Question about compatibility.......?!
Question: I was born on a Gemini/Cancer cusp.. (june 21). My guy is a Virgo..When I did a natal chart compatibility, it counterdicted itself a couple of times, so that got me thinking.... Everyone always says what signs Gem's and Cancers are supposed to get along with, but since I am on the cusp, does that mean I compatible with everyone Gem's and Cancers are compatible with? How would you figure that out? Am I astrologically compatible with my guy?
*I am not going to break up with my man....we get along great...I just want to know the astrological part of it, so please none of the you are compatible with everyone, astrology has nothing to do with it answers! Thanks!:)*
Answers: I was born on a Gemini/Cancer cusp.. (june 21). My guy is a Virgo..When I did a natal chart compatibility, it counterdicted itself a couple of times, so that got me thinking.... Everyone always says what signs Gem's and Cancers are supposed to get along with, but since I am on the cusp, does that mean I compatible with everyone Gem's and Cancers are compatible with? How would you figure that out? Am I astrologically compatible with my guy?
*I am not going to break up with my man....we get along great...I just want to know the astrological part of it, so please none of the you are compatible with everyone, astrology has nothing to do with it answers! Thanks!:)*
Yes, this contradiction IS going to come up because you're on the cusp of gem/cancer. Now, cancers are darling with virgos. But virgo and gem is a complete nightmare. Come on, we're both ruled by mercury, which is a powerful communication planet. There will be too much battle of the minds. I get the feeling from you (from reading your answers) that you are more on the side of gem. You are definitely a thinker, and you have a lot to say. You are also very informative.
I don't think it matters what the chart says, I think it matters how well you treat this man. You'll do fine girl.
~smile~
Very soon scorpio will attack on Virgo, and inject its poison to make it aggressive. This aggressive virgo will form a strong force with Gemini/cancer. Ego of each will make them fight with each other and destroy themselves, making you free from your expected trouble. Eating "Khichdi" on three consecutive saturday will further ease your problem.
If you're as tweaked as your question, you'd better hold onto him tight. It may be a long dry spell until you find another one that can deal with your style.
Astrology went out with the pick up line , " What's your sign ?".
Beside, there's a greater hand in what happens to us than the stars.
Have you compared your numbers to his ?
Water signs, earth signs, fire signs. You're either extinguished or mud.
The real thing to look at is how you get along. What you share and how you interact.
Forget the rest of the crap.
the thing i've found most profound when finding compatibility is the north node of the moon.
you each have nine planets, plus rising signs, there's bound to be a mix of dynamics going on, otherwise you would just be the same person. no one's planets even get along with all their other planets let alone someone else's, but that's what makes relationships deep and rich.
look up the north nodes of your moon. they don't have to be identical or trined to eachother, but they probably have a relationship with another of your planets.
My Husband is born the on the Summer Solstice too....I am a Saggitarius......we have managed to be married for 26 years...
Laughter is important in maintaining a relationship, as is giving ones partner distance and space to grow.
Sun signs mean nothing in compatability my lover say, he is trained astrologer. Venus is planet of love, look at Venus' aspects and three houses relate to love.