Water sign love triangle, Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio?!
Question: I'm a cancer, and I'm so so in love with one of my friends, a pisces. I really thought he liked me,we have so much in common, but last night I saw him getting all close and personal with another girl a scorpio. I went home and cried they looked so happy, I kind of teased him about her and he said they were just friends, but he was all glowy. She's way hotter than me and she's not a bad person, but she likes him and I think it's for the wrong reason, she's turned down better looking guys but they don't have as much money as he does. I just don't know what to do, I want to tell him but I don't think I can, he's way into her, and I feel like last night kind of confirmed that him and I arent as close as I hoped. I know in my heart that I'm much better for him, but I'm not sure he thinks so. And he's so into her. Advice please, what should I do? How should I handle this? I fear rejection, but should I just tell him what I'm feeling anyways? How?
Answers: I'm a cancer, and I'm so so in love with one of my friends, a pisces. I really thought he liked me,we have so much in common, but last night I saw him getting all close and personal with another girl a scorpio. I went home and cried they looked so happy, I kind of teased him about her and he said they were just friends, but he was all glowy. She's way hotter than me and she's not a bad person, but she likes him and I think it's for the wrong reason, she's turned down better looking guys but they don't have as much money as he does. I just don't know what to do, I want to tell him but I don't think I can, he's way into her, and I feel like last night kind of confirmed that him and I arent as close as I hoped. I know in my heart that I'm much better for him, but I'm not sure he thinks so. And he's so into her. Advice please, what should I do? How should I handle this? I fear rejection, but should I just tell him what I'm feeling anyways? How?
I would back off. You don't know what experiences he might need to go through, to become who he will be. This might be one of them.
If you and he were meant to be, it WILL happen. Meanwhile, be there as friend, and he'll confide in you always.
I understand your fear of rejection, most people have it. I, for one, am not afraid of rejection, and although that makes things easier, I still think the best thing to do is confront him (personally). If he says he doesn't see you in that way, then you finally know and you can move on. If you don't ask, you're just going to find out later, and you might as well get it over with.