Sagittarius and forgiveness?!
Question: Reconcilliation with a Sagittarius man?
I am also a sagittarius. he is about 30 years older than me. I found that he said many things (while fighting or just conversation) to only have him say "I never said that. He wanted to get married at on point but i didnt want to after just coming out of a bad marriage.
After knowing him a while, I started having feelings for him and changed my mind. He got very evil and said "I told you im not getting married". After finding out I was pregnant things went down hill. After I just got tired of his stubborn, old a**, I stopped speaking to him. left about 20 messages & Called maybe 40 times within 4 days.
He finally begged me to rebuild the relationship. I agreed. We vowed to prove that we would not end it just because we do things that hurt each other or do not like.
After a suggestion I made that he didnt like. He reduced me to friends with benefits again. He got a kick out of seeing me hurt. While talking I through a glass of juice in his face. Will he forgive?
Answers: Reconcilliation with a Sagittarius man?
I am also a sagittarius. he is about 30 years older than me. I found that he said many things (while fighting or just conversation) to only have him say "I never said that. He wanted to get married at on point but i didnt want to after just coming out of a bad marriage.
After knowing him a while, I started having feelings for him and changed my mind. He got very evil and said "I told you im not getting married". After finding out I was pregnant things went down hill. After I just got tired of his stubborn, old a**, I stopped speaking to him. left about 20 messages & Called maybe 40 times within 4 days.
He finally begged me to rebuild the relationship. I agreed. We vowed to prove that we would not end it just because we do things that hurt each other or do not like.
After a suggestion I made that he didnt like. He reduced me to friends with benefits again. He got a kick out of seeing me hurt. While talking I through a glass of juice in his face. Will he forgive?
the big age gap contributes on him being domineering and impossible. sag men have the habit of being stubborn even when they are young, and the stubborness would be even more firm as they get older. he is playing games with you, hurting you, asking for forgiveness, then hurting you again. sag men have a way of doing that, they would promise that they would not do something like that again, then would repeat it. move on. find another sign, there are eleven other signs of the zodiac.
GIRIL GIRL GUL! I have been through a similar situation with a sag male and I am a sag female. They never change they are stubborn and so are we but the only difference between sag women and men is that we are more loving and forgiving then the men. I finally got out of my stubborn, lying, cheating, drugy, relationship and I am glad I did. It is not worth it. I was in my relationship for 5 years and it just seemed like I was his mother and when he did something he always said he wouldnt do it anymore and always did it again. But If I did something to him it would take him forever to forgive me. I finally left for good when he stoled 800.00 from me the weekend of christmas after I took him shopping after we broke up and felt sorry for him. NOT WORTH IT MOVE ON! Go find a gemini or Aries which will be good for u!
I'm going to be blunt, you both need to grow up. Find a way to get along with him if he plans to have a relationship with his child. If his does not plan to be part of the baby's life, move on, work hard to make a good life for you and your baby, and stay away from men for a while.
It sounds as if you were both in this relationship for the "benefits". Whatever those benefits meant to each of you; I think those "benefits" (obviously monetary) helped you more than they helped him; which is probably why your main concern is that you don't want him to hate you. You never mentioned any concern for the baby's sake. Is the baby his? If the baby is his, then you believe that cursing your baby's father, calling him names, ridiculing his age (which wasn't a concern before), and throwing juice in his face makes any sense?????
The 30 year difference should be your biggest concern. Sag men are impulsive and often speak before thinking. This can be tamed over time, and if there is mutual respect in the relationship the benefits of the Sag male out-weight the impulsive "stick your foot in your mouth" tendencies. The concern here is with his age, not sure if he is ready and willing to tame this nature. Also, the age difference puts him in a more dominant role and although he will forgive you, and probably gets a thrill from these explosions of emotion, the situation isn't going to change for the better.