How do I know if this cancer man wants to be with me?!
Question: I recently found my first love on myspace. I was so happy to have found him and he was happy to hear from me. We have been keeping in touch for the past 5 months after a 10 year gap.
The problem is that there are large communication gaps between us and I would like to get the ball rolling and communicate more frequently in hopes of forming a happy relationship like we had before.
I am confused because of the large gaps. I have been going with the flow and being patient. I don't want to come off as needy or desperate so I usually allow several days and weeks to pass before calling him because that is how often he calls me. If he called more, I would call more too.
I try to initiate contact but I still feel like he's being distant on purpose. One moment he is sweet and the next a little inconsiderate.
I've read countless information about how great are signs are together (I'm scorpio, he's cancer), but it seems a bit challenging right now.
Any suggestions?
Answers: I recently found my first love on myspace. I was so happy to have found him and he was happy to hear from me. We have been keeping in touch for the past 5 months after a 10 year gap.
The problem is that there are large communication gaps between us and I would like to get the ball rolling and communicate more frequently in hopes of forming a happy relationship like we had before.
I am confused because of the large gaps. I have been going with the flow and being patient. I don't want to come off as needy or desperate so I usually allow several days and weeks to pass before calling him because that is how often he calls me. If he called more, I would call more too.
I try to initiate contact but I still feel like he's being distant on purpose. One moment he is sweet and the next a little inconsiderate.
I've read countless information about how great are signs are together (I'm scorpio, he's cancer), but it seems a bit challenging right now.
Any suggestions?
Well, I don't think you should think about signs and everything because those things are true sometimes. I'm a cancer myself, and I think that if the other person took the first step, it's sort of... better. Haha. Maybe he's trying to test if you'll talk to him any time. He just wants to know, if you'll stay with him no matter what. He probably doesn't call as often to try not to seem needy either. Just try to go with the flow and hopefully everything goes well. Good luck and I hope this helped in some way.
DANG, this is a hard one. I am a Cancer female so maybe I can help, then again probably not!! Be a little more aggressive maybe? Us cancer's love to be pursued aggressively. Or maybe, he is not single? and rather then hurt your feelings, he lets days go with out contacting you. I can't say that Cancers are going to be up front about being attached to someone else, because the attention flatters us. So maybe that is his reasoning. I don't feel that I helped you very much, I am sorry (helping is just my Cancer nature!!).
scorpio and cancer should be pretty compatible... however, that just means you're compatible. it doesn't mean there's going to be attraction between the two.
if he's not calling you every night to catch up and hear your sweet voice, it means he's not interested in starting a relationship with you right now. so are you going to wait around until he decides to pick you up? i hope not because it already sounds like you've waited way past ENOUGH.
advice:
move on, and find someone who will give you the attention you deserve and need. love should come naturally, not one person desperately seeking the attention of the other "distant" person.