Are Sagittarius guys players?!


Question: My cousin has been seeing this Sag guy for two years. They see eachother once every 2-3 months and hook up..and he acts sweet to her but when they are not together he is an *** to her. What is going on here? She's a Capricorn.

I'm a Virgo just trying to help out ; )


Answers: My cousin has been seeing this Sag guy for two years. They see eachother once every 2-3 months and hook up..and he acts sweet to her but when they are not together he is an *** to her. What is going on here? She's a Capricorn.

I'm a Virgo just trying to help out ; )

When you're looking for signs of infidelity in a person's birthchart, you're probably going to be looking at the person's, moon venus and mars signs before you look at their sun sign, the moon deals with a person's emotional nature, venus how they love, and mars their sex drive. So,

Moon, Venus, or Mars in:

1. Gemini: A person with moon in Gemini will have a duality to the emotions. A Gemini mars or Gemini venus will crave variety in sex and romance, and so will be more likely to seek that variety of experiences in a variety of people. I have not met a man yet who had venus (or moon) in Gemini who didn't have at least 2 women on a string at all times. I expect it's the same story for women with mars in Gemini.

2. Aries: So impulsive, and really urgent sex drives. They find themselves in situations where they're being unfaithful because they act on their impulses before thinking the consequences through. And Aries is selfish as well. Very "me first", so they're thinking about their own gratification and happiness before anyone else's.

3. Libra: They're fence sitters, and have a hard time making up their minds. And they don't like conflict and confrontation. Probably the least malicious cheaters there are. Also probably the least likely out of this list, but I'm just saying it could happen. If a Libra influenced person is cheating, it's probably because they either really care for both people and can't decide which one they'd rather be wih, or they just don't want a confrontation with the person they'd really like to let go of. Cheating to keep the peace:)

4. Scorpio: A Scorpio influenced person will NOT cheat if they're in a serious relationship, period. Too much depth of emotion to ever do that to someone they care about. But they've also got a really high sex drive, so if they're not in a relationship with someone they really care about, it's possible.

5. Leo Sun or Moon men: It's all about the pride here. Also, they have really fragile egos, which they seek to hide by having a few women on a string at once, thus "proving" their masculinity. Leo influenced women rarely pull this garbage. They're incredibly loyal. If a Leo influenced man is going to do this, he's likely to have at least one of the Aries or air sign influences listed above, as they are inclined to be loyal as well, but they're still just men after all.

Now, as far as your cousin's Sag goes...

1. You're not likely to find a Sag who's willing to commit to a serious relationship when they're young.

2. If he's only seeing her every couple of months, and all they're doing is "hooking up", it's not a relationship.

3. If he's acting like two different people with her, one when he's getting some and one when he's not, it's not a Sag influence, it's a Gemini influence. Check for moon or Venus in Gemini in this guy's chart...bet you'll find it. Further, Sag doesn't like to treat anyone badly, we like everyone, we're friendly with everyone. The Sag influenced part of this person is not behaving like an *** to her, it's something else.

4. It is perfectly reasonable to expect a Sag to play the field....a LOT....before they settle down, but there won't be more than one significant other at once. Which could explain why he's only seeing her every few months. In the off months, believe he's getting it somewhere else. But it'll never be from more than one person at the same time. Sag is loyal to the person they're with, but we've got a low attention span, and out of sight is often out of mind for us.

5. Bottom line, your Cappy cousin probably needs someone a little more consistent and serious, and she's not going to find that in a young Sag, or even some of the older ones.


That's my take on it, anyhow. I could have missed something, or I could be wrong. Just my personal observations and opinions.

Wow, that was fast, thanks for best answer:) She'll get over being angry, you did it out of caring for her, after all. And she's got no reason to feel that any of this is reflective of anything to do with her, either. Some guys are just idiots. Report It

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You did the right thing. As women, we need to stop fighting over these kinds of men, instead of rewarding this behaviour. Still a girlie day is in order for your cousin. Get your nails done, do lunch, lots of shopping... Report It


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  • I'd say some are, but not all. I know a few sag guys that are afraid of committment and like to play the field continuously, and a few that are in a committed relationship.

    They tend to be mean if they don't get what they want or they found someone else that they like.
    Superficiality can be a big problem, and with you two being earth signs, he can be a little too inconsistent and unpredictable for u two I'd say.

    Only thing I can think of, is if his behavior gets to be a problem, then she should look for someone else more consistent. It'll be hard, but she would just have to get over him. Maybe another earth sign, or a water sign would be great for her.

    "I know a few sag guys that are afraid of committment and like to play the field continuously, and a few that are in a committed relationship."

    Boy, does THAT ever sum up my Sag ex-boyfriend...!!! He's the quintessential Peter Pan, afraid of commitment and growing up... even when he as in a committed relationship with me, I would still be waiting (15 years later) if I was ever expecting a marriage proposal.

    I'm of the belief that one's zodiac symbol doesn't really have a strong bearing on their personality, but I guess I am just being a stick in the mud.

    I guess I would just think that way because I am a Leo ...

    Really, though? Sounds like they have some complicated issues and don't really take it seriously, it's best to let them work that sort of thing out on their own.

    Yup.
    I gotta say yup!

    I asked everybody in my trailer park and they all agreed.

    Not that they are players its just that they are commitment phobes. They are afraid of being tied down to 1 woman for the rest of their lives. My ex broke up with me bc he said he was falling for me so hard that he was afraid he was too young and that he needed to experience more women before he became tied down. sounded like BS to me. Then once we broke up he kept coming back and playing games with my head because he didnt know what the hell he wanted. Then a year and a 1/2 down the line what do ya know good ol ex sag bf comes around and decides he wants to get back cuz he's "ready" and guess what it was too late cuz I had a new boyfriend by that time (libra). lol. Did he really think I was going to wait around till his commitment phobic *** was ready? LOL. but tell your cousin to stop sleeping with him (if she is) cuz that will just leave him at an advantage to think he can sweep her off and on her feet again whenever he wants. I hope this helped!



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