Can I trust a Scorpio guy?!


Question: I've been with my scorpio boyfriend for 4 months now, but I feel like I can't trust him since he has never told me how he feels about me. I feel like Im in a friends with benefits kind of relationship. He is really sweet and all but how do I know if he really wants to be with me? thanks


Answers: I've been with my scorpio boyfriend for 4 months now, but I feel like I can't trust him since he has never told me how he feels about me. I feel like Im in a friends with benefits kind of relationship. He is really sweet and all but how do I know if he really wants to be with me? thanks

he does feel something for you, it takes scorpios time to open up, they dont know how to, all his life im sure he has never done it w family and close friends.... it's incredibly hard for us to do this, but since he likes you (obviously) im sure he would be willing to try.... what you do is ask him, straight out- in private.... be sweet about it and make sure you come across trustworthy.... I was talking to a scorpio guy for 5 hours the other day and one of the things he told me was betrayl was the worst thing in the world to him.... translation: these guys are so serious and intense that to break off a commitment would ruin their life (or do it for a very LONG time)... so you have to be patient, he likes you but he's feeling you out. The first answer you get from him wont probably be what you want to hear.... more than likely he will be beating around the bush- dont call him out on it, just recognize it, and go back to it: relay what he said in simple terms.... example: "so what your saying is...." put words in his mouth, so he doesnt have to say it... and though it may not look like it, he is very wary of what you'll do w his feelings after this. Oh and tell him how you feel about him, be specific (he'll match you, what you confide in him, he'll confide in you the same level and style of info).

Only if he is not a Scorpio dude like Charlie Manson. If he is, RUN!!!

NO first interact with the person then take the decision...

U need an Aries guy...we tell the lady right off if she is pretty, if we love them, ask what they want in a relationship and how to make it better...we are passion lovers!!

I wouldn't trust any guy no matter what sign they are, but Scorpios are usually fiery tempered.

i've been with 2 and it was like dejavu all over again. absolute selfish pigs, only out for themselves.

but you should trust your own instincts, good luck babe

This is actually a normal question as to whether one can trust this certain person or not.

You will certainly need to know him well first. If digging his feelings seems hard for you then you should know what to do.

A Scorpio do not tell his feelings on the spot like some others do. It takes time and they usually beat around the bush. If you see that, then dive into it cos that's what he's trying to tell you.

give him head he will want to be with you for sure i mean a ******* is one of tha best things in the world trust me on this suc him up good....

Scorpio men [scorpios in general] are very very secretive.
They are afraid of being hurt, they are afraid to let their feelings be known, becos there is always that chance that they will open up and get screwed over.
I know that he feels very intensely about you, its a given.
Relationships, especially romantic ones, are top priority to him. Most likely he cant get you out of his mind.
He will probably never tell you this, even if you ask him.
Trust him, but you most likely never want to really trust anyone with everything you have.
But scorpio men are really loyal and wont betray you, unless you betray them...
I'd say trust him, trust that he has strong feelings for you, and though he may not say it, its there.
Sometimes the strongest type of love is the silent kind...

If you feel like it is a friends with benefits package then that is probably what it is. A woman's intuition is rarely wrong. Having said that, I want you to know that I understand how you feel. I have been with my Scorpion for a little over twelve years and I still question if he really loves me or wants to be with me. Scorpios don't express their feelings very often, but once they have made them known, they expect you to believe them and to know that is how they feel always. Sometimes he shows me through his actions rather then through his words. Your relationship is still really fresh, and you do not mention any ages so the best I can tell you is to follow your instincts and to set him down and talk to him. Do it near water, and don't be judgemental or give him an ultimatum. He will listen, he might not react right away but he will think it over.

no way, all the scorpios I know aren't trustworthy cuz they got 2many damn secrets but they're cool to be friends with just don't let them get to your head cuz they'll take control

You know,like a Scorpio I am,scorpion′s ppl don′t show their feelings...I don′t know why but the majority of scorpion′s never show their feelings maybe because we have a tough personality...of course many of them are different...

Sounds to me like he is getting just what he wants out of you. After 4 months you should know if a guy really likes you or not. Scorpio men leave clueless wounded women behind them in droves, who expected too much and set themselves up for failure.

As far as trust, I think you should give them the benefit of the doubt until they do something to tell you you can't trust them. That is with any man, really. Also, here is an insight to how one scorpio feels about this luve stuff and I hear it's common. I got asked the other what my biggest fear is..."Falling in Love". Yes, because when I finally do love, I love to the fullest, but sometimes I love so hard, it's hard for me to realize whether the recipient is worthy of my love. That's with anyone...they fall in love but it's with the wrong person. Anywho...I just got out of a relationship that was about Nov. 07, too. He kept pushing me and pushing me on my feelings on what do you what do you like how do you feel, what about this and what about that. It was too much! I felt like he pushed me so far I fell of the cliff! I just don't say this is how I feel...you can tell by the way I'm acting. If I'm smiling, I like it...If I'm angry I dont. If I tell you I love then, I love you...but dont' FORCE it. Also, to me, the relationship can't go anywhere without first being friends. If you feel like you are a friends with benefits, try to hold off on the sexual part, first that will NOT allow him to have his way all the time, and this will definitely be a curve ball to his game. You have to him a chance to WANT to go to you. Me, it's when I actually WANT to be aroudn a person, that triggers me to realize..."That's who I want to be with". Also, you will prove to him that you do honestly care, cause you want to take time to talk to him, have a conversation, do things...once he gets comfortable he'll open up. It just takes time, patience and honesty, if you can give that...promise you'll get what you want in return.

oh you won't hear it from your scorpio guy too quickly, no matter he's really in love with you or not. it's not in his nature. and... i would propose you to start noticing little things he does for you (if he does). it shows his real feelings perfectly. and maybe some day... your scorpio will break and he'll ensure you about his feelings but be patient :)



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