This is classic Virgo dilemma:?!
Question: Do you expect that anyone has same high standard as you? Talking about integrity...
If you tolerate, being a fair and have integrity...do you expect people will give you in return?
Cuz my personal answer is yes
Answers: Do you expect that anyone has same high standard as you? Talking about integrity...
If you tolerate, being a fair and have integrity...do you expect people will give you in return?
Cuz my personal answer is yes
I know it seems so simple, do unto others as you'd have done to you...I struggle with being distraught w/ the above dilemma. But I'm learning that all I can do is be true to myself and not put soo much energy to the responses of those who may not get it. Us virgos could avoid the dissappointment and irritation that comes with the expectation of "everyone getting", respecting and returning that integrity and high standard that comes natural to us -
We know of the pressure we put on ourselves to be the best that we can be - Imagine how our friends, peers, co-workers...etc., feel the weight of our high standards...We virgos can be extraordinary, but let's face it we can stand to loosen up and come to terms that everyones different, not everyone will be a member of the same club...
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As a true Virgo, I have learned not to expect anyone to have the same high standard of excellence as me. I have learned that my own standard is a little miskewed. It is warped in it's own self.
I also have the same standards for integrity, but I have also learned not to expect that from anyone else.
We Virgos can really annoy others because out standards are so very high, and it's just by nature, we aren't trying to be annoying. But we have to learn to settle down as life goes on.
I agree that a virgo has very high standards. It is either All or nothing with them. I dated one. THe sex was great but everything else was all about them. we are still friends though
I wish I could live in a world of my making,it would be perfect.Unfortunately reality is being a Virgo, you will seldom find other people that have the same high standards.You just have to learn to let other people live by their own rules & set your own standards for yourself. Don't expect too much from others or you'll just get constantly disappointed...Live & Let Live.