In synastry, sun conjunct saturn bad for the relationship? how?!
Question: sun cancer 23 degrees23'40
his : saturn cancer 16 degrees 24'08 (if these info can help).
Answers: sun cancer 23 degrees23'40
his : saturn cancer 16 degrees 24'08 (if these info can help).
first off, that is a pretty wide orb, so this "influence" should not be felt as strongly as say an orb of 1 or 2 degree(s).
nonetheless, saturn conjuct sun: he must try to provide the structure that you need in your life. if he is successful, then both of you will feel closer. if not, you will feel nothing gets done and he could do better. so, as you see, you need to understand that he is trying and how he is trying, and he needs to understand that he must persist even if you don't see what he is accomplishing.
this is tough, as in a natal chart, this aspect indicates a sort of "lone wolf" personality. so, in a composite chart, this creates mixed emotions about if this is going to work. the lesson here is to always know that each of you is there for the other, even in times of hardship. be there for him, tell him to be there for you no matter what. then, you can overcome this together. because both of you must work to overcome this, not just one person.
hope this helps and best of luck!
It does not need to be bad, but there is a danger with this aspect of the Sun individual feeling belittled by the Saturn individual. Firstly, Saturn is not happy in Cancer, it is the sign of its detriment, so the watery realms of emotions and depth is very difficult for this placement. Secondly, your Sun in Cancer means that you will provoke the side of Saturn that feels awkward in this realm just by you being whom you are. My suggestion with this type of contact is for you to make to give him what it is that he needs to feel important to you. Let him take the lead, and try to not let your emotions run the show. If you do this, then his Saturn will make you feel special and unique.
IT CAN WORK!
Regards,
Storm