Vanishing Aquarius?!
Question: In past relationships I have been known to walk out and leave without a call, note or explaination.....I know I have hurt a few people this way.....Am I the extreme version of an Aquarius? or has any of you done something similar? If so can you tell me about it and have you changed?
Answers: In past relationships I have been known to walk out and leave without a call, note or explaination.....I know I have hurt a few people this way.....Am I the extreme version of an Aquarius? or has any of you done something similar? If so can you tell me about it and have you changed?
Not an Aquarius. Don't have many Aquarius friends so I can't say, "Yes, this is so typical" or "Nah, they don't do that!"
BUT...
From what I DO know of the every so often Aquarius way, they are really good at detaching themselves emotionally and displaying this.
I DO know ONE Aquarius rather well, and she's actually NOT your typical Aquarius in that regard because she's very emotional and that makes her, her; Carrie or Care Bear for short!
But like I said, you have it in you to detach yourself emotionally, weigh the many, many pros and cons of a relationship, and see if it's worth staying!
You obviously have trust issues or you just don't see the relationship as worth keeping. Maybe you even need to be entertained!
Ask yourself what you REALLY, REALLY want from a person (don't know how you get down). And then go for that. Seek THAT out.
I'm glad you are seeing this as a problem; a road block even. Saying that I'm proud of you for noticing this pattern over and over again is an understatement. ^_^
If you have any other questions, send an e-mail or 3 my way! ^_^
LOL, thats me too!!! its one of my things that im working on 4 the new year. well, i have commitment problems that im actually seeing a therapist for....
I wouldn't call your escapism as an "extreme version of an Aquarius" as much as I would call it "a textbook version of an Aquarius" or what should be expected from an Aquarian. Aquarius is ruled by Uranus and that planet is an explosive, abrupt example of finality. When an Aquarian feels it is over, it's is definitely over....no hits, no errors, no one left on, period! The other person may not have had a clue, but it will be blatantly obvious to the Aquarian! This is a part of their uniqueness: their rebelliousness, their independent nature and their unquenchable thirst for freedom.
I am not an Aquarian, but I have Aquarius rising....when I'm through with anything or anybody...I'm done, period. There is no 2nd chance or turning back to take a 2nd look, it's over!
I think more than anything that response is a sign of fear. Independent of your zodiac sign, I think it has more to do with your past. More to do with your fear of relationships, and fear of getting hurt. Or could simply be, you just dont want to get emotionally involved with people. And I feel if that's the case, you should at least try to be honest from the get. Mainly to avoid situations that would cause others harm, and further add to your inability to maintain relationships.
I'm Aquarius and can say that I've never done that. I might be the exception for our sign but I LOVE committed relationships and I'm very emotional and sensitive. When leaving a relationship, I always let the other person know what's on my mind. Whether I'm nice or mean about it, I have to say something or I won't be able to get the closure that I need to move on. By the way, I'm only mean if the person cheats or lies. I break up on good terms if we just don't get along.
No, you are not alone in the manner in which you have left relationships. It happens all the time. This could very well be a characteristic of an Aquarius who has not yet developed the maturity or skill to terminate a relationship properly. Because you have confessed to this behavior and ask questions from others does not let you off the hook as far as guilt goes. Leaving a relationship without so much as a goodbye is cruel and heartless. It takes courage, skill and an attitude of respect to end a relationship humanely. I hope you learn from your mistakes and become a more evolved Aquarius in the future.
hahah good, coz im the same. well sumtimes i go threw a stage where i dont no wat i want anymore and shut everything off and just leave the relationship. then i wud come bakk because AGAIN i didnt no wat i want and came bak. im almost 18, jst havnt had a proper relationship b4.