who has that many female friends? You would have to always be wondering what's going on? Until he loses the other girls and make you an offer, step away from the scorpio. I am so sorry if that is not what you wanted to hear, just trying to protect you from future pain. Good luck!
Now thats a good scorpio keeping you guessing.. because he doesnt want you to see the real emotions he is feeling inside. So, Yes he is interested in you. And yes he does attract alot of female friends.. its in his nature. But when he wants one.. he lends to make sure you know by just those little things.. Being the first to acknowledge your birthday signs. He has let you know also by stating we should do this more.. He likes being around you .
the dude is probably gay im a scorpio and i dont act like that this star sign business is all a load of trash anyway by best friend has the same birthday as me and he is a twin and none of us are anything like each other
Sounds like he cares about you or he wouldn't be into you at all. One thing I have noticed about Scorpio men (and I am Scorpio myself) is that they do tend to gather a lot of female friends and get close to them, and take on a protective role towards them. It does not always mean he is going to make her his one and only woman though. Some Scorpio men are real ladies men and you really have no idea what their truest intentions are. I think the only way to tell is to see how things go over time.
he is so just your friend in my opinion, believe it or not scorpio men are very caring... all them i know give me the feeling of comfort like they know me- for others it makes them feel uncomfortable... he is just a really good friend- if he liked you- you would know... if you are attractive he may hook up w you and remain your good friend... i doubt he might date you seriously, it doesnt sound like he's into you like that, but maybe you'll capture his heart somehow.
Also there is a such thing as a very social Scorpio, myself and I know alot. I dont really attract home bodies as much. I am reserved about information (but not on purpose) that's scorpio nature, but on the surface Im as socially outgoing as a fire sign. It's hard to explain, but enjoy yourself and what you got obviously, a good friend.
Also by far my closest friends are guys, but I definitely have gal pals. My guy friends that are Scorpios definitely have a lot of girlfriends, but a lot of guy friends as well... so
Hi! seems like a nice guy to me---OK now to remove your suspicions get a friend to "spy" on him and report back to you----that will remove or confirm the "every other gals out there" problem---cheers!
lol don't believe in astrology :\