I am a Capricorn who has an annoying Libra and Sagittarius as Friends?!
Question: I am a capricorn woman.
Can someone tell me about freindship with a libra and sagittarius freinds?This two girls always try to change my personality,and annoy me with how to behave,how to have fun etc
I am having enough of their ****.Yet ,I don't cretisize them but they in most times, have to give negative comments about me whenever we go out socializing.They Introduce me to people by labeling characters that I don't recognize myself.And the new people I meet ask me questions and tell me at the end that my freinds said that.It is furstrating and I don't know if I need to end our freindship of 20 years.
But when I meet them individually, instead of grouping up,they are fun and not annoying at all.
Pls any suggestions?
Answers: I am a capricorn woman.
Can someone tell me about freindship with a libra and sagittarius freinds?This two girls always try to change my personality,and annoy me with how to behave,how to have fun etc
I am having enough of their ****.Yet ,I don't cretisize them but they in most times, have to give negative comments about me whenever we go out socializing.They Introduce me to people by labeling characters that I don't recognize myself.And the new people I meet ask me questions and tell me at the end that my freinds said that.It is furstrating and I don't know if I need to end our freindship of 20 years.
But when I meet them individually, instead of grouping up,they are fun and not annoying at all.
Pls any suggestions?
Actually Libra is very sensitive I am one, I had a capricorn friend that tried to change how i dressed and everything. But I would never try to do that to someone else. No matter what their sign is you shouldn't hang out with them if they're trying to change who you are. I stopped hanging out with my cap. friend and met new friends that were more like me. You've been friends for 20 years, well sometimes friends outgrow each other. Thats what happened to me and a few other friends I had, but when you lose a friend you will always make another one. Always surround yourself with people that lift your mood you don't have to settle for less than what you deserve.
I believe that any star sign could be friends.
I am also a Capricorn and have a Dagittarius friend.
We get on so well.
Generaly, I do not think you should let your star sign get the better of your relationship.
If they tell you to change your personality, say no !
Simple as !
You are who you are :]
Hello.. I'm a Sagittarius and I can tell ya that I have no problem being Friends with the Cappies! I have lots of cappy frens and we are awesome together.
You sound so serious.. perhaps.. they just say it our of fun. I am not sure about Libra but us Sags like to talk BS w/o realizing it. LOL. I mean it.. and we are honest to a fault. Maybe she does really think you're a little uptight. by reading your question, I can see that you're quite a serious and sensitive person which Sags and Libras aren't at all. However, maybe things aren't that bad. You should talk to 'em about how you feel... and I believe as best Friends, they would try to make it work. If you don't tell 'em and bottle up your feelings, nothing can help you save your "20 years" of friendship cuz if you never speak up, they will never know. Trust me.. esp the Sags. They are not very good at assuming something. even though she may feels it but if you ain't tell, she will take it as "No PROBlem!".
Seriously, I get along with cappy just fine.
Perhaps it's just 'em or is it just you? You need to find out to work it through. It's not easy to maintain a good friendship/relationship after 20 years. It takes efforts and a certain level of understanding. Most of all, ya'll need to be open up with one another!
Good luck!
Well, I'm a sag and I have to agree with #1 girl.
Hell we are insensitve at times.
take it as it is ,or leave it!
i am libra and,if somebody bothers me,i just ignore!
what the hek for to listen ,even,to them?
annoying,sometimes are our family,sisters,brothers,parents,grands..... about the strangers?nobody is perfect,honey
i have both libra and sagittarius friends. when we all meet it, these two signs would go in different directions, and i'm stuck trying to decide (which is a problem for me) whom i'm going to go with. the librans idea of fun is different from the sags. best way to get both these signs to stop trying to change you would be to tell them in a firm but indirect way. being firm for your sag friend and indirect for your libra friend. but tell them separately.
for sagittarius
You’re often regarded as aloof; this is the result of inward-looking Saturn dominating your character. Sagittarius will change that. Many, but not all, Capricorns have a conservative approach to life, and aren’t as optimistic as Sagittarius.
At first you might be overpowered by their personality, but you’ll soon get into the swing of their easy-going style. Sagittarius will shake you up until you show the other side of your character. This will actually make you feel pretty comfortable and upbeat.
Sagittarius has a huge need for freedom. They often love sport and anything to do with the outdoors. As you are more reserved and cautious, you’ll need to accept their free-spirited ways into account and realise that this is an essential part of their life.
for libra
On the face of it, a combination between Capricorn and Libra may not seem the best of matches. But a closer look reveals that both of you will bring value to this relationship and can satisfy each other. You could develop a secure partnership, perhaps even a marriage.
First and foremost, your ruling planets, Saturn (you) and Venus (Libra), are friendly, astrologically speaking.
However, you must give up the idea of controlling, with Libra. This will be hard, because it is one of your driving forces. You have a strong instinct to gain leverage; this is tied to your material and professional ambitions. You also tend to use power for gain in your relationships.
This might not work too well with Libra, who believes that power is a resource that everyone should have a fair share of. There’s a distinct difference in how the two of you use power. You’ll have to try hard to understand this difference if the relationship is to survive and prosper.
Libra is concerned with the social and psychological connections between people. This means they like to create an independent and comfortable lifestyle. This suits you too, and so would be one plus for you in a match with Libra.