I'm Cap, He is Virgo, We are moving together, starting a clothing company. I!
Question: We met 3 yrs ago, 1 1/2 yr ago he told me he had feelings for me but then got cold feet (admited he was scared of relationship a few months later). Since then we are really close but, not together officially. There is signs he likes me, but as a virgo he is hard to read. He always ask me where I am, where im going, when i will be back, I know he does that because he care. 6 months ago we decided to move together as "roommate" and start a clothing company together. We are leaving in 2 weeks for a new state. Sometimes he will be distant and cold (always when he is tired), sometimes he will be all over me. I don't know what to think. I am not looking for a relationship full of romance, not my kind at all. I do like him, a lot. And I do a lot of things for him to show him. I am a devoted person for him, always making things that will make him happy. Always doing everything for him. that's my way to show him since he doesn't like demonstrative people.
Answers: We met 3 yrs ago, 1 1/2 yr ago he told me he had feelings for me but then got cold feet (admited he was scared of relationship a few months later). Since then we are really close but, not together officially. There is signs he likes me, but as a virgo he is hard to read. He always ask me where I am, where im going, when i will be back, I know he does that because he care. 6 months ago we decided to move together as "roommate" and start a clothing company together. We are leaving in 2 weeks for a new state. Sometimes he will be distant and cold (always when he is tired), sometimes he will be all over me. I don't know what to think. I am not looking for a relationship full of romance, not my kind at all. I do like him, a lot. And I do a lot of things for him to show him. I am a devoted person for him, always making things that will make him happy. Always doing everything for him. that's my way to show him since he doesn't like demonstrative people.
so adorable.
being a fellow cap, these are the things that i look for in a relationship.
oh sure, he cares. he already admitted to you that he had feelings for you, and with a virgo, that never changes. he's afraid of relationships because he has probably had bad experience with them, however, i think you are what he needs.
cap/virgo has very high compatibility, perhaps the best match for virgo and capricorn.
he asks where you are going, because he wonders if you're going with someone. he cares enough to ask you, and that is alot for a virgo. he is distant and cold when he doesn't feel good, because he is tired and doesn't feel up to it, and sometimes he can be doubtful you care for him. he's all over you when he's not tired because truly, he cares about you.
lucky for you, virgos aren't the ultra-romantic type. they show their love through simplicity, such as caring where you are going and earning a living for you, or simply doing the dishes or laundry so you don't have to.
keep doing things for him. your way of letting him know you care without being forward is something he will admire, since he is afraid of the commitment at the time. eventually when you cannot contain your feelings for him (you will get the capricorn obsession syndrome), you must let him know you love him, verbally. you two will be inseparable, but make sure that you make this verbal commitment only when you plan to go the longrun with him. be sure to make it short and believable. a simple, truthful ''i love you.'' should seal the deal.
you should have success with your business. a cap and virgo in business should end up a prosperous one as cap and virgo have the same ambitious work drive.
good luck.
Forget the astrology stuff and just look at the situation. You're living with this guy, you have started a business with him, and now you are relocating to another state, and you THINK he likes you. You had better be darn sure of where things stand before you do anything else and that includes relocate. I hope you have taken legal steps to outline the business plan and the expectations you both have of your roles in it and what you expect of the other person. You had better think long and hard about this and stop relying on your star signs to guide you. Have a frank talk with this guy and hammer out the facts of your relationship, both personal and professional, before you both wind up in a situation that neither of you can handle.
This is a very good match.....!!
The attraction between these two in the beginning could be physical and similar attitudes on financial affairs. Good relation for financial affairs. You two can go far in a chosen field of endeavor, as the other will encourage and aid their efforts willingly and with all his/her resources. Each realizes that the other's career is all important to them both, and will not stint on the encouragement.
Capricorn is prone to depressions, and Virgos changeability may cause him to feel that Capricorn should be able to shake these off and keep going, so if nagging is resorted to in these times, then Capricorn is apt to sink deep in the depression that he may disappear for a few days just to 'get it together again.
Virgo should avoid all critical nagging at these times. The area of making friends with others may also cause some problems, as Capricorn is impressed by power and position, while Virgo disdains these things, and judges by personality and temperaments.
Sexually, one is a good match for the other as their world does not revolve around the physical relationship as with some signs. They both tend to faithfulness, so jealousy may never be a problem for them.
One final word, Virgo are odd and when Virgos are on a threshold of submission, he'll cover his true feelings and his acting talent will come out. He may pretend to be disinterested.
Tell you one thing, if he is genuinely in love, he will wait for years to claim his true mate or travel over a mountain to bring her home. If you think that you have lit his flame, let's say, THIS FLAME IS STRONG AND ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO EXTINGUISH.
They hate ignorance, stupidity and sloppy thinking almost as much as they hate dirt and vulgarity.
Virgos look for women who are clean in body and mind, who dress well but not flashy. A mentally lazy women will never make it with Virgo even is she's fairly oozing with sex appeal.
He may have cranky moods now and then but one thing is sure, if you leave him alone, he won't go out of his way to start an argument, Just let him get over hhis grumpiness and he'll surprise you with tenderness to make up for it. Let him worry. It's good for him and like a mental exercise for Virgo.
LASTLY, DON'T EVER NAG HIM. He's not an angel and it seems only he can criticize. Accept it and laught it off. It will pay in the end.
No. But have fun and make it an adventure. one of you are supposed to be in the new location. The other will move on after a brief stop in the new State.