A Scorpio woman in deep long-term relationships with mostly Aries men? Hmmmm?!
Question: I am 46. I've been reflecting back, looking at my relationship history. I've been studying astrology for some time now, so I know that there is more to a relationship than the two lovers' or partners' sun signs.
I am a double Scorpio, Capricorn rising, Leo north node, with her Venus in Libra. I was born when Neptune was in Scorpio, so I have to be careful. Yet, the most significant relationships I have had in my life have tended to be with Aries men, second only to Sagittarius, followed by Leo. All fire signs.
A Y/A user suggested that I might be compatible with Aries--given my sun, moon, and north node. Can you shed some light on this? I am still learning about astrology--particularly spiritual astrology. It's fascinating.
It happened again today. I just met an Aries man, whose rising sign is Gemini. A superficial reading of this potential relationship would say "no go." What do you think? Can you explain the attraction? What would be the challenges? Benefits?
Answers: I am 46. I've been reflecting back, looking at my relationship history. I've been studying astrology for some time now, so I know that there is more to a relationship than the two lovers' or partners' sun signs.
I am a double Scorpio, Capricorn rising, Leo north node, with her Venus in Libra. I was born when Neptune was in Scorpio, so I have to be careful. Yet, the most significant relationships I have had in my life have tended to be with Aries men, second only to Sagittarius, followed by Leo. All fire signs.
A Y/A user suggested that I might be compatible with Aries--given my sun, moon, and north node. Can you shed some light on this? I am still learning about astrology--particularly spiritual astrology. It's fascinating.
It happened again today. I just met an Aries man, whose rising sign is Gemini. A superficial reading of this potential relationship would say "no go." What do you think? Can you explain the attraction? What would be the challenges? Benefits?
I am a Scorpio with Venus in Libra as well, and I find Aries men quite attractive so maybe it's that combo :) And fire signs in general!
Where's your Mars? If your Mars is in a fire sign then that could be it. Or maybe your Mars is in your descendant?
Because he has Gemini rising and you Capricorn could actually bring a breadthof fresh air in your relationship.
People may see you as cold, restrain, practical, lacking cheerfulness and do not make friends easily. I hope you realize that Saturn, your ruler demands patience in the long run before he rewards you. You are nearly there at 46.
Cancer in 7th....hmmmm !!!! You view people as changeable, clingy, and too emotional. You may even see your partner as too possessive. Really ???? You are probably seeking a "mother image " in your relationships.
Mars in Scorpio shows you as attracted to men who are intense, and having a kind of charisma about them that hints at smouldering sexuality and passion.
You are strong-willed and possessive, and like the same in a mate, for you have a deep-felt need to be wanted.
A subtle psychological power struggle may be a seductive aspect of the attraction. You may seek to control - especially through sex or seduction and often attracted to men who seem "powerful" or "dangerous".
Mars in Scorpio gives extra strong passions and desires that is sensed by others. You are the "Seductress" and may be easily aroused by the raw sexual energy of a passionate man.
Regardless of how you appear on the surface, there is a "warrior woman" inside you, and what you really want is a "warrior" who can challenge you and stand up for himself. Then, you will respect him immensely.
Of course, one must not forget that you prefer to be the initiator in all matters and HATES coming in second place in anything. Period.
Aries won't take orders and you will never take a back seat. Both of you are physical, energetic, and passionate and each has a forceful personality and wants to control the other.
This is a hard match but everything is possible. Aries ability to give way to others will be severely put to the test by your attempt to take him over; and VICE-VERSA. The major problems is Scorpio's unreasonable jealousy, and unchangeable for that matter. Try to change her !!!!
Aries can become claustrophobic if he has to follow your idea of nesting. You feel that a domestic environment is the place to be relaxed and cut off from the rest of the world. Aries' main interest in living to the fullest, parties and friends.
You have certain ideals which he is expected to live up to, and any failure not to will cause her to push him right out.
You have to allow him to decide where to go and what to do. Play the dumb blonde for a change AND he'll save you. If you are out with him and you flirt with someone else, be prepared to call a cab to get home. Aries does like skin and cleavage, therefore you could win him back. It will not work a second time. He can argue with you, and when you think you have won, he will still do it his way. He wants to chase you, so let him. What's the problem here ?
Don't tell him you love him until he proposes. To catch him, give him his head and follow his lead. Every day is an adventure for him. So Rest up!
Having said this, there's no room for two heads in one family because both are natural born leaders. Sexually, no problem.
If you can learn to trust him, and he can deal with your insecurities, this relationship can work. Both of you will have to be more cool and collected and ready to talk things over before making any rash decisions.
Scoprio is water which can put out his fire, BUT, if HIS Aries fire is large enough, it can dry you up water completely. You provide sensitivity and patience whereas he provides motivation and courage to act, that which you usually lack. Respect each other because each has the capability to destroy the other.
Fire and Water on a positive note creates STEAM when properly balanced. Steam moves Ships that weigh a few thousand tons. Isn't this positive energy?