Am I disrespectful?!
Question: I am sharing a flat with one Gemini and one Aries girls. The problem is they always say I upset them with something but I never mean to, they tell me I am too much for example, I do not have limits or I am too talkative or I am too childish then when I ask them why why you have to tell me they act like I hurt them. Recently the Gemini put a pickled bamboo in the fridge and it smells so much and I told her about it and she and the other flatmate told me I am disrespectful but it smells on all of my food anywhere and everything that is mine from the fridge smells of it and I feel I do not want that smell, so I just told her directly and she is offended now, maybe she will trow it away but is it my fault that actually I also have a part in the fridge, am I disrespectful?
I feel bad now I do not mean to hurt anyone but these girls they always pick on me like it is my fault and I really do show respect but they still think I do not. I am also upset. I am a Taurus.
Answers: I am sharing a flat with one Gemini and one Aries girls. The problem is they always say I upset them with something but I never mean to, they tell me I am too much for example, I do not have limits or I am too talkative or I am too childish then when I ask them why why you have to tell me they act like I hurt them. Recently the Gemini put a pickled bamboo in the fridge and it smells so much and I told her about it and she and the other flatmate told me I am disrespectful but it smells on all of my food anywhere and everything that is mine from the fridge smells of it and I feel I do not want that smell, so I just told her directly and she is offended now, maybe she will trow it away but is it my fault that actually I also have a part in the fridge, am I disrespectful?
I feel bad now I do not mean to hurt anyone but these girls they always pick on me like it is my fault and I really do show respect but they still think I do not. I am also upset. I am a Taurus.
Maybe your just a little BLUNT. Some people take it personally instead of how it was intended but I'm not sure how you approach them or talk to them. Disrespectful would be if you threw their items out without telling them because it stunk up the fridge. Maybe you should find a different place to live if you want to stay friends. Good Luck
no & please see relationships
Try to find middle ground.
How about throwing a box of baking soda in there...?
Problem here is not astrology or being rude - frankly if my food was always messed up, I'd be pissed too.
The problem is roommates !! Get your own place girl, I have had roommates before and some were just plain jerks
They sound like two RUDE babies.
Not to be rude, but it sounds like everyone needs to find something to do, so these little things do not become big dramas. It might be a good idea to look for a flat with people who are more like minded to you. It doesn't sound very relaxing......
wtf does this have to do w/ ur zodiac sign??? it sounds like there being rude..and i bet i no y..CUZ UR FREAKING BORING!!! OMG! U ALMOST PUT ME 2 SLEEP!