What to do now? Scorpio and Cancer question?!
Question: I am a Moon Maiden (cancer), and I just married my Scorpio. I know all about Scorpios, but I don't understand how he can be so darn rude to me in front of other people. He will make very rude comments about me, or just flat out disrespect me right to my face. We have been together for twelve years, but just recently married. I am a good woman to him, I know I am, I just need to know if maybe I am too good and that is why he thinks he can get away with it. I have tried doing less, but then I don't feel true to my nature any longer. I just need advice on how to deal with his inconsiderate words and what to do about his un-appreciating manner. Please help me to decide what to do next.
Answers: I am a Moon Maiden (cancer), and I just married my Scorpio. I know all about Scorpios, but I don't understand how he can be so darn rude to me in front of other people. He will make very rude comments about me, or just flat out disrespect me right to my face. We have been together for twelve years, but just recently married. I am a good woman to him, I know I am, I just need to know if maybe I am too good and that is why he thinks he can get away with it. I have tried doing less, but then I don't feel true to my nature any longer. I just need advice on how to deal with his inconsiderate words and what to do about his un-appreciating manner. Please help me to decide what to do next.
That stinger is too much isn't it? I would sit him down (preferably a place near some water) where he is relaxed and tell him calmly that what he does hurts you. Make your stand but no dramatics, no threats and definitely no crying. He will be quiet and probably will not acknowledge it at the time but believe me he will think about it and maybe change his behavior down the road. Don't expect a mushy apology though. If he cares at all he will show you in some other way.
Just tell him you're not putting up with it or do it back to him.
It could be because Cancers natural concern for other people may somehow lead Scorpio to think that they are using Cancers good nature and disposition, secretly these thoughts will come from a touch of jealousy of Cancers interest in someone besides him. Cancer has great respect for Scorpio, and even though Cancer is of a slightly critical nature Cancer needs to learn to phrase these criticisms without wounding Scorpios pride. I would suggest you sit and talk to each other and try to reach some sort of compromise and mutual understanding.
Don't let him get away with it, treat him like he treats you, being disrespectful is not nice and once he has a taste of his own medicine he might sit back and think twice about doing it to you again. I am a Scorpio and my daughter is cancer and I know that both can live together quite amicably
Work at it - up to a point. However; I warn you: Scorpios are hard 'work.' I know!
I'm cancer and i know how hard it is to be this lol.we are so loving and we excepted it back but i must say this Carnot be acceptable no matter what sign you both are you must tell him when your both on your own you will not tolerate this from him hes your husband and should love and respected you ,you must all ways be yourself we are good people and if your hubby don't stop you must take a step back and take time out and see where you need to go next with your life ...im a very big believer in angels ,they are all ways there for us all you only have to ask them to help you ,then look around for your answer it will hit you in the face (not literally lol) take a bath we think very well when in water and listen to your inself and good look .....scorpios can be a little up them selfs sometimes ...i mean that in a nice way ....
I'm a Cancer and have been in a few relationships with Scorpios (including my current one). We've always gotten along great and I've never had one disrespect me- EVER. I do believe astrology has its merits but the problems you are experiencing have absolutely nothing to do with astrology. Your husband just sounds like he may not be a very nice person. The only advice I can offer is that you talk to him and let him know how you feel because maybe he doesn't realize how much his comments and behavior affect you.
Good luck
You need to make your man feel secure, he's hurting you because he's jealous..... Tell him it's hurting you....
I don't think it has anything to do with your signs it has everything to do with how he was raised. You need to talk to him, he obviously doesn't know when he's got something good.